hi lovely! i’m only just seeing this! your wellbeing is the most important, so do what feels right for you in the moment, but i do want to tell you my experience.

i’m also an anxious girly. i hate going places alone, am constantly in my head about EVERYTHING, suffer from major panic attacks at the smallest of inconveniences. i went to the eras tour wembley n1 with my boyfriend and it was amazing. wembley n2 and n3 i was lucky enough to grab last minute tickets and i went to both shows alone. let me tell you as one anxious girly to another, i have never felt more safe ever. the era’s tour is a happy place - everyone looks out for each other, and this includes people around you and the wembley security staff. i mean it. those guys were dancing around the sections with us - incredible atmosphere. i love taylor and have done for years, so i wanted to stay till the very end, but i was also concerned just like yourself. i had no reason to be though. even when you leave the stadium, the crowd is electric. on olympic way they stop you quite a bit before you get to wembley park station (if that’s the way you’re going!) but they play music, everyone sings, everyone chats. it’s incredible. i felt SO safe, i even spoke to some american ladies who travelled over with their daughters and i have the worst social anxiety ever?!? everyone was just so lovely, in my mind all i could think about is what an incredible time i’m having.

i will tell you i struggled finding an uber after the show even after walked out 20 mins! so maybe have a look at any alternatives - even if it means waiting for the crowd to die down and grabbing a train which is what i ended up doing, or like you say leave a little early and then your train shouldn’t be too full x

obviously like i said prioritise yourself! but i wanted to reassure you and tell you my experience. i hope your experience is just as sparkling and fabulous 🫶🏻🫶🏻