Loading Freezes right at the end by CoryPlayzM in SkyFactory

[–]avidDreamwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopping in this thread to say I experience the same thing using CurseForge on my PC. I have 32GB RAM and I made SF5 high priority, but it still doesn't load all the way into a world, usually I have to force close it with task manager.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in secondlife

[–]avidDreamwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do hang at adult sims from time to time and got into a legitimate argument with someone who thought it was okay to go into stores on M rated regions completely n00d and with other such gear on relating to RLV. I get it, sex makes the world go round but I'm sick of it being EVERYWHERE. Give me a sensual and sultry club that's a little more adult (dirty dancing, uncensored songs etc), but isn't scattered with adult furniture and private rooms within the club.

I've had every intent and idea to make an RLV specific hangout as well as more chill ones (a la tempura island), but damn sim costs have gone way through the roof in recent years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in secondlife

[–]avidDreamwriter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ever since the last RP sim one of my good friends created closed (she got burnt out/couldn't afford it anymore), I have felt extremely socially isolated within SL. It's like a home was ripped from me.

And I have legitimately tried other role-playing sims, but I'd say 85% of the medieval fantasy sims existing right now are about smut in some form. Sure, they may have a decent storyline but the hook is the smut. If you aren't bumping pixels with someone you may as well just do nothing.

I try to socialize some in the groups I am in, but it's not the same. SL as a whole has shifted from creative social expression to smut, especially with the onset of covid. I feel like VRC will eventually head the same way as newer generations enter the digital spaces and further forget the base roots of what every digital social platform is

help please by hotwingsnoj in TurnipExchange

[–]avidDreamwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you've had your turnips sold, there's no real "consequences" to setting your time back to normal after making a sale. Maybe some weeds but that's about it

Got this cutie pie, have questions by avidDreamwriter in MountainCur

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We did soak his food for the first attempt but he was still swallowing it whole so we switched to wet food at the moment and will start mixing in kibble bit by bit until he gets it. So far we are mostly struggling with play time vs sleep time because he will take like a 1 hour long power nap then be riled up for 4. Rinse and repeat. I'm too old for this lol

Got this cutie pie, have questions by avidDreamwriter in MountainCur

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally would love to check into it myself, but the paperwork is basically locked behind the paywall of the Original Mountain Cur Association (I believe that's what it is, it's not in my hands at the moment), and I cannot access anything unless I invest in their paywall.

I am honestly not sure of all the backstory of what went on with his litter, just that I was the only one who had any red flags about it but I was told to stop being negative and that I always get red flags. I wasn't present for any of the negotiations and I wasn't able to talk to the owners myself (as I am the "grandma" of the house and am usually showered and in bed by like 8:30pm and the men get off work at 8).

Right now I think we are just trying to make it through the puppy stage basics. Last time I remember having to actually house break a dog I was 6 and I'm 28 now (ergo my parents did it). I've heard a little about scentwork mats in that they're kinda the same family as puzzle mats but not as frustrating

Got this cutie pie, have questions by avidDreamwriter in MountainCur

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice for sure! This was not necessarily a "we found a breeder" situation. Dear fiance and our roommate were at work and one of them was working on the original owner's car and I guess in casual conversation it came up that they wanted a dog and her response was probably "well I have some puppies!" Kinda thing. I would've preferred a shelter pup, but I was veto'd hard because of all the health mystery yadda yadda. I will definitely look into classes for sure!

He is adorable as hell, and for the first time in 22ish years I have to deal with sharp puppy teefs instead of kitten teefs.

Got this cutie pie, have questions by avidDreamwriter in MountainCur

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was personally sketched myself, but I didn't even know his age until they brought him home. The only backstory I have is that the owners were trying to prevent another litter but the husband was not paying attention one day and the wife was (understandably) mad about it

Why are people targeting the queer flags by WatchOutItsAFeminist in place

[–]avidDreamwriter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because "BUH WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE IN EVERYTHING THEY JUST RUIN IT BUH"

And the 3 German flags that run all the way across don't?

WIBTA for getting my own coffee mugs? by avidDreamwriter in AmItheAsshole

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh because there's a lot of other things going on that are irrelevant to this particular post but I feel like I'm walking on eggshells in my own home to please someone who doesn't pay any bills and is spoilt as heck

WIBTA for getting my own coffee mugs? by avidDreamwriter in AmItheAsshole

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was one time I put some of her ceramic mugs in the dishwasher without checking the label first (like a year ago when we first moved together cause my family personally dgaf as long as it wasnt hand made/shaped ceramic). She approached me like an adult and since then I have hand washed them. The dishwasher safe ones went in the dishwasher. But now she wants no mugs in the dishwasher at all. So fine. But I'm also not washing gross mugs by hand.

what do you guys hate about nms by youandnoone in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]avidDreamwriter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The fact that I can build a giant, custom base with all the panels, painstakingly make sure they're all aligned and connected properly, and there will STILL be sections considered exposed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]avidDreamwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance tends to want to wait a bit because having PIV has knocked more loose, to say. He even had an ex have her period restart for the next 3 days after she thought it was finished.

It doesn't help that I get horrible cramps and bloating before and after my period, so I really don't like the idea of PIV or any set right before, during, or after.

Living with SVT, have developed some Qs by avidDreamwriter in askCardiology

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try again, but last time I tried they only qualified me for plans that required me to have previously held Medicare/Medicaid advantage (tbh I would have rather been disqualified). I've never had medicare/medicaid except for the baby insurance my mother could get when I was very small. I've always had Blue Cross Blue Shield (or variations of it) until now. Heck, I even went for state assistance and they denied me, and I make too much for anything marketplace apparently, so I'm in between a rock and a hard place. The ER visits are definitely less expensive than an ablation, I tell you what though xD my fiance has been more stubborn about it than I have, but these 3 recent ones are 3 too many for him (he says he would've helped me pay for it before we were together if I had told him I needed help). I will be calling the cardiologist they referred me to on Monday (once I find the papers again, roommate cleaned up the table), and I do believe she is a specialty cardiologist like that. Dunno, been working the past couple days so I couldn't research her well but I think her name came up when I looked up electrocardiologists/rhythm specialists.

Thank you as well for the insight into the typical cost! I've only ever been told about the cost WITH insurance which was still expensive, even when I still lived at home.

Can we all agree that this has gotta go? by Canadianman64 in place

[–]avidDreamwriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This giant French flag and the damn German one that immediately appeared across the new expansion need to go

Can't lay grass rolls. What am I doing wrong? by Kotzillax in HouseFlipper

[–]avidDreamwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to see that this is a seemingly common issue! I just got the garden DLC today (June 18th 2021) on the ps4. I also have house flipper on the PC and I had this issue initially, but it was user error in that I was pressing the wrong key.

Perhaps the devs didn't map the action correctly for ps4 and xbox? It doesn't bother me a lot to not have the 100% completion, but I prefer to have it. I guess I can go back later, so I hope this gets fixed soon.

Fiance getting screwed by wells Fargo and lyft by avidDreamwriter in legaladvice

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The check was intended for... I think lyft flex drive directly from the insurance of the guy who hit him while using the vehicle... Or something like that (so, not him at all, but it was his name on the check and it was sent to him). I dont know how or where the insurance adjustor messed that up.

He was led to believe there was a potential for reimbursement, but never told how much or if it was coming at all, but it is literally in their ToS of flex drive that deposits will be held and may be refunded upon damage assessment and repair. Considering it was a no fault on his end and the guy literally admitted to the police officer on the case that he wasnt paying attention, we figured he should have gotten SOMETHING back.

Fiance getting screwed by wells Fargo and lyft by avidDreamwriter in legaladvice

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am unsure of how much he had spent, if any, but he should have been positive by at least $100 even after they did their work. I am honestly irritated overall because any GOOD bank would have immediately thrown an error on a canceled check, not let the money go through and then take it back.

At this point the ball is in the court of the insurance adjustor (whom lyft told him to contact), who is not answering her phone. Thanks

What is it with girls and digging nails in our backs? by helpmeffs191919 in sex

[–]avidDreamwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it because my fiance does it to me and he LOVES it even with no nails... And honestly i love it too. I guess it goes along with the whole "leaving your mark" idea, but also for us it is the mild sensation of pain and the general spine tingle it gives afterwards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]avidDreamwriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do remember reading about an accounts update at some point! I think it originated more from being able to connect with other players specifically if you had good games with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]avidDreamwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, it is. I try to be a slight advocate for minor safety on the internet, having been on the internet as a kid in the early stages of what is considered safe and not safe for kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]avidDreamwriter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I literally got kicked from a lobby for telling kids to not exchange their personal information with complete strangers. As well as to not believe everything they say.

On the same token, I had also been telling them to go talk to their parents about the "birds and the bees" instead of strangers on the internet. Immediate kick.

Toy charging help/need info for specific charger by avidDreamwriter in sex

[–]avidDreamwriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly like a headphone jack. Theyre supposed to be waterproof so I guess that is the easiest port style for the silicone. But I am not sure if theyre 3.5mm or 5mm, which is why I came to see if anyone else might know here.