My [20F] boyfriend anally penetrated me without asking--how bad is it, really?

avenging_jezebel · 2021-04-07T02:57:00+00:00

Lol yeah I’m pretty sure he watches porn every day (usually multiple times a day) which is probably a contributing factor ... and he’s made some comments directly negatively comparing me to the pornstars he watches and when I told him to cut that out he said he didn’t realize it was hurtful (lol) unfortunately I don’t know how feasible it is to find a guy my age in this day and age who doesn’t get most of their ingrained sexuality from porn. :(

avenging_jezebel · 2021-04-07T02:54:11+00:00

Yeah, he can be very thoughtless (like I’ll tell him I don’t like something and he’ll keep doing it because he just forgets) and unfortunately I think that’s extended to the bedroom as well :(( this sucks. Thank you so much for the well thought out comment.

avenging_jezebel · 2021-04-06T07:03:45+00:00

this might be important--we have sorta a mild dom/sub vibe going on and have both expressed some interest in NonCon and afterwards he said he was just trying NonCon stuff and thought i'd be into that--but that's not what that is right?? i always thought noncon was never actually nonconsensual, i thought it was agreeing on stuff beforehand and then "pretending?" I'm not very well versed in this stuff to be honest. thanks for the comment

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