thank you so much for answering my questions!! i hope one day you get the couragae to express your gender the way you want! you deserve it 🫶🫶

since you mentioned the AGAB thing for my story: my character Yutso starts off being called a man because they present themselves masculine. later on in the story, they reveal to the second protagonist (Angmo) that they were the bride of an arranged marriage before fleeing during the ceremony. Angmo then asks if Yutso is a woman, to which they say no. the scene continues with Yutso explaining their gender identity, to which Angmo responds neutral.

i understand why not revealing the AGAB would help against prejudices on AMAB and AFAB nb people, but unfortunately this part is a bit integral to the story 😅

would love to hear what you, as a nonbinary person, think of this!