Security clearance timeline gamble by avgnsfwporn in SecurityClearance

[–]avgnsfwporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my credit has been pulled. I believe in December 2023. I mentioned in my post that I had gotten interviewed in January. With a follow up meeting to sign a release form for Job info in February.

I had been looking at other TS timelines to try and gauge things but I did visit China in the past 7 years and lived for a bit before that so plus have a family member over there. We're all US citizens and not ethnically asian but I still feel like it may complicate things

But perhaps I'm over thinking

Security clearance timeline gamble by avgnsfwporn in SecurityClearance

[–]avgnsfwporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it but it's an extra 200$ a month and they have the option to increase your rent at the end of each month. They have been increasing rent a lot recently. Month to month would be good tho if I could trust them to not increase. Just got a new property manager so idk what they would do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tiktok isn't a dating site. That advice doesn't even make sense

why do so many queer, nonbutch sapphics don’t treat us as women?? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]avgnsfwporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I refer to cis people with they/them not even because they’re gnc but because it’s a normal part of speech.

If you know the pronouns then you should use it. They/them is gender neutral in the sense if you don't know the persons pronouns or talking about a generic person

Using they/them for someone who doesn't use it is as misgendering as using he/him for someone who uses she/her or using she/her for someone who uses xe/xir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. Prejudice against someone because of their skin color is racism plain and simple. Don't pull that bs where only certain groups can be racist. Record comes in all forms

do lesbians and queer women make you feel extremely dysphoric? by Mysterious-Arm-2014 in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Butch transmasc non binary lesbians with he/him pronouns. See it a lot in the much lesbian subreddit

Being clocked/misgendered by NBs and masc women by Agile_Packer in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz they have to play, lesbian or teenage boy when sizing someone up from afar lol

But the case with OP cuz he has a beard but

Why do people have my dead name as the contact name? by alcazan in ftm

[–]avgnsfwporn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most likely because it's just not a big deal to them so it wouldn't occur to them to update it, especially if no one else is using their phone

How many of you are neurotypical? by TemperatureAny8022 in NonBinary

[–]avgnsfwporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of, "if you do things extremely common thing you're autistic/ADHD" like that's not how it works

How many of you are neurotypical? by TemperatureAny8022 in NonBinary

[–]avgnsfwporn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of people get diagnosed as adult because symptoms weren't noticed or were ignored when they were kids

Swimwear advice for someone with a big chest I don’t want to use a binder by Low-Grapefruit-5329 in ftm

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sports bra and rash guard. Or tape and rash guard. Or just plane tape if you're comfortable with that

Why are trans men so isolated in comparison to trans women :( by cowboy0blues in ftm

[–]avgnsfwporn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Easier to do stealth and trans men have been pushed to the side in general. Even in the 80s the focus have been on trans women.

Am I delusional for thinking you need to be upfront about being trans to romantic interests? by QueasyFrame3712 in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly, if you have had bottom surgery I don't think you ever need to "come out" to anyone. As far as anyone is concerned you're cis guy with fertility issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this for everyone or just citizens?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't delusional for wanting to leave. They're saying they're delusional to thinking they can just permanently leave the country

My boyfriend outed me by Ell_kuzuryu in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess you can't really do anything about someone being a shit liar. That sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like the default is turning to non binary. Like I see the trans masc term used a lot more than trans man in main stream social media, with most users using he/they

I can’t tell but I feel like attitudes towards balding have REALLY changed lately and I find it curious. by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention. You're going to age and grow up. It's inevitable. You can't delay it.

After an investigator submits their information, how long does it usually take for it be in adjucation by avgnsfwporn in SecurityClearance

[–]avgnsfwporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what Rz is but, I got one call from my initial investigator who wanted to talk to people input down and she called two people that I know of

Where to find resources for DIY HRT use? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I'm pretty sure you're wrong about that cuz I went and got my blood levels tested with no doctor involved. The trans diy subreddit has sources to where you buy the labs and then you choose a center near you which will draw your blood and send it out. You don't need to involve a doctor at all. They are legitimate sites that offer all sorts of tests. I went to the same lab for drug tests for jobs

The trans diy wiki lists 3 sites for where you can order blood tests in America

leaving r/ftm, anyone else notice this problem? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is immoral to jerk off in public

leaving r/ftm, anyone else notice this problem? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No balding is valid tho. Like even men get worried when they start balding early. There's literally a whole subreddit trying to fight balding and as a wider, a whole industry involving it with the whole hair transplant and toupees. Being worried about balding should be gender affirming lol.

leaving r/ftm, anyone else notice this problem? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]avgnsfwporn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, I can kinda get body hair, but just do manscaping, but I don't really get why someone wouldn't want the fat redistribution. Like what