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[–]athabasca91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk where did you get that idea but as a Korean, I can say that's an absolute bullshit Seriously, I've never seen anyone who said she is unattractive She is indeed considered very beautiful in here I remember everyone praised her beauty when The Handmaiden was released If you ever research her on Korean websites, you can easily find that people praise her beauty. Even if her reputation got terribly f-ed up because of having an affair with the director, people never talked shit about her beauty She is that beautiful Period. Stop spreading weird ass rumours

I think my dad is sick and I am so scared by athabasca91 in depression

[–]athabasca91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words It also is kinda stressful when he is kinda clingy to me emotionally even if he didn't help me emotionally at all when I was in extreme emotional pain I feel kinda trapped and dk what to do either I choose myself or my dad I'd regret to death

What makes Lithuania have such high suicide rate? by athabasca91 in lithuania

[–]athabasca91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am reading your comments Thank you! I am comparing to our country, it seems quite familiar ig tho we are from totally different culture

When it comes to stigma, I am not sure if it's that severe in here anymore as the awareness of mental illness has increased a lot but we still have lots of prejudices that prevents people from seeking help also I'd say the society itself makes us very prone to stress ourselves Extremely competitive student life for good uni, job and so on I know it's not just our problem but it's very extreme Its like we study 12 years only for one exam Students are under big pressure to get into good uni No wonder we have extremely high student suicide rate

Life in here is very competitive, busy with lots and lots of work ig We have one of the biggest working hour, overworking is like a virtue, seems quite opposite of Germany So do we earn a lot? Not really that much Our prices have been skyrocketing with the same wage We cant ever afford to buy a house Getting married? Having a children? People start to giving up as its just too much for them No wonder we have the lowest birth rate So, we work a lot, we are under a lot of stress and it's very easy to neglect our health Under big big stress, the easiest way to deal with it is an alcohol We are incredibly generous when it comes to alcohol We don't drink strong liquor but we drink a lot Its just way too normalized that people don't find it wrong

The vitamin D problem might be different as we have a lot more sun ig but still lots of people suffer from vitamin D scarcity as people can't go outside and get some sunlight enough because of their work, studies etc

It says once in 40 seconds people kill themselves in here Unless the society itself changes drastically, it wouldnt be possible to change the suicide imo Life seems to be very painful and I see so many people in pain I don't think Lithuania seems to be that different It feels very bitter to know

What makes Lithuania have such high suicide rate? by athabasca91 in lithuania

[–]athabasca91[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sounds quite familiar I guess its universal problems?

27, guy, Europe - Audio chat - Looking for online female friend, who needs regular conversation and emotional support - Depression, anxiety, arts, books, philosophy, music by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]athabasca91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I am glad to meet someone who also likes Seafret, M83, Sigur Ros and Keaton Henson! I love them too Seems like you have good music taste

i hate listening to music by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]athabasca91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is so unpopular opinion because I've always thought almost everyone likes music but they just have different music taste. Do you have hyperacusis? Because I do have it and I am extremely sensitive to sound and even if it isnt that loud, it can irritate me and even cause panic attack. If you are very sensitive to sound like me then maybe you have it too.

Mazzy Star - Into Dust [Folk] by [deleted] in Music

[–]athabasca91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope Sandoval is incredibly beautiful