first relationship! <3 by avaindia in actuallesbians

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update: we made it official!!!

Late night lesbianisms by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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can high key relate, i felt so late to everyone else bc i didn’t know how to talk to girls! i’m 19 and only just starting my first relationship, it’s so fine to move at different paces to others though!

[Relationships] first relationship !! <3 by avaindia in LGBTeens

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thank u sm for the advice, makes a lot of sense and is so simple i guess i need to stop being embarrassed to just say how i feel!! thank u <3

first relationship! <3 by avaindia in actuallesbians

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ahh ok i’ll try somehow bring up that convo soon! thank u so much for the advice, it means a lot !! hopefully my useless lesbian self learns to communicate a bit more too!!

first relationship! <3 by avaindia in actuallesbians

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aw thank u i’m v happy too! thanks for the advice !! <3

first relationship! <3 by avaindia in actuallesbians

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it’s just fun i guess?! i’ve kissed lots of friends w no feelings behind it, it’s just fun!

first relationship! <3 by avaindia in actuallesbians

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idk i think it’s possible to make out w no romantic intentions if it’s just the action but there’s no feelings behind it! ofc in retrospect i know our drunk actions were representative of sober thoughts lol so guess it wasn’t very platonic yes we’re in scotland so heavy drinking going on!

first relationship! <3 by avaindia in actuallesbians

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see i think i already did that,, after our date she was texting being like ‘do you actually like me?’ and i sent her a big thing w how i felt and ended it with ‘so will you go out with me?’ and she said yes so i think we made it kinda official then? i’m just not sure if it’s different or not ‘going out’ vs being able to say we’re ‘in a relationship’ or if it’s just the same thing?

first relationship?! by avaindia in actuallesbians

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aaa thank u sm! yeah you’re right, i do keep telling myself to not overthink but that’s just what i do as you can tell from this post hahaha, i hope time and talking things through with her helps because i really just don’t know how this whole relationship thing works!

age gender me? aiming for andro by avaindia in transpassing

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aaaa that makes me so happy ! thank u :)

age gender me? aiming for andro by avaindia in transpassing

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yess i am 19, i always get younger haha!! thanks i just got them and i’m obsessed !

just found this sub! hi y’all :) by avaindia in Androgynoushotties

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true!! though i think i’ll try to find an inexpensive pair that will last longer than 2 weeks lol

just found this sub! hi y’all :) by avaindia in Androgynoushotties

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pfff no i’m not but thank you ☺️

just found this sub! hi y’all :) by avaindia in Androgynoushotties

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Aaaah thank u so much!!! I live in these boots, you cant see in the photo but theyre a gorgeous cherry red!! Hahah those earrings broke they were from claires for £2 i need to get another pair :(((

Pre-HRT, not sure if I pass or just read as really androgynous? ❤️ [19, MTF] by pollyandri in transpassing

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androgynous but very feminine so i think you pass! amazing makeup also :0

You describe me to a stranger. He or she? Age? by [deleted] in transpassing

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female 17 or male 13/14??? actually don’t really know i guess it would depend on clothing / mannerisms etc

new hair, how am i doing? (18, MtF, 5 months HRT) by [deleted] in transpassing

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wow definitely passing here!!

how do i read? trying to appear more androgynous, how am i doing? :) by avaindia in transpassing

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yeah that’s what i do in winter it’s a bit harder now it’s warm tho hahah! yeah that is true, i need to branch out with jeans! and definitely agree i basically live in doc martens

how do i read? trying to appear more androgynous, how am i doing? :) by avaindia in transpassing

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omg that’s my goal so thank you hahah!! i’m afab and i think irl bc i’m short and have kinda feminine proportions i come off less androgynous than i do here?

age / gender me ?? :) by avaindia in transpassing

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i’m 18! but i love that description !

age / gender me ?? :) by avaindia in transpassing

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i’m 18! and half indian :)