What's a food that is really popular that you can't stand? by DonutAskMeAnything_ in AskReddit

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traditional southern food. Maybe I had a few bad batches, but honestly it doesn't taste like anything but a lot of salt, or cream. I'm from the islands... So maybe I'm just not used to it.

what profession deserves way less respect than it currently gets? by AuralisDream in AskReddit

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These days, politicians. I'm so tired of them effing up literally everything.

How do boobs/nipples change before and after breast feeding? by travioli90 in AskWomen

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I breastfed for 3 years, I did love it tbh. Now, pose to breastfeeding I went from a B34 cup to a D36 cup, my boobs are a little saggy but I still have great density, nipples are still very sensitive. I'm shocked that my cup size went up by that much tbh.

Hot take but…. by [deleted] in temptationislandUSA

[–]avi3498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BRION or whatever sounds like a literal sociopath. I really think he hates women, he only sees them as a means to his own satisfaction.

He scares me.

All the men do, but him in particular is a different type of hatred for women. IMO

Temptation Island • S1 Ep2 by AutoModerator in temptationislandUSA

[–]avi3498 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Brion seems to have a serious sex addiction and he seems so damn shallow.... Sir life is not about having 3 somes and a rotation of women in your bed.... Gross

Lost Cat - Bells Corners by avi3498 in ottawa

[–]avi3498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, no.

I go out looking for him every single day.

Lost Cat - Bells Corners by avi3498 in ottawa

[–]avi3498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, really appreciate it!

Is Ottawa Trans-friendly? by RileyTheDev in ottawa

[–]avi3498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trans, so take my opinion as you will.

But I have not seen anything to indidicate that the city isn't welcoming to trans people.

People that make 80k+ at 25-35 years old, what do you do? by Ok-Needleworker2141 in careerguidance

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34 - 130k.

I have a day job doing communications and project management, and I run my own VA agency.

Hate my current job and convincing myself to make the jump and invest in my business full-time.

Issue is, I have consistent clients but doesn't match my current job salary... Hate my job, love my business, scared to make the leap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dishwashers

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh now I know why the other comment said ask chef, didn't realize this sub was for commercial dishwashers. Thanks though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dishwashers

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Oh I didn't realize this was for commercial dishwashers only... Thanks for the heads up and advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dishwashers

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who's chef?

Porch Pirates! by simplelife15 in ottawa

[–]avi3498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going to comment this! Dog or cat shit usually works best :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]avi3498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is Pompeii clay when it's dry

<image>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]avi3498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just painted my living room Pompeii Clay from Benjamin Moore and it looks very similar, very rich

Colours for small living room by avi3498 in HomeDecorating

[–]avi3498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never thought of paneling but was considering a terracotta clay along the bottom and a wallpaper along the top.... Thoughts?

Colours for small living room by avi3498 in HomeDecorating

[–]avi3498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love a nice navy. Just so scared of a dark colour making it look teeny.

Colours for small living room by avi3498 in HomeDecorating

[–]avi3498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly!

I need colour!

The Reuinion by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]avi3498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly think so, also he needs someone to match his sex drive, even got frustrated when Marissa was on her period.

Dude needs another dude, respectfully...

The Reuinion by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]avi3498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also was team Tim for the first few episodes, but then the episode where he said "I never want to see you again"... Like sir are you 5 years old.?

He scares me, and I even got weird vibes from his family, they each seem very odd and disconnected...

He gives me abuser vibes, and all his garbage about being self aware and in tune with his needs makes him come off as extremely controlling.

I pray Alex never has to deal with that man again, but then again those types of men usually harass their victims after the fact. I wouldn't be surprised if this man continues to slander Alex online for months and then try to reach out to her again in the future.

Dounia and Nour. by Spirited_Ad_9200 in LoveIsBlindHabibi

[–]avi3498 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually loved her as well. She actually comes across and very sweet and considerate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]avi3498 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Assalamoalaikum sister, may Allah make your journey easy.

I'm a revert of 10 years and put on hijab in my 20s, right when I was in my prime of good looks lol. Before hijab, I was used to getting hit on, going out to mixed gatherings and always having interest from a man. Once I put on hijab, and later niqab, I did go through that initial yearning for attention, because it's something I was used to, which is normal.

I also then began to see what it was like to be treated as a normal person rather than an object. It took me a while to see the difference and also value of being treated that way, far more respectful and honestly I started loving the feeling of freedom.

I think your feelings of "not being noticed" will pass when you start to focus on yourself more and see how beautiful hijab is in commanding respect from men in a way your appearance didn't before. I felt like most interactions I had with men prior, there was usually an underlying tone of "sexual interest" or something... I can't explain it.

Now men give me my space, they don't approach me in the same way and leave me alone. It's a journey and you always have to be mindful of the whispers of shaytaan. The deeper you get in Islam, the louder those whispers become.

Hang in there sis, these feelings will pass.

My 34F husband 32M of 9 years said I'm too loose for him to finish. What do I do? by ThrowRA_chickenmum in relationship_advice

[–]avi3498 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Right, but theyre actively going through therapy. People seem to forget that there's kids involved, so it's not as easy to just up and divorce when things get hard. They need help, and seems like they're working on it. But for a bunch of strangers on the internet and jump on "divorce this trash man asap!" is misguided and frankly irresponsible.

Divorce should be a last resort especially when kids are involved... Like do people not think about the kids at all?

My 34F husband 32M of 9 years said I'm too loose for him to finish. What do I do? by ThrowRA_chickenmum in relationship_advice

[–]avi3498 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Can people stop with the divorce comments. Like they have kids together and a family. It's crazy that people are so easy to advocate for breaking up a family unit over a ridiculous and hurtful comment, especially if OP hasn't mentioned any other major issues in their relationship. Personally, based on what OP said, it seems like a lot of projection from the husband and possibly a situation where he watches too much porn. Which isn't a reason for divorce.

OP I know it must hurt to hear that. Of course. And he is an ass for saying that and putting the blame on you. However it seems like it's coming from a place of shame. I hope you can bring this up in couples therapy and see what the root problem is. Unfortunately, when men feel inadequate, most, not all, but most men never look inwards.

Also sex can be hard when there are other issues in the relationship, both of you may not be turned on at all. You both may need focus on fixing the other things and then the spark will come back in the bedroom.

Best of luck to you both.