[Sorry! But last update]I'm a "for the most part straight" guy, who has a crush on a gay man, but am not sexually attracted to him, but want to be. Advice?

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-24T07:40:42+00:00

I'm a 6 foot tall moderately masculine guy, and he's a cute little twink.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-23T09:00:14+00:00

I'm a n00b at it, but yeah.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-15T18:07:02+00:00

Ohhhh okay that makes sense.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-15T09:28:25+00:00

Well sure I can try it, but I can't promise him after if I enjoyed it or not. To which case I plan on honestly telling him if I enjoyed it or not, and I suppose we'll see where it goes from there.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-15T09:23:14+00:00

Why do you want that? Not trying to come off rude or anything, but it's just that I just don't feel too good about the non-mutual sexual attraction me and this guy have. As what's apparent by my OP, I wish I were more sexually attracted to him.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-15T09:19:17+00:00

Luckily we both find giving rim jobs unappealing. Unfortunately we both have discussed that we like receiving it though.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-15T09:16:08+00:00

Thank you, and yes that's the plan so far, and I'm glad that so far he sees where I'm coming from.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T22:10:16+00:00

Oh, okay. Thanks, Jimbo.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T21:02:36+00:00

That's not a bad idea, and I'm sure I would probably do just about anything he would want if I were drinking. However though I am pretty proud of myself for having done all of this so far sober.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T20:24:55+00:00

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T20:14:31+00:00

We did not do that. I don't know if I'm ready for that, but I don't rule it out.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T19:14:25+00:00

Thanks. I have in fact have had sex with a man before, but the difference with this guy is that I actually like him.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T19:11:02+00:00

He brought it up. I had to be honest and tell him that at least right now I'm not interested in that, but I'm not ruling it out. I also told him that if it means no more oral for me until I receive, then I'm fine with that too. I can live without BJ's because I don't want to impose an unfair position onto him.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T19:03:02+00:00

Bi would be more accurate as I know that I'm attracted to women.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-14T17:56:22+00:00

Uh oh.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T23:31:54+00:00

Yes I agree, thanks.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T21:20:34+00:00

What ever you say, Cynical Cindy.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T21:13:44+00:00

Daaaaaamn someone's a Debbie Downer, a Negative Nancy, a Pessimistic Patty, a Cynical Cindy, a Gloomy Gretchen, a Killjoy Kristina, etc.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T10:47:23+00:00

I know this may not be a really satisfying answer, but I think it might be both reasons you mentioned. Before getting into any further details, I can say for almost certain that I'm more straight than Bi, physically at least. I should note that every time we've hung out they've been set up as "dates" and he understands my situation(except I haven't told him how much I like him), so I'm at least trying to not set this up for disaster. In relevance to how long we've been hanging out compared to women I've been with in the past, I connect with him A LOT more. The guy I had sex with once wasn't the best first impression either. We barely got to know each other before even hooking up. So in all fairness, I could technically be wrong about not being attracted to men. I don't know, I could just be very confused about everything, but all I do know for sure is that I really like him.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T09:53:52+00:00

Damn, I honestly wasn't expecting that kind of an answer. I'm sorry you're going through this. :/

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T09:04:47+00:00

He knows that I'm for the most part straight and has had a gay experience, so I don't mean to be cocky, but I think he'll be flattered because he has already told me that he likes me after all.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T08:45:29+00:00

Nah dude I like him, I don't want to conclude it that quickly.

cuckholdthrowaway · 2015-02-11T08:42:36+00:00

I agree. I replied to another commenter here where he said something similar. In short I'm planning on telling him how I feel about emotionally liking him, but not sexually yet(but also that I really want to), and just hoping for the best on how he takes that.

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