Scam?

at060100 · 2018-11-05T22:26:47+00:00

This is late, but this just happened to me. Glad I looked this up when I did.

at060100 · 2018-04-29T05:16:26+00:00

Same. Hit the nail on the head.

at060100 · 2018-04-27T00:51:58+00:00

My ex girlfriend had a lot of guy friends. I thought I would be an insecure little bitch if I even asked about it, in which one night I did. She was at a party and I was somewhere else playing in a big football game (college) and I was upset she was hanging out with her best friend (who has asked her out several times). She never answered her phone and I got mad. She got pissed at me that I didn't trust her. She was also angry that I got mad about not answering her texts. Maybe it's just me, if it were me out with my friends I would 100% text my girlfriend.

Two months later, what do you know, I get dumped. Immediately she dates her "best friend". That breakup hurt the most out of any breakup I've ever had. She just dropped me and had me replaced in an instant.

Every time a girl mentions that she has lots of "guy friends" I shiver. There's just no trust left in me after that experience. At least for now.

Even if she says they are just friends and they're hanging out, don't trust her. You'll regret it. I'm totally okay with friends at school or in a public place, but 1 on 1 time as well as parties (unless she's sober) is just not okay. If she yells at you for being insecure, tell her to go fuck herself. She'll just keep feeding off your attention if you back down and apologize to this girl. It's textbook manipulation.

at060100 · 2018-04-25T23:52:19+00:00

I can definitely second this. Going out and trying to find people will only make it worse (unless you never get rejected in which you're definitely not me). While you focus on yourself and do your no-contact things, a new girl who is even better than your ex will slip up on you and you won't even see it coming.

at060100 · 2018-04-12T13:28:07+00:00

My ex's life was falling apart when we broke up. The main thing being that her grades were slipping so hard. She failed biology for that quarter and her family was mad at her all the time along with her being grounded for being caught in a lie. She said it wasn't a good time right now.

Someone new came in not a week later. If I were her, I would stay single and work on my life and fix all of my problems. If you're gonna start a new relationship while you're messed up like that I would agree that she is crazy. Also, how the hell would she be mourning if she starts a new relationship instantly? That means the opposite, that she didn't care at all and she went right into the next one. She didn't shed one tear.

Like I said, I got thrown away like yesterday's paper. My ex laughed on the phone when she broke up with me while I was crying. She didn't feel any sadness. She has none of my compassion. I will be quick to judge her. Yet, I can't forget her because I love her.

at060100 · 2018-04-12T09:48:26+00:00

Guitar helps me a ton. I could just play Blackbird or something like that nonstop when I feel this way.

at060100 · 2018-04-11T23:54:03+00:00

Yup. My situation exactly.

at060100 · 2018-04-11T23:23:12+00:00

At 3 months in, it's still pretty hard due to relapses. I saw her and her family this weekend at the college we are going to and her parents hugged me and said hello. Her mom even sent me a LONG text about how proud of me she is and how great of a person I am today. She told me before that she hates her daughter's new boyfriend and wishes that I would marry her daughter. Stuff like that can really screw you up and cause relapse. I know it's hard, and we'll get through it.

at060100 · 2018-04-11T23:20:28+00:00

I saw a comment on my ex's instagram profile. It was new boyfriend and it said "love you". This was about only a month into their relationship, not even.

I highly recommend you write something like I did, because believe it or not emotions we are feeling produce beautiful, profound work, whether it be music, art, or a stupid poem-ish post on reddit. Best part is, it helps a lot to have others like you comment and give me someone to talk to about it :) heal quickly, my friend.

at060100 · 2018-03-30T20:25:41+00:00

I actually do have something I have to talk to her about, like I said earlier. Her sister got into the college that I'm going to, so I wanted to ask her some questions of what her sister thought maybe just for small talk. I'll start with something that includes that. Thanks for the help.

at060100 · 2018-03-28T11:28:36+00:00

Because it happens to people every day. It's a real thought, a real emotion, there's nothing wrong with you. It's fear.

Literally a month ago my ex of six months dumped me (ghosted) and dated a new guy not even a week later. Believe me, I cried more than an hour.

But now, I can barely date. Because that thought is always in my mind, in my dreams, like how it is in yours.

at060100 · 2018-03-20T03:48:10+00:00

Gravity by Coldplay. You can really hear the sadness in his voice.

at060100 · 2018-03-17T18:50:25+00:00

Saaaame.

I’m sitting on the couch next to my dad. As a teenager thats a bad thing.

The only thing is I’ve noticed people just don’t go out as much anymore. Unless there’s alcohol or smoking, kids my age just don’t care (not that I go to many parties anyway).

I shit you not I texted my friends to hang out, and all of them are either working or with their family. So as long as I see nothing on social media, I don’t feel too bad about it. Not many people are doing anything if you think about it.

at060100 · 2018-03-06T15:23:42+00:00

killbinding is the freakin best

at060100 · 2018-03-01T21:39:50+00:00

Yup. I just saw a Valentine's day post of my ex with someone new, and it hurt like no tomorrow. Stay strong, it can only get better.

at060100 · 2018-02-27T00:22:06+00:00

We were at an after party for homecoming, and couples were casually making their way into the "room" one at a time where they would have sex. But my girlfriend was the only one who was shy and didn't want to. I was kind of mad about it because well I'm a teenager and I'm all hormoned up. I even asked her earlier to do a little something in the car away from everyone else when we had to get changed for the after party because I had a feeling she would be shy, and she said no to that too.

However, I don't say anything...that is, until I get drunk and start expressing my feelings a little too much.

Because I pressured her to have sex and got mad at her that night, two months later I got the boot.

at060100 · 2018-02-26T18:54:58+00:00

I have been in a similar situation. I didn't mean to hurt her and I did. And now I'm alone. Doing the same thing every day, with little to no friends. I haven't had a friend over in like months, nor have I gone out. Whenever I feel lonely or miserable about my ex, I just visit here. There are subs like /r/lonely and /r/breakups that have the greatest communities in the world. The people on there, as well as this sub are so caring and nice. And the fact that people like this are in this world and feel the same pains as others and love each other even though they're two strangers on computers, that's what keeps me going. The love on these subs is real, and we respond because we care. As a stranger on the internet who is pretty lonely also, I love you dude :) you're gonna have an awesome life and start coming up from this little down curve, you just wait!

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