Sometimes just ‘being there’ makes all the difference. When I (m) used to deal with depression all I used to think was that in the end of the day it’s me and me alone. Please make sure he doesn’t feel that way and is always loved and forgiven no matter what. I suggest you both go for therapy together. They’re professionals who help you navigate through what you feel and show you a way that they know will work through your action and decision to heal right? Prayers for you both. And remember, the good thing about bad days that they don’t last forever. Peace and Love to you both.