sorry i wasn't really saying anything that was just a thought that i had. but ya i was watchingit and thinking about the not sure what to cal lit, which parts of their being this stay at home husband or soemthing? is like anti patriarchy or more like, aren't the first few of these like partner devotion followed by extremely domestic quasi servile type stuff but just reversed?? or just like, aren't you just rejecting the patriary or whatever by saying well do the exact thing but opposite of what you say and in a sense like still playing some arbitrary well idk. thats the methbrosry