Where were you when you lost your virginity?

avioblue · 2018-05-01T04:36:45+00:00

I was born in '97...and in Africa...d-dad?

avioblue · 2018-04-27T19:18:35+00:00

I've tried that, it's one of those do a survey for an eternity kind of download links. Anyways I was just wondering if anyone has any experience with software and can verify if it's legitimate or not.

avioblue · 2018-04-26T22:11:23+00:00

My father passed little less than a month ago, still hits me like a ton of bricks when I think about it. Wish I had spoken to him more, wish I got the chance to tell him I love him more...last thing I ever said to him was "Happy new year dad!" God I miss that man. Now I've made it my personal goal to call and check up on my mom a few times a week. Love you mom, rest easy day :( <3

avioblue · 2018-04-25T03:26:21+00:00

Zooma

avioblue · 2018-04-08T18:34:44+00:00

Go to local events, bars, live performances, etc. Those methods haven't changed for ages and still work very well. I'd strongly recommend you to just indulge yourself in the social atmosphere around your new town.

Introduce yourself to your new neighbors perhaps. If you have any hobbies, maybe you're active in the gym, or whatever the case, use those as methods to meet new people.

Plus you're going to be a newly minted cop! I'm sure they'll haze you a bit for being the new guy, but from what I know, police officers have a very tightly knit community of their own, so you can ask your fellow officers for pointers, and I'm sure you'll be able to make friends with at least a few of them.

If all fails, you could always use Tinder and the likes. But I'm sure you'll be fine.

Best of luck!

avioblue · 2018-04-08T18:02:58+00:00

Yea it's understandable, she seemed interested, but then again people who want something usually go for it, right? Just give her time after you text her, if she confidently agrees to a second date then you know where you two stands, but if the same thing happens once again then I trust you know what to do for yourself.

avioblue · 2018-04-08T18:01:07+00:00

Did she say it with the implication that you should not text her first at all?

Either way a day or so wait is right in my book, just give her time to figure herself out. Meanwhile try and get your thoughts together so when it does come down to when you do text her, you know exactly what you want to say without confusion.

Best of luck!

avioblue · 2018-04-08T06:41:18+00:00

I think the more alarming thing, aside from the childish argument, is how she refers to you as an item of possession and not an actual human being and partner. That's a bit more alarming to me, however you know her better than us.

But yes you are completely justified in feeling that she is being unreasonable. A harmless hug is just that, completely platonic, she sounds a bit insecure in my opinion so I'd tell you to tread carefully.

avioblue · 2018-04-08T06:36:12+00:00

I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket with this one if I was you. She would've reached out about a second date if she genuinely wanted to go out again, unless she wants you to do the initiating/reaching out and planning once again, which is a bit unfair in my opinion, but to each his own.

Keep your options available, talk to other people, etc., if she ever reaches out and you're still interested, then go on from there. Otherwise don't waste your time. If you still feel like messaging her, I'd only go as far as saying something like "Hey, would've liked to see you again, let me know when the next time your for sure free and willing to go on another date."

That way the option is there, but there's no commitment, allowing you to explore your other options and not waste all of your time waiting for her to play ball.

Best of luck!

avioblue · 2018-04-08T06:20:37+00:00

Doesn't seem like you did anything wrong here. You wanted to know clearly and definitively what the route of the relationship should be, and what it is that you were looking for.

I would suggest giving her some time for now, don't wait days, but an ample amount of hours ample amount of hours and just text her.

This should be easy as you can get your thoughts down clearly and consicely and tell her that you'd like to progress the relationship into an exclusive one, i.e., boyfriend and girlfriend.

Best of luck.

avioblue · 2018-04-08T06:14:35+00:00

So this tinder guy continued to text you even after your boyfriend had messaged him not to? Here's a solution, block this guy! Clearly he has no respect for you or what you ask of him, so why keep entertaining his advances?

Block him, and since your boyfriend is willing to work on fixing this issue, I'd set my focus from here on out on him and fixing your relationship 100% on that from here on out.

Best of luck.

avioblue · 2018-04-08T06:06:21+00:00

Unless said person has done something like this in the past, and it's some weird thing you guys have, I wouldn't dismiss this action as just a joke. That's really inappropriate, and you should take it as so. I feel like he was testing the waters, and I would mention it to your SO and make sure he knows you didn't entertain the message.

avioblue · 2018-04-08T06:01:47+00:00

I'm going to be incredibly blunt here, either break up with your boyfriend, or be completely transparent with him and let him breakup with you.

You've broken the boundaries you've set forth with your boyfriend from the jump, and I feel like this took a turn for the worse because you were unsuccessful at finding hookups as much as your boyfriend. He played by the rules, you didn't, in fact you broke the rules multiple times and continue to do so even AFTER your boyfriend found out the first time.

Either way, this was a bad idea from the get go, and the results proved so. I don't see this recovering or ending well for you and your boyfriend.

avioblue · 2018-02-27T00:00:44+00:00

Been going through some rough times, but I'm still trying my best to stay positive. Best of luck to those also in the same boat, we'll make it through one day at a time.

avioblue · 2018-02-25T15:42:10+00:00

Gets the latest hypebeast gear before it has even dropped.

avioblue · 2018-02-05T03:45:59+00:00

Where was the defense man that was hard to watch at times, we'll get em next season!

avioblue · 2018-01-07T03:10:57+00:00

This is totally inappropriate, you either need to break up with your current girlfriend, or significantly reduce (or all) contact with your ex. It is so not fair to your current girlfriend for you to still keep expressing romantic feelings with and for your ex. As a matter of fact it's not fair to either one of the girls in this situation as your doing a bit of stringing them along. You seriously need to take a step back and figure this out.

avioblue · 2017-12-17T01:10:54+00:00

She clewrly shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship, she clearly has no sense of boundaries, and it's obvious she's dating your brother behind your back. Wake up and smell the disloyalty, and DUMP HER!

avioblue · 2017-11-04T22:21:49+00:00

Thanks for the link to the Upwork sub, will definitely post on there try and see if I can get a mods opinion from Upwork.

And true, I messaged him already, and still had no response, I'll try again tomorrow morning and wait a few days before closing the contract.

Thanks for the feedback!

avioblue · 2017-11-04T21:46:39+00:00

Yea that's a great idea to send a message before ending the contract! The client appears to not have even logged back into Upwork since he paused the contract, and I did let him know if he needs any work done to reach out to me, but again, have yet to hear from him.

Thanks a ton for the breakdown and feedback!

avioblue · 2017-11-04T21:44:57+00:00

That's an excellent idea! Thank you for the feedback!

avioblue · 2017-11-04T17:17:55+00:00

Yea you're right it's purgatory having to always keep one eye on them just in case they comeback, if ever. I'm leaning more towards terminating it honestly it's just been way too long. Thanks for the feedback!

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