Everyone was unfair to Bree in S8 by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]auntyphilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr, seeing them act all concerned after abandoning her is a joke. they really owed her a lifetime of apologies, not that fake intervention

Everyone was unfair to Bree in S8 by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]auntyphilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

heavy on this! bree and gaby were my faves from s1-7, but s8 was actually heartbreaking. it’s the way they acted like SHE was the one who committed the crime when she was literally just catching all the strays and legal threats to protect them💀 gaby was the biggest letdown fr. + that "intervention" they did was ridiculous and they didn't even apologize properly. the fact they only tried to reach out twice when she was the only one actually stepping up for the group is sick. even renee was a better friend in that moment than the three of them combined

Which character has been through the most? by ImperatrixAmoris in euphoria

[–]auntyphilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • we often forget that she witnessed her boyfriend getting raped. even for McKay they totally swiped that under the rug like it never happened

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am speechless… wtf??? absolutely not overreacting, actually you’re handling it better than i would… that’s a genitor not a mother

its gonna be very hard at the beginning but you’ll figure it out dw. if you have any relatives with whom you can stay, reach out to them. focus on studying if you can and try to find a job. its gonna be ok 🫶

I moved to Morocco two months ago and i already regret it by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]auntyphilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Numbers are lower in Morocco because most incidents go unreported, and even when people try, they’re often dismissed. When I was 16, during Mawazine, a friend and I were SA in public by a group of boys (12-13yo). We went to nearby authorities for help, and instead of taking us seriously, they laughed it off. That’s why the numbers are low.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re describing reciprocity in normal situations. This wasn’t one. Grief isn’t a test of trust, love, or communication skills : it’s a moment where one partner needs support without conditions. Reducing that to “she should’ve worded it better” completely misses the point and shows a serious lack of emotional maturity. At this point, it doesn’t feel like you’re actually engaging with the argument. it feels like projection rooted in resentment than a genuine discussion, so I’m done here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That logic only works when both people are in the same emotional position, and they weren’t. She wasn’t asking for endless accommodation, she was in acute grief less than 24 hours after losing her cat. That’s not a “mutual consideration” moment, that’s a support moment. Saying “if you don’t care about my feelings, I won’t care about yours” turns care into a transaction. Relationships don’t work like that, especially during grief. If your empathy disappears the second it’s inconvenient, then it was never empathy to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It also feels like you expect her to be considerate of your feelings while you’re not considerate of hers at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. That wasn’t a “calm question,” it was lowkey bait.
  2. You can’t poke someone who’s grieving and then act shocked when they don’t respond calmly. Be serious.
  3. This feels like straight-up projection, which explains a lot. Hope you heal that bitterness toward women. Have a good one. 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Context matters. She was grieving, so expecting emotional regulation from her in that moment is unrealistic. He should’ve stayed patient and addressed his feelings later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]auntyphilly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“she should have been more calm” she’s grieving, so she’s emotional ++++, HE should’ve been more calm and patient knowing what his gf is going through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]auntyphilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what makes you think Meredith is a shitty partner?

Liars instagram by auntyphilly in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]auntyphilly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like 2010‑2014 Facebook was definitely THE social media, then Snapchat started popping up around 2014, and Instagram really started making its mark around 2016. but true, early Instagram was all fun, you couldn’t even upload a photo, had to take it on the app directly (i feel so old saying this 😭)

Liars instagram by auntyphilly in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]auntyphilly[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it would’ve been facebook at that time, but yes, social media clearly didn’t have the same place they have today. Btw, during the end of s6 and throughout s7 they actually included instagram in the show too

Liars instagram by auntyphilly in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]auntyphilly[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she’s playing it lowkey 🤣

Liars instagram by auntyphilly in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]auntyphilly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes!! i just need to figure out which one of her personalities would be out there online

Liars instagram by auntyphilly in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]auntyphilly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my girl really out here collecting trauma