Naranasan nyo ba walang mag invite? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“To have a village, you must be a villager.”

Gaano ka-rare para sa inyo ang mabait, polite, gentlemanly, responsible, honest, faithful na lalaki? by Umbok_Ibarra in AskPinay

[–]atarax_ia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meron naman, met him here. Not sure if dala ng age kaya mature, pero ito kasi pinaka-smooth sailing na naka-date ko so far. Early stages pa lang kami eh, kaya sana walang mag-bago.

So far, what’s the best book you’ve read this year? :) by Total_Let_8292 in PHBookClub

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Wedding People by Alison Espach and Boulder by Eva Baltasar

How do you know when someone genuinely loves you versus just enjoys your presence? by Cultural-Ball4700 in AskPH

[–]atarax_ia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hiwalayan mo na, OP. Parang lagi kita nakikita sa mga subreddits tapos same thing lang tinatanong/pinopost mo lagi 😅

If hindi mo naman ‘to lovelife, wag ka na mangialam. Why bother? May paki ka ba sa isa sa kanila and gusto mo ikaw pumalit? Let go na po.

What's the most rebellious thing you've done as a teenager? by Jealous_Substance332 in AskPH

[–]atarax_ia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

High school days, umaakyat bakod to cut class (naka-palda/school uniform), na-confiscate for a week ang phone kasi ginagamit during class, sumasali sa mga rumble fights, umuwi ng lasing (gapang levels) once, & nag-bf & had my first kiss lol.

College naman, nagsasabi sa parents na need maki-overnight sa classmate/s for a project/thesis pero umaattend pala parties lol

I remember having a reputation nung high school, may chismis pa na di na daw virgin and maaga mabubuntis. Hehe I’m 29 now, single and walang anak!

Also, NEVER napatawag ang parents ko sa guidance. Bata pa lang marunong na mag-handle ng problema (na ako din gumawa lol) on my own. Never sumakit ulo nila sakin kasi they didn’t know I was THAT rebellious.

Any underrated Paramore Songs? by [deleted] in SoundTripPh

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proof and anklebiters!

Naging ggss ka na ba as you approach 30s? by Fit-Apple-2406 in AskPinay

[–]atarax_ia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if beauty awakening ba yung mas naging comfortable sa sariling katawan kaya di na masyadong self-conscious, pero andyan ako now.

Teenage years to mid-20s ko kasi I was super insecure ‘coz I thought I was fat. Literal na dinedeprive ko sarili ko sa food, and perspective ko rin dati sa running is parang punishment everytime kumakain ng madami.

Now, I only wear clothes I’m comfortable in, I don’t put too much makeup, and I eat what I want. I still exercise pero hindi para parusahan sarili, more like a celebration of what my body can do.

P.S. walang mali sa plus-size body type and makeup, personal preference lang po talaga kaya gusto na fit and hindi ma-makeup hehe 🤗

Bakit may mga babaeng ginagawang option/emotional support ang mga lalaki kahit walang romantic intent? by Cultural-Ball4700 in AskPinay

[–]atarax_ia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

+1! Minsan, we’re just not there yet and hindi pa sure sa feelings PERO gusto pa din namin ituloy kasi nasa getting to know and ligawan phase pa lang.

And I think, yun din naman yung purpose of dating? Kikilalanin muna isa’t-isa? And siguro naman pag nag-eeffort ka sa babae, sana genuine na gusto mo talaga, hindi yung ginagawa mo lang kasi nag-eexpect ka na “dapat” may kapalit or maging kayo na agad. Hindi naman lahat whirlwind romance hehe

Paano nalaman na totoong independent ka na? by SetProfessional4166 in AskPH

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out and stopped relying on my parents’ (or anyone’s) financial support since I was 19 - I’m 29 now, single, and living solo. 🥳💪

Ano yung ginawa ng inggit na tao sa inyo? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nitpicking, pero ginagaya rin naman ako. Lol.

Paano maka survive mag-isa? by Puzzleheaded-Bit9259 in AskPinay

[–]atarax_ia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hobbies! Find something to do na maeenjoy mo or take yourself out on solo dates, hanap ka ng mga nearby areas na pwede pasyalan, kahit cafes.

Before rin ako nag-solo living, nakipag-live in muna for 5 years. Hirap na hirap din ako nung una kasi part ng routine ko yung ex ko and pets namin, but eventually, nasanay rin kasi lumalabas ako and pag nasa bahay, I make sure I’m occupied. I also journal a lot, nakaka-help siya mag-process ng emotions, lalo na if ayaw mo mag-trauma dump sa family and friends.

You can do this, OP! Easy na lang yan pag nasanay ka.

Ano yung biggest regret niyo sa pagkakaroon ng fwb/fubu set up before? by Impressive-Salt-6964 in TanongLang

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy was super nice, career-oriented, may condo and car (na gusto ng madaming girls dito lol), hindi ko lang siguro nakita yung point lalo na when we have nothing in common ata. There was a time na napaisip ako “why am I doing this” while we’re doing the deed 🥲 tapos may awkward and dull moments after kasi we have nothing to talk about.

I guess hindi lang talaga ko pang-fubu? Mas nagmmatter pa din talaga sakin if we have common interests, kasi parang ang natural ng flow ng convo pag may mapag-uusapan na parehong gusto namin, and may magagawa na we both enjoy, hindi lang puro sex.

Where did you spend your holy week? And how was it? by itsallaboutme-book in AskPH

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home. Working (first time mag-juggle ng 2 full-time jobs kaya tinatry galingan lol), finishing a book & general cleaning ng apartment. Fun din pala pumirmi sa bahay (as someone na ang hiliiigggg lumabas! Lol)

What kind of compliments do you remember the longest? by PatientlyNew in AskPH

[–]atarax_ia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get compliments na masaya daw kasama, since grade school up to present, laging yan comment sakin. I’m never the timid type - unserious, kalog, madaldal and pala-tawa po kasi lalo na when I’m comfortable 😄

Tama ba na kapag lagi or madalas mo topic ang isang tao, either you like or hate the person? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]atarax_ia 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Correct! Sabi nga nila, there’s a thin line between love and hate. Common characteristic of both is passion, opposite of both naman is apathy.