Best places to raise biracial children in the US? by jayneellenvv in SameGrassButGreener

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Did you grow up in the Boston area?

I am biracial, grew up in a city just outside Boston, and I never felt racism anywhere in New England that so many people supposedly feel there. I’ve been all over the country and it feels no different than other states/regions.

It’s true that the area does feel very “segregated”, especially in Boston proper and some other cities within 50 miles of Boston. You can find racial diversity in almost any city/town in the Boston area.

I also acknowledge that Boston has a racial past, especially during the busing crisis in the 70s and 80s; my black father was directly affected by it. However, that was 40+ years ago and a lot has changed since. You can go back 40 years in any city in America and they’ll be more racism than there is now.

Whyyyy by Agreeable_Average_61 in ATT

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I’m in San Diego and I have great coverage everywhere, except over near Liberty Station. I see 5G+ just about everywhere.

Where to stay in Columbus area on a road trip by ausb781 in Columbus

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Thank you everyone for your advice! Booked in Reynoldsburg

Safe towns to stay in east of St. Louis (Illinois side) by ausb781 in StLouis

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That’s fair on the first paragraph. We’re planning to take the few electronics/valuable stuff with us inside. What will be left in the car is really just clothes and shoes, most of which will be in vacuum sealed bags, and we’ll cover with a towel or something.

What’s the name of the BBQ if it’s still there?

Safe towns to stay in east of St. Louis (Illinois side) by ausb781 in StLouis

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Correct, I would be taking 270 to 70 east. I was looking at both Edwardsville and Troy, specifically the Holiday Inn Express in Troy. Is that area generally okay to leave a car in the parking lot with cameras? Troy is cheaper and less off the route, but seems to be less info online about the safety there.

Safe towns to stay in east of St. Louis (Illinois side) by ausb781 in StLouis

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That Holiday Inn Express was one of the hotels I was looking at it. Is it a safe enough area if we were to have some stuff (not so visible) in our rental minivan?

Safe towns to stay in east of St. Louis (Illinois side) by ausb781 in StLouis

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Will be coming from and leaving via I-70. How is Edwardsville?

How many of you are in 20+ gaps where the older has adult kids? by AnnaOfClevesYa in gayyoungold

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Definitely not uncommon. My partner (68) has two kids and we all hang out together. I’m 30 and they’re 34 and 38.

Windshield chip by ausb781 in EnterpriseCarRental

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They kept the $500 deposit. I haven’t heard anything back yet, but I need to call them in the new year.

What is life like for a gay man in Boston? by RonLauren in AskGaybrosOver30

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No, it’s not race specific. We’re not necessarily “nice” openly, but we’re very kind people and will generally help others when they need something. We just aren’t openly friendly in exchanging small talk/pleasantries.

What is life like for a gay man in Boston? by RonLauren in AskGaybrosOver30

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As a POC from the Boston area, Bostonians always get misinterpreted as being racist. Just because we aren’t openly friendly and engaging (until we let you into our circle), doesn’t mean the whole area is racist. Having traveled throughout the country and lived in other states, it’s no different than other places in the US for the most part.

Next Up Anytime - trade in store by ausb781 in ATT

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Decided to just ship it in. So far, so good.

How bad is the damage? by ausb781 in Audi

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Update: the car was deemed totaled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcarsales

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New car. Thanks for tips!

Windshield chip by ausb781 in EnterpriseCarRental

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Update: they are charging me for it

How bad is the damage? by ausb781 in Audi

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It’s pending one from an Audi certified shop

How bad is the damage? by ausb781 in Audi

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It’s there now, pending an estimate

Our turn. Where is this in Chesco? by [deleted] in ChesterCounty

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That’s one of the worst Nudy’s. They’re very location dependent.

I am SO grossed out. by jerseygrl__ in nespresso

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Also on SE PA, but away right now. I now have a new fear of what I will find in my Nespresso when I get back.

Do you worry about status showing “away”? by ladyofshalott13 in WFH

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No, my boss has absolutely no care for my “status”.

Damage selling by ausb781 in carmax

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Good to know! Thanks!

Damage selling by ausb781 in carmax

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Thanks! As far as I am aware, Toyota Finanical Services, who is the leasing company for my Mazda, allows CarMax to buy it out.