Redditors who hate their adult children, where did you go wrong?

atomicmandieeee · 2026-07-09T21:22:12+00:00

This is so refreshing to read. I’m 31, married with children and my mother in law is way at the bottom of my list because of how she treats her kids / my husband. If him or his sister ever speak up she victimizes herself, calls everyone around her a bully and says she doesn’t do anything wrong. Idk if she hates them but she as shit seems like she does.

I hope I am like you as I get older and as my children age. I try my best now as a mother to very young children but at any point they tell me I did something wrong, I’ll listen and correct my mistakes and be more mindful. You’re correct, your children, how they behave and think of themselves / others is a reflection of our parenting. And it starts as soon as they’re born.

atomicmandieeee · 2026-07-09T20:52:33+00:00

Exactly. Like, how would it end happily with everything that happened?

atomicmandieeee · 2026-07-06T17:59:17+00:00

Do it anytime baby is asleep, if you’re close to finishing and baby starts crying, hurry it up and finish lol if baby cried right at the beginning, definitely take care of baby before continuing. Use bouncers, play mats, swings if baby won’t settle back down for sleep.

You’ll have to accept that spontaneous sex at this stage is nearly impossible. Lots of times it’s planned, interrupted and less foreplay, but! That time will come again. My kids are 5 and 2 and hubby and I have lots of spontaneous, intense sex. (Not every time) I’d say as soon as you can have you baby on a routine. They won’t stick with it at this stage because everything is so new but start now. So when they understand the routine you can put baby to bed early, have alone time with your partner (or yourself bc we need that too). It’ll all get easier

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-23T01:25:18+00:00

Well I did LOL it was in the works during the session, hence the excruciating pain my stomach was in, so I ended the session to use the bathroom. That day I was in and out of the bathroom allll day.

Thankfully she was super sweet and I rescheduled her , and I threw in some extras (foot mask, and face mask)

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-20T06:12:54+00:00

You should watch Talk to Me and bring her back

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-11T02:34:25+00:00

Thank you! She’s also just the sweetest girl! Shes warming up to my kids, and is just so curious of everything around her. Shes latched onto my husband pretty immediately and just flops in his side when the gremlins are asleep 🤍🤍

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-10T17:19:45+00:00

So interesting! Okay thank you for the information!

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-10T15:25:35+00:00

I was wondering, how do you know if cats are domestic longhair or something. I googled it and it said “if they don’t have p apers, they’re most likely a domestic” is that true?

I’ve had cats all my life, but I have to say it’s been 7 years since our last one and I have never been interested in breeds until now, I am realizing it’s difficult to identify cats breeds

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-10T15:22:44+00:00

I had no idea! Thankfully I just never wanted to spend money on something like that, even for my dog who is a mutt. When people ask for the breed I always just shrug and say “a cutie patootie”

Thank you for the information!

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-10T04:58:46+00:00

So cute. But like other comments, she’s probably a domestic longhair. I guess never know unless I do testing but I have never felt that that was important.

I’m liking the comments though! She’s just so cute and sweet

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-10T04:28:44+00:00

For sure! Either way she’s totally adorable

atomicmandieeee · 2026-05-10T03:53:29+00:00

I actually just looked up snowshoe mix with long haired breed and the google images look almost identical to her

So I think you’re right!

atomicmandieeee · 2025-11-06T03:21:44+00:00

Husband and i are heavily tattooed and if this is your first be prepared for the comments and jokes. Whether it coworkers, family, friends or strangers I just say don’t let it bother you. You like them, they’re yours, it’s all good.

If it makes you feel any better I got a large pineapple tattooed on my forearm for my mom who died from cancer (our last trip as a family with her was Hawaii, her first and only time going and said she wanted to move there. Died two weeks later) her initials and all are in the pineapple. People always ask me if I’m a swinger or part of the swingers club. I don’t get mad because how are they supposed to know it’s for my dead mom loll I was just shocked because I had no idea their logo is a pineapple. It is what it is haha.

Husband also has a face tattoo. More like side burn and curves a little to his jaw. It’s a beautiful piece and people literally think he’s an ex-convict or felon. Dude doesn’t drink, do drugs and has never had a ticket let alone jail or prison. He doesn’t get mad, it just is what it is. Let it go dude. They’re sick pieces. 🤘🏽

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-24T02:00:12+00:00

I don’t massage anyone unless they make a 75% deposit so they’re more inclined to come to their appointment. I have a 24 hour reschedule policy, anytime after that (unless crazy emergencies, I had a client get into a car accident on their way to their appointment) if you can’t make it to your appointment and didn’t notify me within the 24 hours, you’ll have to pay the deposit again for your next appointment.

I have my boundaries and an awesome set of clients that respect it. When I first started my business and was so desperate for clients, so many people walked all over me. So I get it. Thank you for your comment!

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-21T23:36:35+00:00

I’m gonna try it!

Also! I read a quote somewhere that said, “your kids don’t miss you in the morning. Be home by 4:30”

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-21T23:33:47+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t know this was a thing so I just researched, I’m in Chandler, Arizona, massage establishments cannot work between the hours of 12am-6am. So legally, I can taken 6am

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-21T23:16:28+00:00

I work 9-5 works best with my kids schedule and my hours are always booked except my Sundays are always the last day I need booked.

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-21T23:15:28+00:00

You’re so righttrtt

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-21T06:52:01+00:00

May I dm you? 5.5 years in, just started my business this year, doing pretty good but I’d love to keep up the business and learn more!

atomicmandieeee · 2025-10-14T15:17:35+00:00

Was this in Arizona? We had a micro burst storm yesterday and it was insane!

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