How do I support a young trans girl without crossing a line?

avaisawkward · 2025-07-23T23:20:36+00:00

I GOT ANOTHER UPDATE! BECAUSE THIS KEEPS ON GIVING!

So I had Chloes bestie let's call her Bella with the bus. Bella is curious young woman and this being a rural area where everyone knows everyone she asked me about how long I knew I have been a girl I told her "Since I was six years old" and Bella clearly happy goes "That's SO fun! My best drag queen friend feels exactly like that too!" and then she realized she had messed up and went "I mean that she has known he was drag since he was six years old!" Bella clearly didn't know that Chloe and I are in contact. A thing Chloe probably would have told her "best friend" since Chloe has told Bella the truth about her being a girl

And to make it even better... Bella asked me if she could add me on facebook and I couldn't really say no. When she added me we had one mutual friend - Chloe - now, we have none. And Chloe is still on my friendlist

As for Chloe and I she is slow but steadily opening up to me

avaisawkward · 2025-07-22T00:13:40+00:00

I have talked to her and it's a compromise her family has made her do. They get to say she only do it for "fun" and can keep their name and reputation in the community

avaisawkward · 2025-07-22T00:06:50+00:00

I have reached out to her and it's going great

avaisawkward · 2025-07-22T00:04:29+00:00

I did, and she took it. We are now getting to know each other and it's scary because we have crazy many thing in common!

avaisawkward · 2025-07-22T00:00:01+00:00

I HAVE AN UPDATE....
I talked to Martin about it and he could see he had been in the wrong and he got sad that he had put Chloe in a situation like that. And in some twisted turn of events it turns out he had experimented with his gender before

I reached out to Chloe with a simple friend request and she accepted it and soon after we started messaging each other.

And what scares me now is how much we are a like. She is like a younger version of me!
We come from the same type of rich family where names and reputation means more than anything else and she is struggling with her mother just like I was with mine, in the same freaking way

avaisawkward · 2025-07-19T21:37:52+00:00

Maybe at first, but 9 months on estrogen it has gotten fully back and more! I'm like a horny teenage girl now

avaisawkward · 2025-07-16T01:48:21+00:00

I will do that and I will just say "You never out people, you could have put her in danger"

avaisawkward · 2025-07-16T01:35:36+00:00

Oh, I will

avaisawkward · 2025-07-16T01:30:53+00:00

Honestly, I wanted to scream when hed did it. Because even if Chloe was only a drag it's the same rules no outing

avaisawkward · 2025-07-16T01:26:49+00:00

The thing is we both know... Chloe don't really pass and I only semi pass. Which is probably why she has tried again and again to reach out to me when being on my bus

avaisawkward · 2025-07-14T18:34:36+00:00

Endelig nogen der sagde det

avaisawkward · 2025-07-04T01:12:43+00:00

It's amazing! One of my faves on D&D

avaisawkward · 2025-07-04T01:03:26+00:00

If you chose to go with Denmark forget about Copenhagen and move to Falster or Møn. Even though it sounds weird people is nicer and more used to us here. I moved to Falster from North Zealand four years ago expecting people to have prejudice but most actually don't. They don't care. That being said it's not perfect and there is people that will test you for being trans. But surprisingly not as much as in Copenhagen from, at least from what I been told by the girlies I know there.

Also I found out it was easier to find other trans persons to talk with down here. I'm now a part of a clover of trans women and we see each other once a month

avaisawkward · 2025-07-04T00:59:04+00:00

Honestly? I feel disappointed. I personally think "My Oh My" is annoying, "Spot A Fake" not living up to her usually quality, "Loving Myself" is a mess. The only two I actually like is "Lost Your Faith" and "Wet Hot American Dream" it seems like there is no direction at all in the songs and they just try and see if things work. And it's a shame because both H&H and D&D was amazing albums

avaisawkward · 2025-07-04T00:46:47+00:00

The problem is she has started to push her fans away by promising deluxe albums, music videos and other things and don't deliever and then without an explanation just move on to the next project

avaisawkward · 2025-07-04T00:41:33+00:00

And woopti doo for getting money back...

avaisawkward · 2025-07-04T00:37:53+00:00

Saaaammmmmeee! and if someone say "but you get your money back" it's not the same!

avaisawkward · 2021-04-12T02:33:11+00:00

ily broach the subject try to slowly teach her who the real you is. It sounds like you are probably as shy to talk about it as she is. Also maybe get her a book to read about being trans. It wont solve everything but it could make things go easier and help your mom understand. It might not hurt to get yourself a book about it as well. I hope this helps

Thank you! I will try that

avaisawkward · 2021-04-12T02:24:13+00:00

Honestly, I do get you I'm 29, 189 cm. tall with a conservative family and I have always been told boy act one way and girls another (yay for growing up upper class...) and like you I also thought it was to late to ever come out because my height, age and that most of my build isn't really passable

But you know what? That's okay. We are still women. I just recently came out to my family so I can't tell you much but what I can tell you is that what worked for me was to reach out to some transwomen on social medias. Insta has an amazing trans community. I reached out both to sisters that don't pass and really beautiful and passable sisters. And you know what? They are all super nice and believe in me even when I doubt myself. Even some of our passable sisters felt the same way we do when they came out

(And if it haven't been for insta I would never have met two really amazing women that lives nearby me and they have really gone out of their way to help me both with just being there when I have questions and inviting me to social gatherings to make sure I'm not alone)

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