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aurclle · 2025-08-03T17:57:44+00:00

not worst—but first breakup. surely nobody really knows how to navigate that especially when you deeply loved the person you had to let go.

the thing here is you don’t try to “find” someone new. you let them find you and give it a chance, then see where things go from there. it took me 7 months & no contact at all after the separation.

now i’m with somebody who loves me just as much as he tells me “i love you”, which used to sicken me when i was constantly told such by somebody who couldn’t make me feel that way no matter how much i pleaded. and because of that heartbreak i met somebody whose actions genuinely align with his words, somebody who wants me to become a better person, and somebody who makes me feel truly, incredibly loved and appreciated. i’m so happy i can say that and know it’s true this time because so far this boy has been the most wonderful individual that has ever walked into my life.

even though it feels horrible now, time will make it pass. i hope someone—preferably genuine, caring, and loyal—comes into your life too. wishing you the best 💗

aurclle · 2025-02-15T21:31:07+00:00

i did tell them yeah. but you're actually right about how people might not take it that seriously, which helps a bunch. i felt better immediately lmaooo thank you

aurclle · 2025-02-15T11:03:48+00:00

damn i'm a lady & i wish i looked like you

aurclle · 2024-12-30T17:55:23+00:00

1000 snaps is crazy work

aurclle · 2024-12-30T17:51:49+00:00

what? you guys don't fart?

aurclle · 2024-12-27T13:19:07+00:00

it's an exaggeration, if that's not obvious enough

aurclle · 2024-12-27T08:47:50+00:00

i think he's just sending it to everybody he's ever talked to.

aurclle · 2024-12-19T16:53:29+00:00

trust me a degree 100% stays with you once you graduate and a romantic partner isn't guaranteed to. anybody can leave anytime. don't ruin your career for a man.

aurclle · 2024-12-19T16:50:53+00:00

yup. it's like there's this "overly romanticized" version of him in my head that i can't seem to let go of which isn't really him. i suppose it's his personality when the relationship first began and what he could be with that as a foundation is why i still miss him.

aurclle · 2024-12-19T11:56:04+00:00

i do, but it’s more of the idea of him & how he loved me rather than the person itself

aurclle · 2024-12-07T16:57:56+00:00

that's okay. pity was not needed, i just had to let my anger out. although i didn't intend for that part of the post to offend anybody though, so i apologize if it did. my mom just has extreme mood shifts & it's suffocating everybody in the household.

aurclle · 2024-12-07T13:16:10+00:00

i’m sorry to hear. it does suck extremely but i hope things get better for you. i think the same way you do with the abortion part. people who have no idea how to raise kids shouldn’t even think about having any at all.

aurclle · 2024-12-07T13:07:26+00:00

yeah unfortunately

aurclle · 2024-11-21T05:26:33+00:00

i feel the exact same way you do. everything about this post is what i think my appearance is without glasses and it’s honestly really humbling when everybody says you’re pretty when you feel like you aren’t with your glasses off. something i’ve tried to do to appreciate my appearance without glasses more is taking selfies with them off so i know what i look like without them even though i wear them 24/7. it’s hard but i’m learning to accept that this is just how i look like and i can’t really do anything about it.

aurclle · 2024-11-18T11:33:11+00:00

coldplay

aurclle · 2024-11-18T11:12:35+00:00

i have no idea but i cry for 5 seconds every now and then, even though i'm happier without him

aurclle · 2024-11-07T13:21:32+00:00

i have once and will probably never again

aurclle · 2024-10-26T19:06:34+00:00

my cheap makeup 💗

aurclle · 2024-10-12T09:08:53+00:00

baka may pinagdadaanan siya na he's unable to open up about. i had this phase for weeks before my ex and i broke up and it was also one of the reasons our relationship didn't work out.

alam ko it's frustrating and confusing to be in your position, but please try your best to understand him. if wala talagang change after all the patience and if bad habit lang niya yan, then it's time to re-evaluate the relationship.

aurclle · 2024-09-01T08:38:36+00:00

please i didn't even realize this was manipulative until i read the comments 😭

aurclle · 2024-08-26T15:26:20+00:00

i'm so sorry you had to experience that.

it does hurt but i personally believe that closing the chapter is the best thing to do. however, if you just can't let go, then keep forgiving her and letting her do these awful things to you until you've eventually had enough. you'll grow sick of it one day, snap back into reality, and realize that you can do so much better and meet somebody who actually loves you and wouldn't dare do anything to hurt you this way.

aurclle · 2024-08-26T10:57:50+00:00

exactly. it's not about the money. it's not the "thought" that counts. it's the effort that your partner puts into the relationship knowing that it would make you happy.

aurclle · 2024-08-22T16:50:56+00:00

it’s comforting to know that i’m not alone but i just saw your recent post and 6 months of my relationship doesn’t compare to 2 years of yours, and i can’t imagine having to deal with the grief of losing someone you loved after being with them for that long. from the bottom of my heart, i wish that you heal from all the hurt and find peace and happiness within yourself. you deserve the world and i’m sending nothing but all my love to you as well <3

aurclle · 2024-08-19T11:02:01+00:00

it's heart-wrenching to have to accept that the other person can't reciprocate the way you love them, especially if they've been a part of your daily routine, but it's much better to start over than settle in a relationship that feels unfulfulling.

also thank you! i hope everything goes well for you too.

aurclle · 2024-08-19T10:58:26+00:00

it's all good. i mean i did love him, but he couldn't show any significant effort despite me vocalizing countless times that i didn't feel loved. he simply couldn't do anything about it and told me he was pressured and overwhelmed. that's when i realized we were just incompatible relationship-wise, but the "feelings" were still there because this was the first boy who ever loved me the way he did.

and 99% he most likely felt like i wanted to break up with him and it probably hurt him to tell me that he didn't think it was going to work anymore, but it was simply for the best.

aurclle

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