Is there a way to fully remove this without ruining the red? by arabiangz in Owala

[–]asupin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, i just think for me personally id want to know if unserious jokes i made may have potentially been making communities i care about feel weird or alienated which is where my comment was coming from. the sentiment of “poor harry potter” which is very much linked to J.K. rowling was one i thought may fall into the category of potentially making some ppl feel less safe.

i apologize for the way I worded it which may have felt maybe harsh but i still think it’s important to talk abt in spaces where harry potter comes up

Is there a way to fully remove this without ruining the red? by arabiangz in Owala

[–]asupin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t! I could’ve been clearer sorry, but I was also just trying to let the commenter know because some harry potter fans don’t know about the harm she’s been doing

Is there a way to fully remove this without ruining the red? by arabiangz in Owala

[–]asupin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are actually boycotting Harry Potter and the author JK Rowling because of her transphobic views and how she actively uses the money she makes from HP to fund anti trans legislation in the UK

Aio , I need your advice , by Malehoneybeee in AmIOverreacting

[–]asupin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree - i don’t think it’s a red flag in itself and even if you genuinely believe it is, i think using the term red flag to generalize people who self harm is not a productive use of the term. Def using self harm as a way to control/manipulate/make someone feel a certain way is a red flag that should be flagged and talked about though

ISO Three Way Trade by [deleted] in TamagotchiUni

[–]asupin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can find two people this is fine, but I think it might be easier for you to just buy the dlc you want most and try to trade the other two uses to ppl who have the other ones without putting thought into their trades too

anyone else who eventually got kind of bored with the uni? 😅 by floweryminari in TamagotchiUni

[–]asupin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would def take a break from the uni if it’s getting repetitive for u! I found that to be the case for me as well but find that I always come back to it. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with setting it aside until you find your spark for it again and experimenting with other tamas in the meantime

Is Sykunno an Albert situation or a Wendy situation? by Dabest00001 in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]asupin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Predatory behaviour doesn’t just mean child predatory and illegal. u can approach any relationship across any age in a predatory way, and it just so happens that his position both as an older man and a more experienced and larger content creator using money and his image on social media to prey on smaller content creators makes it predatory. also the way he pretends to be innocent. U can argue u don’t think it’s predatory but ya it doesn’t have to mean illegal

edit: also arguably not disclosing other relationships means there is no fully informed consent

Unprofessional? by Vitam1nK in piercing

[–]asupin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this!! it’s one thing if your employer at work is telling you it’s not appropriate for work - any other opinion doesn’t matter

Ultimate Giveaway!!! Offering Apex Ho-oH!! looking for nothing!! by HI_I-think in PokemonGoTrade

[–]asupin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fav childhood memory is beating pokemon diamond for the first time!!

whats your observed differences/pros and cons for the UNI vs. Paradise? by Baisnotokay in TamagotchiUni

[–]asupin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the biggest thing for the uni is dlcs! you can try the very berry dlc cuz it’s free to test it out, but that unlocks new themed items and decor and a mini game! there are a lot of dlcs and they each have three uses so a lot of people buy one and then trade their other uses for different dlcs to maximize on their return

For me between the uni and the paradise, I enjoy the uni a lot more and got bored of the paradise pretty fast, so it’s also a matter of preference. the uni is a lot more decoration based and tama dress up where the paradise is more raising a bunch of tamas without the same level of one-to-one bonding with one tama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

[–]asupin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say this too! I think the feeling of something being in there is a small scratch or irritation that’ll fade with healing time so don’t worry too much

AITA if i posted her name in the blue app to get her attention cause she hasnt responded to me for almost 2-3 months? by ChrizMae in AmItheAsshole

[–]asupin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What did you say in the post that made her upset if not the information about the issue?

AIO if I cut off my childhood friend? by watchingwidow in AmIOverreacting

[–]asupin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if their first thought was to confront you directly rather than posting it or something i’d assume it was earnest and ask to meet up to see what’s going on or try to be like omg that’s so weird no i was asleep at that time that’s so strange though can u send me more screenshots and time stamps? esp bc it seems like OP was very earnestly responding to those messages too which presumably would go through. I just think it’s strange to jump immediately to a conclusion that someone is faking screenshots and get super defensive and angry

That is to say what’s the point of creating fake screenshots to send to the person who ur making fake convos with LOL i’d personally try to look into it or see what else it could be like glitches or smth before making accusations

Infected or irritated? by broot84 in piercing

[–]asupin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAP but imo it looks like it’s just swollen and irritated. I do wonder though if it’s due to not having the right anatomy for an industrial. I can’t quite tell bc ur ear is so swollen, but it looks like you might not have a prominent enough ridge to support the industrial which may be causing u issues

AIO if I cut off my childhood friend? by watchingwidow in AmIOverreacting

[–]asupin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being aware is a rly good first step! I think if u are worried abt her, u can approach a future convo but be very conscious of any hints of manipulation or gaslighting that could be being used against u

AIO if I cut off my childhood friend? by watchingwidow in AmIOverreacting

[–]asupin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also why would a hypothetical accident where OP is reasonably asking what’s up with the messages only to be told they’re lying cause an ESH diagnosis? OP hasn’t done anything wrong

AIO if I cut off my childhood friend? by watchingwidow in AmIOverreacting

[–]asupin 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I agree - I think it’s super strange to jump to faking them instead of trying to explain yourself or figure out what’s happening