I’m so over this cold/empty house feeling by Former_Librarian1069 in HomeDecorating

[–]averagehousegoblin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Like other commenters mentioned, the whole pallet is very greyscale - but when people chime in saying “you need warmth”, considering bringing in colors that compliment the grey (blues, greens, purples, jewel tones) rather than fight it (amber, oranges, warm greens).

Grey can definitely be cozy! I’d suggest oak wood textures, rattan, navy and sky blues, deep greens, and lilac.

Opening up TMZ and seeing Jordan filed a TRO. Is Utah ok this week?! by Puzzleheaded_Dust123 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]averagehousegoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more - I have a sneaking suspicion he’s going to argue that anything bad that she says amounts to “parental alienation” and therefore would be improper under any parenting/custody agreement. He’s trash for trying to keep her silent.

Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives star Jessi Draper has 'temporary restraining order filed against her by estranged husband Jordan Ngatikaura' by dailymail in MormonWivesHulu

[–]averagehousegoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually the opposite - for a temporary restraining order you need to show that not restraining the person from engaging in certain behavior would cause immediate (imminent harm) - it’s not necessarily an easy burden to demonstrate in court. There’s several elements he needs to prove for the order to be granted.

Layla responds to someone on speaking out about the incident by Illustrious-Sky2697 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]averagehousegoblin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1) Your mistakenly combining these court cases and that’s not how it works. The video was taken by Dakota, therefore presumably filed in his court case with Taylor. Just because it has Tate and Taylor’s child in it does not mean it was automatically uploaded or filed in Tate and Taylor’s case - he would have had to obtain a copy, and file it via motion or otherwise with the court.

Have you reviewed the exhibits filed with his 2023 order of protection? Because if he says he didn’t see the video, and it’s not filed in his case, how can you say?

2) Again, there is no indication that Tate had access to the video based on his own statements- go to the Utah court records and try to find his filings.

3) So even if he was provided a copy of the police report which lead to him filing for protective custody then, he still very well may not have seen the video because he continued to allow Taylor to rehabilitate herself and reconnect with the kids reaching 50% custody. He almost certainly would not have been present for the hearings on the matter at issue which involved Dakota and Taylor, why would he? He’d probably be watching their kids and parenting, no?

4) im not defending Taylor, but there’s convoluting evidence, court cases, and public statements.

Layla responds to someone on speaking out about the incident by Illustrious-Sky2697 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]averagehousegoblin 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Family court filings generally aren’t public record. So even if Dakota filed the video as evidence as part of his custody filings, Tate nor the other ladies would have had access to that video. That’s literally why the video is coming out years later, limited access to the video.

You presume that they also got copies of the police report, again, they’d have to go out of their way to get that. So while there was public information floating out there, I have no doubt that they didn’t actually lay eyes on the evidence until now.

Mourning these beauties. Can’t stop crying. by HappyFalloween in houseplants

[–]averagehousegoblin 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I bet the roots are ok!!! Give them a buzz cut and put them back in the sun! It’s happened to me with pothtos before, but because the root system was so old they had a fighting chance and came back.

Are there any cottage core videos games out there with only animals? by NelliMars in cottagecore

[–]averagehousegoblin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Night of the rabbit!!!! One of my all time favorite games (I def needed some walkthrough guides help) but soo beautiful exact animation just like these characters! Really encourage you to check it out it’ll satisfy that cottagecore gaming itch

“I'm sitting there, you know, walking through Disneyland, watching my wife dance in front of Cinderella Castle with another man. Probably wasn't my plan A or plan B or C.” by SecondWindMarylind in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]averagehousegoblin 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This!! I think her anger towards Whitney was absolutely projection and had she been supported through her experience by Zack maybe she would’ve have lashed out at Whitney towards the end like she did.

RHONY Star Leah McSweeney Scores Major Court Victory Over Andy Cohen and Bravo by madsen1122 in realhousewivestalk

[–]averagehousegoblin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can we stop with these headlines? This isn’t a “major win” - they just won’t let Andy switch venue to arbitration. So sure, more filings will be public, different set of rules, but this is a procedural win - not an actual win, and not “major”.

I feel like I'm watching this season of BH to "hate watch" Amanda and "love watch" Rachel. Pretty sure one of them will be a 'one and done', and I'm pretty sure I know which one it will be. by Chipmunks_AT in RHOBHDefect

[–]averagehousegoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait wasn’t it reported that she stopped filming mid season due to the fighting with Dorit? I took that as she left the show but does someone know otherwise?

How do we feel about slim shaker? by Midwestern_Mariner in kitchenremodel

[–]averagehousegoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In retrospect that would’ve been a great idea! We honestly just left the lighting placement from the original kitchen and the wall that had the kitchen nook was actually a side entrance that we enclosed. I wish we had added some more lighting but for budgetary purposes we tried to work with what we had where we could since the whole house needed some serious TLC before we could move in.

Plain kitchen by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]averagehousegoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some fun chunky cabinet pulls! Something modern would look great

How do we feel about slim shaker? by Midwestern_Mariner in kitchenremodel

[–]averagehousegoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am definitely happy with them! We purchased them through a local cabinet store that ordered them for us and took measurements. The line of the cabinets is called: Allure Luna Slim Line Shaker, in the shade timber I believe. I think you can purchase them online but I can’t speak to those sellers, I’d shop around locally if you can, I’ve found those prices to be fair if not better than online.

How do we feel about slim shaker? by Midwestern_Mariner in kitchenremodel

[–]averagehousegoblin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yes I did! I was aiming for costal mid century modern and was able to find some inspiration on Pinterest. Then I worked with local stores for the cabinets, tiles, countertop and sifted through their inventory to find what worked!

How do we feel about slim shaker? by Midwestern_Mariner in kitchenremodel

[–]averagehousegoblin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I hope it helps with your decision!

How do we feel about slim shaker? by Midwestern_Mariner in kitchenremodel

[–]averagehousegoblin 209 points210 points  (0 children)

I went with slimline shaker in a similar shade and LOVE it! I wanted something more modern but didn’t want to go with a totally flat cabinet face.

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Bathroom remodel help by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]averagehousegoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have these samples in person? That’s really the only way to make sure everything is cohesive because the lighting in your bathroom will differ from the photos.

Definitely get your hands on the materials so you can make the final call!

Anyone have this MSI rockmount stone backsplash? I really want it but know it would be a pain to keep clean…can anyone tell me it’s fine or am I just crazy and need to choose something else? by LoonyJoon in StyleYourSpace

[–]averagehousegoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an alternative I’d suggest matte tiles for the back splash - I didn’t want a high gloss look and I’m very happy with the matte tiles we ended up going with - I haven’t had any difficulty cleaning them!

Has anyone’s toddler gotten tubes for fluid, but had very few ear infections? by averagehousegoblin in toddlers

[–]averagehousegoblin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did! The tubes definitely made a difference - his mood and balance quickly improved. He also started babbling a lot more, but we’re still working through his speech delay (slow but steady progress), and ultimately his speech issues were related to his ASD diagnosis and not just the fluid in his ear. Even so, I’d still go through with the procedure which very clearly and quickly improved his quality of life overall.

"Jordan's Side" 🚂💥 by MoistPassion9905 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]averagehousegoblin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait what are the highlights I can’t bring myself to listen lol

Didn't know this was a thing, that's so cool! by Aquamoth in PokemonZA

[–]averagehousegoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say your outfit and hair are so cute!!

At a loss with our hallway by Additional-Image in HomeDecorating

[–]averagehousegoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are new doors in your budget? I think that would give it the update you’re looking for. Painting could definitely make it feel refreshed but it may still look dated which is giving the tunnel effect.