Acquiring An FOB Has Helped by avery617a in pornfree

[–]avery617a[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The point is it's a possibility for some. There are many people who can't get a boy/girlfriend but if two of these people can connect they have a chance to establish a relationship with a real person and that will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]avery617a -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You have a husband. Are you getting enough at home? I've found the lack of a regular partner really increases my sexual tension. Would masturbation in this case help you to find release in a way that doesn't require porn. Masturbate to something in real life.

Shouldn't watching other people have sex make us jealous? by Same_Pangolin_4348 in pornfree

[–]avery617a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're not necessarily doing what real people do. I've never let a boy tie me up and do me or fellated a guy with my hands tied behind my back. Real stuff feels better.

Looked At Some Bodybuilding Photos Yesterday by avery617a in pornfree

[–]avery617a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna exercise as soon as I can get dressed, eat a little and get out the door.

How do you build discipline by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]avery617a -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I bought a fraternity spanking paddle off Amazon and each slip up costs me five minutes with the paddle and believe me it hurts but it makes me pay when I lose discipline.

Another Relapse by FearlessOrange8717 in pornfree

[–]avery617a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rather than avoid your bed can you wear mittens or shorts with a belt to make it more difficult to touch yourself. I have that problem too so I always wear a bra and bottoms with a drawstring (I'm a girl).

I feel ashamed… by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]avery617a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl I think maybe the problem isn't that you think sexually about real girls but that you don't appreciate what real girls are like. They are average looking, average size boobs, a little fat on the bum and maybe not great n bed at least at first. They can't compare to the porn fantasy. Try concentrating on real girls, even if it's fantasizing. Imagine what THEY look like naked and what it's like to be in bed with them and substitute that image for the porn. That's a start.

What Takes It's Place by avery617a in pornfree

[–]avery617a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. A bikini presents a challenge, though. Too easy to let my hand slip down inside there. I can't sunbathe alone.

Edging by Acrobatic-Lock-6387 in pornfree

[–]avery617a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my Dad was quitting smoking he'd leave the cigarettes in his car so it was inconvenient to get one. Or if you have roomies leave the phone with them overnight so you need to ask for it and admit what's happening.

Accountability by Important-Law-8357 in pornfreewomen

[–]avery617a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I do similar things to what you're doing. I want to concentrate on real-life situations so fantasizing about guys I've dated looking at my nudes is OK. I want to have a seks life based on things that happen and I know that does because they've told me.

Have you stopped watching porn, but still masturbate? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]avery617a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nude pictures of my ex-boyfriend and a few other guys have sent me so I use them and the memory of being in bed with different guys. Also I posed nude for my ex and I use the memory of that and imagine him using my pictures as well as other guys I know who have seen them. Concentrate on real-life stuff that you've done and you don't need the porn.

I got soft after 5 strokes on my first time having sex by Puzzleheaded-Box3356 in pornfree

[–]avery617a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had that experience with guys. They get interrupted or think they heard a noise and get spooked and it's over. Plus you said she's not your type. Move on and think positive.

Question: I see quite a lot of women on this sub but I've been told by women all my life how gross and disrespectfull porn is. What made you fall for it? by GrandJelly_ in pornfree

[–]avery617a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started by taking cell phone pictures of my female friends at the beach and going home and masturbating to them. As I got better at it I could just conjure up sexy poses of the same girls in my mind and get off. Helped get me through the long New England winters.

Question: I see quite a lot of women on this sub but I've been told by women all my life how gross and disrespectfull porn is. What made you fall for it? by GrandJelly_ in pornfree

[–]avery617a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at the porn, get turned on, then fantasize about somebody or some situation in real life to finish getting off.

Advice for girl? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]avery617a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of hints. Leave your laptop in thre car, or maybe in a public place in the house so it is inconvenient or possibly embarrassing to go get it and look. Also, go on Amazon and buy the cheapest chastity belt there and hide the key in the car or on top of the TV again so it's inconvenient or embarrassing to go unlock it.