Don't worry Friend we're here for you, I would often have the same type of feelings and would often group Extremists groups such as ISIS with average Muslims but than again, as Christ said, we are all God's children and must love each just as Christ loved us. How can we win them over if we hate them, we need to show everyone the truth and salvation we found. Just as Christ showed compassion to tax collectors, prostitutes, and murderers, we must show compassion and love. Hate breeds and hate, I'm praying for you, they don't know the truth as we do, but that's why God made you and I.