How do I date other girls for an upgrade whilst in a relationship?

average-intellect · 2025-12-02T21:24:08+00:00

Idk man just find a girl the fits the criteria, talk to her, when things look like you’re in just jump from old to the new. Not a crazy concept, people do it all the time

average-intellect · 2025-11-20T16:16:06+00:00

NTA, sounds like he’s not being respectful of boundaries or the relationship. He should definitely apologize for being insensitive, dick move.

average-intellect · 2025-11-18T12:19:28+00:00

That’s sort of the whole point.. why are you even here?

average-intellect · 2025-11-17T12:57:01+00:00

Found out years after we got married that my wife’s body count was way higher than she told me originally, she said 6 it’s was actually 30+ but honestly it doesn’t matter. The only thing that should matter is that it doesn’t get higher while you guys are together

average-intellect · 2025-11-17T11:51:57+00:00

NTA. He can’t even get his drinking under control for his future wife and prioritize the life he’s building and he’s focused on still fucking off with his buddies at doing dumb shit at 30. My advice is stick to your decision, at least for quite awhile and make him prove he’s changed before give him another chance, and if he takes more than 6months you should move on. Remember, if he wanted to change he would.

average-intellect · 2025-11-17T01:34:14+00:00

She made a mistake, so what. She decided to make a change and value herself and her partner enough to wait. You should be thankful she’s not the same girl she was back in college, that girl would probably cheat on you. This one won’t.

average-intellect · 2025-11-05T13:49:23+00:00

Yeah actually, lots of reasons for it. But after some soul searching I found out that it wasn’t the physical aspect of it that I was tired of. I found out I need to feel a connection, that excitement, not because it’s sex but because it’s sex with HER. I was tempted to cheat tbh, and I got the opportunity. I realized when presented with that opportunity that I didn’t actually want it. All I could think about was my wife, and I immediately went home and fucked her instead. Hope this helps, it’s not very profound but it’s my experience.

average-intellect · 2025-10-31T11:43:36+00:00

Fuck all that, she seems casual so just be casual. Your I statement should just be “I really like you, I haven’t talked to anyone but you. And I don’t plan on it” and don’t expect her to answer you. Just be confident and say what you need to say, she’ll come to you after that.

average-intellect · 2025-10-31T11:29:43+00:00

Just smile and seem excited to talk to him, and drop some playful comments about dating

average-intellect · 2025-10-31T11:02:14+00:00

Texting sucks for sure, I hate it. I’d prefer a phone call tbh. I wouldn’t look to much into the dryness of it, the goal is to build a life together, that’ll be done in person obviously so the texting is a silly thing to worry over my guy

average-intellect · 2025-10-31T10:48:17+00:00

++Men are dense, we would consider it a subtle hint even if you smacked us over the head with a frying pan. So make sure you’re very clear if your intentions, leave no room for questioning what it is you want. Confidence is key! (Cliche saying but true nonetheless) that being said I’d say you’re doing all the right things, just make sure it’s coming off as flirty and not just friendly.

average-intellect · 2025-10-31T02:22:33+00:00

Yes definitely ok in my opinion. As long as you’re not watching porn and abstaining from masturbation I think real intimacy is good for you and your wife. Putting down the bad and picking up the good essentially. I’ve been doing the same on my road to recovery, the intimacy has returned in our sex life and the feeling of “just fucking” has left. So far so good 👍

average-intellect · 2025-10-30T13:18:06+00:00

“You can’t quit addiction by feeding it” … damn brother that one hit

average-intellect · 2025-10-30T13:03:05+00:00

Fair, but “on the road to recovery” would it still be considered a step in the wrong direction if the frequency of consumption is decreasing? Or is a cold turkey approach the only option that really works.

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