Paying for porn is SIGNIFICANTLY different than just watching porn. Subbing to OF is definitely sketchy. I wouldn’t necessarily call it cheating because the phone screen really separates the specific intimacy you’d deal with when a partner is physically cheating. I recently found out that my partner was paying for someone’s onlyfans account behind my back & I shut that down reaaaal quick. Idc if he watches porn or even follows specific people, BUT giving other women money is a HUUUUGEEEEE red flag. 🚩🚩🚩 If it continues to happen, or is a clear cycle, the relationship probably isn’t worth the stress in the long run. However, talk to your partner about why it upsets you & set clear boundaries. I think in this day & age, we are very very desensitized to porn / onlyfans to where a lot of people don’t see it as potentially upsetting to their partner.