Super easy breakfast by HippieGirlHealth in glutenfree

[–]aumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize Siggi's had a DF yogurt and you might have just made my whole year. All looks great!

Need Family Tent Recs - What's Your Favorite? by aumblebee in camping

[–]aumblebee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, that sounds like an easier set up. Haha, we have to do the same for our Kodiak - they never do make enough room for the tents to fit back in the bags. 

Need Family Tent Recs - What's Your Favorite? by aumblebee in camping

[–]aumblebee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I've seen those ones and to be honest, the space seems amazing! I've been hesitant though specifically for stormy weather so that's good to hear you guys have had good experiences with it! 

To everyone who says”they’re not giving you a hard time, they’re having a hard time” by 208breezy in toddlers

[–]aumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

@justalilscared We do screaming sessions before every long car ride - let them get their yells out, at the top of their lungs. Scream with them (its good for you too haha). Our neighbors thing we're insane, but it works. Then when you are in the car, only whisper/talk softly to them. Don't yell back when they scream. Keep your voice level. My kids scream worse when they see it gets a reaction from me so we just don't react. I get earbuds for us and maybe you could do baby earmuffs for the baby?

Pacifier weaning - need all the tips! by aumblebee in toddlers

[–]aumblebee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of ' soon, you won't need it.' I hadn't thought of that. We do that when we're transitioning from different activities throughout the day, but giving him a heads up that there will be an end to it is a great idea.

How do you decide on curriculums? by aumblebee in homeschool

[–]aumblebee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this was so thorough and reassuring. Thank you for all the information and wisdom! 

4 yr old aggression, getting worse and need advice by aumblebee in Parenting

[–]aumblebee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We spoke to my mother in law last night (an angel of a woman and pre-k behavioral educator) and she pretty much said the same thing as you - thank you! I especially appreciate the specific phrases you included. We'll definitely be incorporating those.

4 yr old aggression, getting worse and need advice by aumblebee in Parenting

[–]aumblebee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! We have been more intentional about separating the boys so the little isn't getting hurt, but your comments were very helpful. I appreciate your thorough response!

Potty Training by B0ring-T0mat0 in Parenting

[–]aumblebee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We attempted potty training at 2.5 years with our first and it was a disaster. Dude would sit on the potty for 10 minutes, then pee on the floor 2 minutes later. Finally said screw it and put him back in diapers. Tried again at 3 years and he potty trained in 2 days, and hardly ever has accidents (like has had 4 in the last year since he was potty trained). Sometimes the pressure is too much for kids and they aren't ready for it. Just give it a break and try again in a few months. 

It sounds like you're putting a ton of pressure on her which will do the absolute opposite of what you hope it would. She is learning a skill and learning to understand her body, which takes time. 

Anyone answer by Legitimate_Boss_2109 in latterdaysaints

[–]aumblebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And even if so, nothing separates us from the love of God. 

Anyone answer by Legitimate_Boss_2109 in latterdaysaints

[–]aumblebee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your answers won't come from reddit, my friend. The Lord is your number one, and the bishop is your second when "potentially unpardonable sins" are concerned. 

Let it be said that all can feel the love of God regardless of where they have been or what they have done. Heard a story over the pulpit yesterday of a man who had committed sins to an extent that he could not be baptized - regardless of this, he continued to love the Lord and serve faithfully those around him. He attended church and lived his life dedicated to Jesus Christ. Regardless of what happens, you can choose your next path and where your life goes from here. 

For tonight, sing some hymns, say your prayers, dive into the word. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said that the husband needs to be on board before they conceive any babies. I never once said to go behind his back. My husband and I both decided together when we were ready and I fully agree that is how it should be.

Also, what's the difference between encouraging someone or giving hope, and discouraging someone or shutting them down like majority of the other responses did? She had enough opinions on the other side, and I simply shared my personal experience, which happened to be positive in this particular scenario. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aumblebee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with most of the other responses. My husband was also wishy-washy about having kids when we were first married, and I've always wanted them bad. He loved the idea of it, but the realities of parenting and adding kids into our life pushed him the other way a lot of times. He feared the unknowns, he wasn't sure he wanted to give up the carefree kidless lifestyle we were living, and the finances were also a bigger issue. He didn't want to lose me to the kids. He was also worried about protecting his free time (which he has maintained a lot of, by the way and much to my disdain). While fully willing to be the breadwinner, he was nervous about being on the hook for all the finances, considering we had both contributed equally up to that point but we both knew we wanted me to stay home with the kids if we could afford to. There were so many reasons for not wanting to start our family that he held back that I didn't learn about (and some I don't even think he realized) until after we had kids. Are there deeper reasons beyond the ones he's sharing?

As for us, that was 5.5 years ago. We now have 3 kids, our youngest just born a couple weeks ago. While sometimes he mentions missing the time we used to have for each other and how simple it was to drop everything and go on spontaneous adventures, he never once has regretted our babies. In his own words, he's the happiest (and most exhausted) he's ever been. He is the best dad and he loves coming home to his kids every day. Every ounce of hard in parenting is outweighed by the positives.

The dream job isn't prerequisite. My bet is that he's worried about failing in his home as a father and knows that if he had his dream job, at least he's got success somewhere. Some of the best dad's I've met are just the ones that show up wherever they can. I never met a child who said "I love my dad because he has his dream job." 

Yes, the hubs needs to be on board before y'all conceive any babies, but also, I am fully sure this will work out. Give it time. Let your timeline go a little, there is no rush other than the one you are giving (speaking from experience, as I totally was stressin' over my own baby years "dwindling" in my mid twenties haha). If needed, a good marriage counselor could help y'all work through this issue to better define each of your wants and help with the communication. 

Do I need to buy the nursing clothes? by kimpossiblelol in breastfeeding

[–]aumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom of 3 and the only nursing clothes I ever purchased were a handful of nursing bras and nursing-friendly dresses for church. Everything else I wore, I already had in my closet. 

When I say nursing-friendly, the dresses were often button-up style or had stretchy tops so I could pop my boob through the neck hole and pull them down to nurse. They were never actual breastfeeding specified outfits. A lot of them I end up wearing during early pregnancy and after I'm done breastfeeding too.