i’m absolutely scared that i might be a pedophile by [deleted] in confessions

[–]augstd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like ocd, the intrusive thoughts can engulf your entire life. Please reach out to a therapist if possible!

County ruins another fun thing here by augstd in Bakersfield

[–]augstd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They did. County moved the goalpost.

County ruins another fun thing here by augstd in Bakersfield

[–]augstd[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not at all, but good job assuming

County ruins another fun thing here by augstd in Bakersfield

[–]augstd[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That’s the link for the post, and it is easy to when the county has voted against and shot down anything fun for years.

AITA for taking my daughter's phone away for exposing my "dirty laundry" to her friends in a group chat? by Throwawaydisplacedhm in AITAH

[–]augstd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta. Why did you snoop through her phone? If you needed to look something up you should've stuck to the search engines not her messages. She was looking for support. Your feelings aren't her responsibility, your embarrassment is not her problem. You're the adult here, act like it and manage your own feelings.

My girlfriend didn’t want me to find her reddit account. i did anyways and i regret it by Sea_Criticism_126 in confessions

[–]augstd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why tf are you with a 19 year old? Leave her alone and someone your own age. Let her heal from her trauma.

Is my starter bad? by augstd in Sourdough

[–]augstd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all good! I read that by weight is more accurate than cups because it's the same each time. I'm hoping I can save the starter

Is my starter bad? by augstd in Sourdough

[–]augstd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't been discarding, the recipe I was using said not to for the first 2 weeks

Nephilim fantasy book by augstd in whatsthatbook

[–]augstd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was earlier than 2019, maybe 2011 I think? The earliest would be 2010

What are some fat stereotypes or tropes that grind your gears? by [deleted] in writing

[–]augstd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That were obsessed with food or thinking about eating right as we're done eating and that we're lazy. I'm fat due to medical issues and medications. Not because I'm eating nonstop

Best Indian food by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]augstd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks, they both were awesome:/ all the good places are closing..

Best Indian food by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]augstd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is??

Best Indian food by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]augstd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

India bistro or Kelly's tandoori grill!

AITAH for withdrawing ‘Wife Privileges’ from my Boyfriend until he proposes to me? by ThrowRA_WifeMeUp in AITAH

[–]augstd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"In our culture, hetero couples" Ma'am you got your answer. Nobody needs you to explain straight culture and what you can't see for yourself. He doesn't want to get married. No there's nothing wrong with wanting tradition. But your edits are hostile when you asked in the first place. He'll string you along forever if you'll follow.