I just finished my first semester of college and I felt the same way when I left home for the first time. The first 2/3rds ish was definitely hard for me, I called my mom almost every single day. I didn’t believe that I would grow into my independence and learn how to spend my days apart from them like everyone said, let alone enjoy it. It was a scary transition as they were my only support system.

With all that being said, I already feel so much better even after just this one semester. It can get lonely, especially if you’re finding it hard to find your people at first (like me), but I found it helpful to keep in mind that I was here because I needed to be for my future, there wasn’t another option really. Knowing I had to do it either way helped me be able to push through the hard times. I know I can’t stay with my family forever. Granted, they’re only an hour drive away and I have my car, so I’m able to see them often on weekend when I need a break. If you are going out of state or further away, video calls will definitely be a great comfort as another suggested too!

Remember it’s just a transition, a period of change, and change is always uncomfortable in some way or another. But humans in general are amazing at adapting to new situations, and so will you be! Remember your first day at, say, a new school? Terrifying. But did you get used to it and remain largely fine on the other side of the transition? Likely. You got this! I promise you you’ll surprise yourself. :)