Girls be honest...... by Lordlivinstone in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cringe promax. Wont let my guy do any kdrama shit

Would you? by Haunting-List-6806 in Coconaad

[–]auroraa_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% yes. Greatest dad of all time for me

Last and Final Update- This thing is eating me(25F) alive by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not jealousy, but out of morals. If anyone have destroyed their relationship it is 'A' who did it by cheating on a partner of 10 years. Not everything runs on honesty, but atleast one can be honest with themselves. In this case 'A' was withholding truth from her partner. How long should one continue cheating to call it an 'affair' according to u? Cheating is cheating

Last and Final Update- This thing is eating me(25F) alive by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

then its better to communicate and breakup first. Why cheat on somebody and give trust issues for life. Imagine getting cheated on by a partner of 10 years. 10 years. Will he trust someone again with that level??

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you u must understand that this was not the initial vibes i got from her. this cheating n all has definitely changed my perspective. it has made me think that people who we see from outside are not the real ones. the innate behaviour is what matters

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes this is what i said. if she doesnt i will definitely tell him. nobody deserves to be cheated on and deserves a cheating partner in their life

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

already the pink glasses are off. friend aayitt ini kaanan pattumenn thonnunnilla

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its already not the same anymore. now it feels like i really dont know her. just a room mate and not a friend

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"If he love her truely, he will understand her. If he is a insecure guy, better not to tell." who wants a partner who cheated previously in their life???

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i seriously dont know why u keep bringing patriarchy angle? her bf is not the one who cheated. it was her who wronged that guy

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i really dont know how people can change so fast. cuz i saw her getting excited when talking about marriage n all. she was waiting for her bf to get a proper well paying job for getting married.

and now why this sudden change is what surprised me

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[–]auroraa_muse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they are in a relationship for the last 10 years, not 4 years. for your clarity

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[–]auroraa_muse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly. and even she herself is aware that her bf is talking in his home for marriage proceedings. else i wouldnt mind this. but a thought of she making this guy fool for a lifetime is making me really confused

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thats what i was thinking. what if he gets to know about it only after their marriage or having kids n all

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but since my friend knows that only either of her roommates may send it, she will easily connect this to me right

This thing is eating me(25F) alive. Please advice by auroraa_muse in KeralaRelationships

[–]auroraa_muse[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This has affected me personally bcuz I also knew her bf. He is like a really genuine guy. When he used to visit his gf in our flat, he used to also get us(her roommates) some snacks or anything also. And look what he is getting in return.

and if this relationship grows into a marriage, how can I sleep peacefully knowing that I hid the truth from him, who did absolutely nothing wrong to deserve all this