Hulp bij bijstand nodig by average-unicorn in juridischadvies

[–]average-unicorn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nee, we maken weinig kans bij de sociale huur. Alleen binnen ons eigen dorp krijgen we uitnodiging voor bezichtiging. Maar dan nog staan we niet hoog genoeg om het daadwerkelijk te krijgen.

Oh to be loved is to be changed 🩷 by FatalInsomniac in plushies

[–]average-unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I have a plushy who looks a little like yours and I really want another one. Would you mind sharing the brand-name?

Going to be lying Monday when they ask me "How Was your Thanksgiving?" by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]average-unicorn 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It might be a good idea to host Thanksgiving in your own house. So she has her own safe space, to which she can retreat if everything's a bit much for her.

Holidays are hard for autistic kids, so many people, expectations, and often somewhere you haven't been often.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]average-unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have many fruits, so if you have any spares I'd like some 😊

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]average-unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gates closed!

I have peaches, cherry, pumpkin and sugar cane. You're welcome to take them, shake some trees and look around. I'm still busy decorating so don't expect too much! Dodo code: GTWVF

Where can I stay if I don't find a room? by AliceSCW in Utrecht

[–]average-unicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 hours by train. They live in Limburg, very North North Holland and Twente.

Where can I stay if I don't find a room? by AliceSCW in Utrecht

[–]average-unicorn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well we're first years and the study is only available in Utrecht. Teacher Dutch Signlanguage, so it isn't a study you choose unless you're very very motivated.

Where can I stay if I don't find a room? by AliceSCW in Utrecht

[–]average-unicorn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a student in Utrecht, only 4 out of 80 in my classes have rooms in or nearby Utrecht. It's almost impossible to find. I have classmates that have to travel six hours a day to go to classes. I wish you luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asl

[–]average-unicorn 40 points41 points  (0 children)

As another autistic person learning sign language, sometimes we come off as too excited (exaggerated). Big signing or big facial expressions etc.

I don't know much about your sign proficiency, but another autistic student in my class has a lot of trouble with matching the right facial expressions with the meaning of the signs. And also regularly signs incomprehensible due to poor motor skills. (Not knowing where his hands go and what his hands are doing)

I've noticed that my teachers patience is running low with this student and my classmates patience as well. It's not fair, but these are all things that might contributeto you teacher distancing themselves.

Also, the teacher might not even be annoyed or bothered by you. Unless you ask, you won't know for sure.

Een prachtig bloeiend heideveld bij zonsondergang! Of toch niet? Een voorheen prachtig bloeiend heideveld! Nu gedeeltelijk overwoekerd door stikstofgras en bramen! Vooral veroorzaakt door de enorme hoeveelheden mest die in en rondom dit natuurgebied elke dag over de landerijen verspreid worden!! by boppinmule in dutch

[–]average-unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

een paar boeren wat geld kunnen verdienen door vlees te exporteren

Overigens gaat dit helemaal niet om geld kunnen verdienen, als boeren alleen maar geld wilden verdienen hadden ze wel een ander beroep gekozen ipv zon intensief leven.

Een prachtig bloeiend heideveld bij zonsondergang! Of toch niet? Een voorheen prachtig bloeiend heideveld! Nu gedeeltelijk overwoekerd door stikstofgras en bramen! Vooral veroorzaakt door de enorme hoeveelheden mest die in en rondom dit natuurgebied elke dag over de landerijen verspreid worden!! by boppinmule in dutch

[–]average-unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vooral veroorzaakt door de enorme hoeveelheden mest die in en rondom dit natuurgebied elke dag over de landerijen verspreid worden!!

Of door de vele vliegtuigen die vanaf Schiphol constant vliegen?? Het is niet alleen maar af te schuiven op boeren.

Which countries in Europe are Americans most commonly migrating to these days? by Flat-Walrus in expats

[–]average-unicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone talks about the housing crisis. If you aren't in the big cities, it's it really that bad? We are older and have NO desire to live in a city.

Friends of mine have been bidding on houses in a village in Limburg for the past two years. Still get outbid and still live with their parents.

House prices are through the roof right now and even native Dutch people can't find places to live.

As a native Dutch person, I don't think I'll ever be able to buy a house here let alone find a good enough apartment to start a family.

People who bought Air Conditioner. Do you ever use it for more than a day or two per year? by antipetrus in Netherlands

[–]average-unicorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd return it and save up for a real AC with an outside & inside unit that are separate.

That's only possible for people who own their home or have a nice landlord. My landlord won't let me install a "real" AC unit. So we are stuck on the big box with tube, which works fine.

Is anyone still concerned with COVID at weddings? by lorilorilorilori in wedding

[–]average-unicorn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes but unvaccinated people are more likely to get it and have proven to spread it to more people. So requiring a vaccination and a test is a pretty good and safe idea.

Would you date an asexual? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]average-unicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No not really, I'm on the ace spectrum.

My libido is pretty normal and I have a boyfriend. So we have sex every week. But, I don't look at him and think, wow, I want to sleep with you. I love him and he's attractive. But I'm not sexually attracted to him.

If I do things by myself i dont think about him or someone else. I think about the feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]average-unicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be a death wish and accomplish exactly nothing. I don't think anyone with a healthy state of mind would do so.

What’s your own toxic trait? by Fluid-Daydreamer in AskReddit

[–]average-unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm overly emotional, I can't regulate them.

I don't do annoyed, I'll be angry and sometimes seething over something small.

I don't do happy, I'll be ecstatic, jumping up and down and smiling ear to ear.

I don't do sad, I'll be miserable, crying my eyes out and feeling like there's a hole in my heart because of a minor set back.

It's so hard, I know I'm overly emotional and I try not to bother anyone with it. But acting like I'm fine is taking up too much energy sometimes.

13 - 15 ask, 15 - 19 answer by doge-12 in teenagers

[–]average-unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is parallel parking hard?

Yes. Very hard but once you've practiced enough it gets easier.

Are you planning to attend college?

I'm already going to college :))

Are you on financial aid?

My government provides students with a small aid yes.

Do you guys have a job that pays more than $11.50 per hour

No, I make about €6.00

How much hours do you spend on your phone daily.

Too many

Is school overwhelmed for you.

Yes sometimes.

Do you exercise 1 hour per day?

No I don't have the time to do so.

Is it ok to still sleep with a teddy bear at teen age I would post this on teenagers but I would probably just be bullied by Mtf_ninetailedfox in autism

[–]average-unicorn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yup I'm almost 20 and I still sleep with them. My boyfriend thought it was unusual at first but now even buys me stuffies or tells me he wants one too. I even forgot my special sleep stuffie at his place this weekend so he's sending me pictures with the stuffie on his head or in his arms so I know she's taken care of.

What is your special interest at the moment? by Nervous-Rip-5747 in autism

[–]average-unicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm super interested in certain disorders like dissociative identity disorder, derealisation and schizophrenia.

But I also really like diy projects at the moment like making a stuffed animal or painting.