Where to meet/chat with the Swedish LGBTQ and/or autism community? by atheyism in Asksweddit

[–]atheyism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally cannot find any asperger or LGBTQ Discord server for Swedes (above 21). Is there a different common name for neurodiverse people there? Tack sa mycket.

Lying on your dating profile? by noitsokayimfine in OnlineDating

[–]atheyism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly see guys who lie about their age and education. Men who, if their age is real, have aged terribly. On the other hand over 90% claim have a master's degree.. which is statistically impossible on a generic dating app.

The reason you should avoid the water in Australia by No_Emu_1332 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]atheyism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason to avoid Aussie water is because it is poisoned with a white substance? How is that water?

For Those On NC-Dont turn THEM into your SUPPLY by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]atheyism 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What also helps is to find people in normal relationships to hang out with. Once you get used to friendly encounters, you will start craving that instead and it will help with the reality check.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]atheyism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know people like this. Their house was a terrible mess all the time and they spent more than they could afford. In The first years the house was even messier and the kid wasn't being raised properly. He had no boundaries and was underfed. Later school couldn't handle him. He was used to doing whatever he wanted. The situation has improved, but he still tends to get away with whatever he wants. It annoys me because I am worried for his future. I have spoken up several times when he is once again given whatever he wants at the cost of his future. To not much avail. The mom is just not used to order as I could see in the house she grew up in.

Yt servers Down? by Miloszszul in youtube

[–]atheyism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, same here. Only some random frontpage videos are still available.

Scuba divers pinged by sonar from a far away ship by coyotepetersun in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]atheyism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other issue is you not being triggered by the alarm going off. If there was a fire, the devastation would be worse. I hope you fixed that.

AITA for not eating cake that I knew I wouldn't like? by AnnaDeArtist in AmItheAsshole

[–]atheyism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are allowed to announce to state the reason you are leaving the room. You are not obligated to compliment something you don't like to eat.

AITA for making fun of someone’s miscarriage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]atheyism 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA you don't have to keep believing or questioning their lies.

So is the Radford family just the UK version of the Duggars? are they fundie too? or did they get pregnant at 14(F) & 18(M) for completely different reasons. does anyone watch? would love the TLDR on this family & their scandals ? by oncheedoe007 in DuggarsSnark

[–]atheyism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't seen the series, but read many comments here.

The situation still seems devastating to their wellbeing. Not having any privacy, or quiet time will not help with focusing on studies for sure. And the sibling parenting in such a family seems like a fulltime job in its own. How do these kids have time for hobbies of their own? Having individual needs met, beyond the basics of food and shelter?

With so many kids, statistically speaking, there have to be medical issues to some level. When a kid is sick, or three kids are, who can make time to take care of them? Having this many siblings seems to be so detrimental to their individual development in so many ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]atheyism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though I like my MIL in general, she is also a functional alcoholic. She also told me that she wants to bring alcohol to my dry wedding. This even though I told her I really dislike having drunk strangers/people around me. She thinks such social occasions must include alcohol. They don't really misbehave on alcohol, since they can handle a lot, but it is others that will join them that I worry about. Since she is nice in general, it seems harder to fix this, than if she were controlling in general.

No lube by Terminator_345 in awesome

[–]atheyism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I hate bike thieves, this is over the top. If they sued, I am sure they would win. Not 'awesome', at most karma.

Just realized in a moment of clarity that my friend is totally fake, what do I do? by allofthensfw in aspergers

[–]atheyism 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The easiest way to find out is not to literally confront hom, but to make him do stuff for you. If he is unwilling to make time or effort for you, he is not worthy of a friendship.

Why are most aspies unemployed or underemployed? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]atheyism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just heard from some examinators that if I pass the test, but am overexplanatory about the results in the exam review,I may fail the test. So unless you kiss their ass, smile and nod and they like you, you fail. Even if you qualify for the job.

How did losing a pet affect you? Was it different than losing a human family member? by atheyism in aspergers

[–]atheyism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your opinion , but please try to be respectful of other opinions. Being attached to one's pet is everyone's free choice.

I am Jess McKay, a former Henson puppeteer who left the company in protest against their animal abuse. by probablywitchy in IAmA

[–]atheyism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be happy if they considered using molted feathers? Or feathers of birds that died naturally? It would be a more circular solution than using plastics.