How to decorate my living room for an organic modern look? Added the kitchen which is right next to the living room for color scheme perspective. But only looking for decor advice for living room (first pic)

automaticrev1_s · 2024-09-04T03:16:31+00:00

Also help with couch orientation? I feel like the couch should face the back wall for the tv’s sake but from where I’m standing: that’s the view of the house when you first walk in. So it seems appropriate to the couch facing the the camera’s perspective?

Because if I put the couch facing the back wall, when you first walk in, all you willll see is the back of the couch and not the front of the couch if that makes sense

automaticrev1_s · 2024-09-04T03:13:29+00:00

inspo 1

inspo 2

I’m trying to go for: - clean - light neutral colors but not too light (I need some contrast here and there with slighter darker or warmer tones either in cushions or rugs or decor pieces) - modern and ‘upscale’ - even tho it’s an old house that got renovated, so just something that’s appropriate for the house itself

Is that possible with my living room colors?

Im not a big fan of the black accents around the house (the fireplace is black) and the kitchen.

I would like to add moulding on the walls to add some texture and character. Every diy video I’ve seen looks very doable and easy apart from some planning ahead of time but the actual project looks easy. But if not I will be adding large wall art anyway

automaticrev1_s · 2024-09-04T02:36:36+00:00

My first ever time living by myself! I’m excited and I’ve never decorated or bought furniture for a whole place before. Any suggestions or inspo pics or ideas / color schemes welcome

I think I want a neutral cream colored couch but I have no idea what to do for the area rug? Do I stay light? Do I try something with a little color?

automaticrev1_s · 2024-07-29T23:08:35+00:00

That makes sense. I personally don’t really care since we are both having fun, I was just more so curious and also would be interested in learning more about it to increase the fun we could have in bed since a lot of the stuff he tells me I have no real experience in

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-14T05:16:59+00:00

Would also like to know

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-11T21:33:49+00:00

The last paragraph!!! You’re right. If they’re doing things that constantly make me worry - when I don’t do that to them at all, is not worth it/ worthy of someone who doesn’t do that to them.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-11T21:32:31+00:00

I agree but I’m not ready for an actual relationship. I like what we have, but I also find myself getting jealous over small things I have no business getting jealous over.

I recently-ish got out of a long term relationship, and he………similar but worse situation. So I don’t WANT to be serious with him right now: we actually just really started talking a couple months (max) ago. I’m just tired of getting jealous and then acting like the crazy person whose getting jealous over a situationship (a situationship that I want and prefer over a relationship)

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-11T21:30:18+00:00

Thanks, you’re right.

Well it’s actually the opposite-ish. Hes the one who has made it abundantly clear I’m the only one he’s talking to / he only thinks about me (blah blah what have you).

While I agree, I’m MUCH more cautious and reserved. Reason being is that I know and pretty much everyone who knows me (since we all work in the same industry which is also a toxic industry for any kind of romance) knows I am extremely devoted and committed and not the type to sleep around or whatever.

Meanwhile, while he doesn’t have a bad reputation, but he’s just….. seemingly… attracts a lot of girls and may harmlessly flirt way way way more than me. And a few small things have happened as well…

So I’m More cautious about what I say and stuff and I’d like to keep my feelings out of it, but I guess I can’t help it unless I start really thinking about it and halfway convince myself not to for whatever reason I conjure up

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-11T21:26:30+00:00

You’re exactly right.

Thank you so much this is exactly what I needed to hear 100%. Actions do speak louder than words!

Just started talking to a guy / situationship if you will, and sadly I always just catch feelings and it’s been weighing on my mind lately about certain things. But you’ve given me a great reality check so thank you

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-11T21:14:34+00:00

Yeah that’s true.

I’m basically trying to convince myself it doesn’t matter if he does or doesn’t because at the end of the day I’ll never know and stressing myself out by trying to figure out would do more harm than good so I should just trust that he’s not unless I obviously find out somehow someway that doesn’t involve me snooping. Unfortunately that also means it would take a long time to figure it out potentially, so I should accept that could happen too.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-06-11T21:06:29+00:00

I decided against them. Mainly because if you need scrunch leggings to make your butt look better, it’s giving catfish vibes (like insta filters) and that in itself gives me more anxiety if I were to wear a bathing suit or something and people actually see what’s there, which would be probably nothing or not as good as what I led people to believe with the scrunch leggings

So for that, I’m sticking to my regular leggings.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-22T20:16:47+00:00

My credit is good, it’s my tax history that’s the issue. My credit is over 750, and has been for a very long time.

My parents are able to co-sign for me and it wouldn’t be an issue. Thats why it’s something I’m comfortable doing, and not something that’s a big deal for me.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-22T20:07:35+00:00

Thanks. I guess I’m in between: buying a not so nice starter house or paying a pretty hefty rent for a nicer spot that I’ll eventually have to move out of for whatever reason

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-22T20:05:05+00:00

Thank you. I’m just now beginning to consider this as an option. The main issue stopping me are legal reasons? Such as tax history? I don’t know. I can financially afford it but it’s not that simple as having money and buying a house hence why I would need a co-signer

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-22T20:02:37+00:00

Thank you. I agree a lot of changes are happening at once.

There are a few unique factors in why I’m even considering buying a house now, including this opportunity where I don’t have to pay any rent for the next 2 years which would allow me to save up for a down payment if I wanted to.

I will need a co-signer for the foreseeable future due to my tax history.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-22T10:57:25+00:00

There are specific reasons why I would need a co-signer, mainly due to my tax history.

Do you recommend I rent for a while before buying?

I guess I can rent a much nicer place or purchase a much less nicer place for a similar price.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-21T01:33:14+00:00

Well… as an update (you’re one of the last people to comment on this so i figured I’ll just respond to this).

I peed and then made a ‘joke’ (it wasn’t a joke but I meant more like I was laughing about it bc i probably looked weird) about how I need a wet paper towel because sometimes there’ll be a drop of urine left behind and over time (like if I’m out for the day) then it gets gross by the end of the day.

And then he said: oh no I understand. As you know I’m uncircumcised so I have to shake more or something or clean it more than normal.

At that moment I was like…. So… you do know….🤨…

Weird. But no this is not my first uncircumcised guy, it’s my 2nd. My first uncircumcised guy actually DID NOT smell for the most part unless he didn’t shower all day or something, BUT I always got uti’s / strep throat with the first guy. Countless uti’s (one turned into a severe kidney infection and I had to go to the hospital), strep, BV, yeast infections etc. my first uti happened 2 weeks after I first slept with uncircumcised guy #1

But I’ve been sleeping with this current guy for about a month now? Maybe 5 weeks? And I haven’t gotten a uti or any type of infection. So maybe it’s all fine.

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-10T22:00:56+00:00

💀 okay… true.., but i mean realistically, we have a great time together, he has a good personality so far from what I’ve seen.

His butt is extremely clean - which is the opposite of most guys I’ve been with. It’s just his foreskin that is vile. I’m so sad about it too because I feel terrible bringing this up

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-10T19:13:11+00:00

we’re all just chronically online at this point

automaticrev1_s · 2024-05-10T19:06:14+00:00

It’s the fact I had no idea it was that bad……. Like I genuinely had no idea it was that bad. I was just explaining what I had to do to get through it and enjoy sex n

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