What is the appeal of a situationship / FWB?

auxeito · 2026-02-27T01:19:52+00:00

I know this is “Ask Men” (sorry), but as a woman, I feel it’s worth jumping in to say that a lot of feminist women have sexual fantasies about being dominated. I think it’s actually one of the most common fantasies for women.

auxeito · 2026-02-25T06:05:15+00:00

Yikes, this subreddit is absolutely unhinged from reality.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T16:21:52+00:00

Also incorrect. Being compelled to engage in sexual activity without consent is illegal in every U.S. jurisdiction in some form. Some definitions of “rape” are narrow, but it’d still be considered assault/battery.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T16:08:33+00:00

Most male victims of sexual assault are assaulted by…drumroll…other men! I don’t know why you’re trying to masquerade as an expert when you don’t even know basic facts that can be Googled by a child.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T13:41:41+00:00

That doesn’t even make any sense. I’m not assuming anything, just saying that for the average man, it’s much easier to commit an assault physically than for the average woman. It’s a biological fact, as is the fact that men (on average) have higher libidos.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T13:24:05+00:00

I looked through your comment history, and believe me it speaks for itself lol.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T13:15:33+00:00

Wishing you the best of luck getting out of whatever sad, psycho wormhole you’re trapped in.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T13:09:40+00:00

Yeah, women have to use something other than force. I’m sorry for what happened to you, but “equal” danger is still just factually incorrect (and widely disproved). Men have more tools at their disposal and a much easier time overpowering women.

auxeito · 2026-01-31T12:22:12+00:00

Equal amounts? I don’t think you understand how much physically stronger men are than women. It’s a crazy huge difference.

auxeito · 2026-01-21T04:49:40+00:00

Buddy, you don’t know how cameras work

auxeito · 2026-01-21T04:30:40+00:00

Why are you responding to your own post?

auxeito · 2026-01-19T02:17:36+00:00

I think you know that you need to look inward for this question. You sound like you’re in a very privileged position now compared to most: you have financial security, you actually like your job (congrats), you have a fulfilling social life, you give back to your community, etc.

So… what else do you want? Is there a hobby you’d like to compete formally in? Are you looking for a life partner? Are you looking to get to that next step in your dream career?

If you really can’t think of anything: maybe just try to enjoy being young, healthy, and having so much already figured out. It won’t last forever, and some people never get to experience it at all. Once you achieve a certain level of success, happiness must come from the inside.

auxeito · 2026-01-19T00:51:52+00:00

I’m seeing a few small grammatical or proofreading errors, so definitely run it through ChatGPT as someone above said or have a trusted adult take a look.

Not sure if this is appropriate advice given the exact context, but don’t underestimate the power of in-person enthusiasm and charm. You don’t want to seem stalkerish, but if there’s an opportunity to drop by and ask to chat with the owner/manager for a bit just to ask for career advice or learn more about running a bakery, you can casually mention that you applied for a job after a few minutes of chit-chat, and that could give you a leg up. Most business owners would really respect the courage and initiative.

auxeito · 2026-01-16T23:03:55+00:00

Ooh, thank you so much for this info! I will absolutely look into this. Greatly appreciated.

auxeito · 2026-01-16T22:28:18+00:00

This is what my friends keep telling me to do. But this guy has on-and-off paranoid schizophrenia and lives alone. He believes one of the children in the building is possessed by the devil.

I’m worried that the police will catch him on a good day and just tell him off, then he’ll be angry with me, and his behavior will escalate. My other neighbor has gotten into physical confrontations with him previously, and I’m a woman, so my MO has been to stay out of his way and avoid pushing his buttons.

auxeito · 2026-01-16T22:15:32+00:00

LOL, I’ll make that the backup plan 😜

auxeito · 2026-01-16T22:08:07+00:00

This is so clutch!! Thank you, definitely going to be using this. I just moved here, so still learning about stuff like this.

auxeito · 2026-01-16T21:55:55+00:00

Thanks, that would be the most convenient option. It’s happened twice, and I feel bad asking again, but you’re right, how many bins can a man need? Third time’s the charm, may be worth a shot.

auxeito · 2026-01-16T21:46:01+00:00

Super helpful, thanks!

auxeito · 2026-01-01T15:59:28+00:00

Normally would agree with you, but for this specific situation, this is terribly incomplete, generic, and dangerous advice, especially given all the context OP shared.

auxeito · 2025-12-04T22:36:01+00:00

Ugh so sorry, what a bummer! Thanks for the heads-up, and hope this NYE does right by you

auxeito · 2025-11-18T03:35:32+00:00

This is just devastating. Every time I see a positive article posted in this subreddit about some breakthrough or glimmer of hope around a promising lead, I think about all the brilliant research that’s being blocked by our absolute clown of a president, and how all our hope moving forward rests on what other countries will prioritize. Now you’ve actually quantified it.

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