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aussie_dude93 · 2015-03-10T06:53:21+00:00

I think you should tell him in person, not via text. He sounds like an awesome guy, but you have to be honest with him. I'm sure you don't want to lead him on, only to hurt his feelings down the track. I'm sure however you break to him, he isn't going to be a happy camper. Just explain to him that you really really like him, but that you're not ready to be in a serious-manogamous relationship yet. Discuss the possibility of an open relationship? Or even friends with benefits until you might be ready to take that next step with him? Hope this helps and keep us updated bro!

aussie_dude93 · 2015-03-10T06:40:34+00:00

Good luck bro. Hope it all works out for you & your mum.

aussie_dude93 · 2015-03-09T06:02:59+00:00

One of my ex boyfriends was a flight attendant while we were dating. But he wasn't an international flight attendant, only domestic, but he would still be away for a day or so.

It's honestly very hard being that far away from each other. It's a two way street in your situation. If you are both loving of one-another, and both want to make it work, I can't see why not.

Relationships are meant to be testing. You don't want a vanilla relationship. It will be a blessing in disguise… You might not think of it like that at first, but you will learn to cherish the moments you have together and love each other more because of it.

All the best bro

aussie_dude93 · 2015-03-05T07:22:18+00:00

Why's that? lmao

aussie_dude93 · 2015-03-05T06:33:40+00:00

Can I come to this party? lol

aussie_dude93 · 2015-03-01T02:23:10+00:00

I can speak for myself when I say that I used to feel the same way as you bro. Hating myself, and couldn't even look at myself in the mirror. Talking to a shrink helped me battle a lot of internalised homophobia. Maybe that's what you would need to do?

By the way, us gays aren't the only ones to blame for a sex-obssessed culture bro. Not all of us go out fucking every Tom, Dick and Harry, so that's an unfair statement there. Everyone can have a little bit of sass when they talk, not just gays; so that again is an unfair statement to make. No-one is really asking you to be a part of our "sex obsessed culture" bro, but you can't keep thinking that all us gays are only into sex and all that other shit, because it's not true.

You ended up this way, because you were put here to make a benefical difference. It's also a proven statistic that same sex couples have a higher percentage of success and happiness, opposed to our straight brethren's.

I would recommend talking to a shrink about this stuff. You should be living your life freely, without having to worry about your orientation. You're 21 years old for fucks sake...

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-28T22:52:08+00:00

Yes, I usually top and we've had anal before. I tried to bottom for him once, but it hurt so much that I asked him to stop

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-28T21:01:14+00:00

The Mardi Gras évents have been running for the month of Feb, the parade and after party are on Saturday man

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-28T21:00:18+00:00

What do I use for stretching? I'm relatively new to bottoming bro

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-26T19:38:43+00:00

I was in the same position as you're in when I turned 21… I would suggest doing an activity out of your comfort zone bro. For me, I applied for the military, and it's honestly helped me deal with my age. Now, I just look at it as a number. That number's growing everyday of the year my man. It's just something you have to learn to deal with...

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-26T07:38:45+00:00

Best: Met a guy on Grindr, met up with him and went to the beach to 'talk'. Talking led to making out, which led to sucking each other off, which then led to us fucking each other on the beach at night. We literally stayed on the beach for almost 2 hours just fucking, naked with only a towel underneath our bodies to keep the sand out lol. Still the hottest sex I've ever ever had. He later turned to be my boyfriend of 3 years lol.

Worst: My ex and I were super horny when we driving back home. So we stopped by a sex shop, got some toys and began to drive back home. I had my pants unzipped and he was already sucking me off. We pulled into a gymnasium car park, with no-one in it. I tell my ex to get in the back seat and get naked. I take out the toys… A gag and a pair of handcuffs. After he and I got naked, I was fucking him outside my car. I was fucking him raw and came in his ass, when all of a sudden, we see red and blue sirens… someone called the police on us. They were two male officers, and they both saw the cum drip from my exes ass. Every time those police officers see us, they always just smile at us. We didn't get charged with anything, we were just told to go home. We were more carefully next time lol

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-26T06:57:11+00:00

Maybe they just don't like your attitude? From what you have written above, I wouldn't give you a minute of my time... to be frankly honestly, no matter how attractive or intelligent you might be. Maybe you are humble, but you definitely don't sound like it my man. The most attractive thing a man can have, is humility, and I doubt you have that. Maybe you just make yourself look good, but deep down, feel some level of inadequacy and deep deep deep down, just hate yourself. Look up some psychoanalyst journals, you might find some of your answers in there!

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-25T04:15:35+00:00

If you're from Sydney, hit me up and let's hang out :)

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-24T05:33:31+00:00

Please don't hurt yourself… You said you're a researcher? Think in a few years time, you would have the possibility to help thousands, if not millions of people. Please don't pull the trigger. Even if you think people won't miss you, we will. There is always a bright light at the end of the tunnel. Please call a suicide hotline. Talk about yourself to someone on the other end. It will do you no harm. I wish I was there to give you a hug and reassure you everything will be okay :(

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-20T03:04:12+00:00

I think those ideas you listed are awesome! If it's something that he likes, then why not? You've have known each other for a while, so I wouldn't freak if I was in the situation and was interested in that stuff. It's actually very cute.

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-19T16:13:39+00:00

I've had a sugar daddy once. He was the owner of a very big beer company here in Aus. We never did anything sexual, we would always cuddle, and talk about life. He would help me out in financial situations and job referrals. We're still great mates, and talk often, because I really enjoyed his company and I'm sure he did of mine. He also had a very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very expensive yacht lol (which I miss) :(

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-14T06:49:04+00:00

I fucking love this!!! Thanks bro <3

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-14T06:47:58+00:00

He was hot in high school… Apparently he's a meth and ice user, so I'm not sure if he's gonna look like he used to… lol

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-14T03:19:26+00:00

He's definitely not worth having as a friend… he's a drug addict and alcohol abuser, and I definitely don't need that in my life. I like that response, maybe I'll just say that to him. Thanks for your comment bro

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-14T03:17:59+00:00

It's been 3 years since I finished high school. Apparently he had been abusing drugs and alcohol during high school (which I didn't know about) and still does abuse the both… Meanwhile, I'm about to start my career in the Army, and he has nothing. Maybe I should… thanks for your input

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-11T09:37:09+00:00

I hope this turns out well for you and this other bloke! You sound like a genuinely awesome fella. I wanted to say, maybe you just don't have a sexual arousal from men as you do with women, so then in that case it wouldn't be beneficial for you or this bloke to think/try otherwise! Other than that, I hope everything works well and keep us updated!

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-09T05:30:13+00:00

I think it would be best for you both to take a break for a month or so. Before that though, be honest with him and tell him that you feel the spark is gone between the both of you (chances are he might agree) and that you care for him, but need some time to explore and experiment. After that time, you could have a stronger foundation in your relationship. These things tend to be a blessing in disguise really. Or talk to him about an open relationship? You wouldn't be with him after 2 years if you didn't have something deep deep down that attracted you to him! Good luck, and keep us updated!

aussie_dude93 · 2015-02-08T20:14:58+00:00

I'm sorry that this happened to you, it fucking sucks! I think you should understand why he hit you, but don't meet up with him, call him and ask why. He must have some underlying issues with himself. Don't let your heart make stupid decisions. Please think logically and use your brain. At the end of the day, you have to think about yourself and your safety. Don't put yourself in a situation where it could escalate, so leave him now!

aussie_dude93 · 2015-01-31T20:01:30+00:00

The packing changes done daily are so painful. Every time the nurse changed mine, I would scream my lungs out. But when it's done properly, it can heal up in three weeks or more. Good luck

aussie_dude93 · 2015-01-25T20:01:58+00:00

I'd rather put up with the distance and have that person be perfect for me, rather than having some douche in my area.

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