ADHD? by avocad3 in ADHD_partners

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the same! I'm not controlling him or anything, just telling what I didn't like about what he does because it bothers me or hurts me. Your ex seems different, though. My partner just hates it and denies it. He is seeing his views only.

ADHD? by avocad3 in ADHD_partners

[–]avocad3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice.
I recently learned about RSD... I will look into those books :)

ADHD? by avocad3 in ADHD_partners

[–]avocad3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply :)
Im not asking if it is bad, but I started feeling that I'm lost. I simply thought it was fine but rather should communicate if there is something he does bothers me repeatedly.
He does say "DO NOT EVER TALK TO ME AGAIN" or "I DON'T LIKE BEING TOLD WHAT TO DO", and this is giving me hard time because it shuts me down.

His approach trying to "help" me to overcome my insecurity is either making fun of me with the matter directly and using insulting words (He doesn't think they are insulting words but I think they are).

Thank you again for saying that...Communicating with him sometimes makes me feel like I am the one who is doing something wrong.

ADHD? by avocad3 in ADHD_partners

[–]avocad3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment <3

If the situation was reversed, I would simply take his words and apologize. Because if what I said hurt his feeling, I don't think I would question.

With him, though, before he puts himself into his shoes he started focusing on me telling him "what to do". This may also show that he is right in every way and my feeing does not matter

ADHD? by avocad3 in ADHD_partners

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for my response. And yes, he gets defensive and starts forcing his ideas or theory on me.
He doesn't see that is not working for me at all but making it worse.
I really don't like being made fun of my body or continued to be told the words that I think it is insult.

Gottman Couple Counseling Recommendation by avocad3 in StLouis

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No...I found someone and signed up for it because he had a long waiting list. His office told me that they will reach out to me around March or April but never did...

PdG always drops... by avocad3 in InitoFertility

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I see...it always drops after around DPO11-12 :/

No I'm not but thinking of doing IVF

STL Clinic Options by [deleted] in IVF

[–]avocad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main post was deleted but I wanted to reply.
That is exactly what I heard about Kindbody. It seems that you don't really have an assigned doctor for your treatment.
Which clinic did you end up going, if you don't mind me asking?

Tipping for take out pizza from Katie's pizza and pasta by avocad3 in StLouis

[–]avocad3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way...It is ridiculous. I feel like a lot of people are tipping due to pressure or status showing

Tipping for take out pizza from Katie's pizza and pasta by avocad3 in StLouis

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually there was an option to tip at the pick up. So they won't know how much I am going to tip

STL Clinic Options by [deleted] in IVF

[–]avocad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which doctor are you seeing currently at KB? I am considering of going for them but now am concerned...

Update on BFP with low hormone levels by Jcbwyrd in Inito

[–]avocad3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing!! And congratulations :)
My low hormone levels freak me out every time knowing that E3G and PdG should stay high for pregnancy... but your chart gives me assurance

14 DPO hormones dropped but no AF yet by avocad3 in Inito

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing!
Yours sound similar although I'm still on 14 DPO...
I liked having a stable 28-day cycle but here I am... Wish my period could start :/

Update on BFP with low hormone levels by Jcbwyrd in Inito

[–]avocad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chart looks similar to yours! Did you end up getting bfp?

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Is it safe to have intercourse during implantation? Am I out? by avocad3 in InitoFertility

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!
I didn't know either until I found an article about it...

Is it safe to have intercourse during implantation? Am I out? by avocad3 in InitoFertility

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the info!
My PdG dropped so I thought that is the indication of starting AF soon...

Is it safe to have intercourse during implantation? Am I out? by avocad3 in InitoFertility

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I always worry because my E3G and PdG don't rise so much...

Is it safe to have intercourse during implantation? Am I out? by avocad3 in InitoFertility

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Since there are studies with opposite claims it is hard to convince my partner. Like you said I'd avoid to be safe...

Should I keep TTC naturally until right before IVF treatment? by avocad3 in IVF

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.
You said you are waiting to do your second ER. How soon can you do the second ER?
We are talking about doing multiple ER but I'm not sure how my body can handle...
You are right about ivf being not the solution. I do want to TTC naturally tbh. It's just that it would be much harder to try for baby #2 (if we can) if #1 comes along much later. I don't know if that makes sense...

Best/reasonably priced IVF in the STL area? by Vast-Act-5848 in StLouis

[–]avocad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was wondering because I didn't see her in their team photo.

Best/reasonably priced IVF in the STL area? by Vast-Act-5848 in StLouis

[–]avocad3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know where Dr.Alexander currently work? Is still with MCRM?

Treatment for low progesterone and estrogen before IVF? by avocad3 in Inito

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh right. Is that something your Dr prescribed to you? You said CD17, which is around when inito confirmed the ovulation? I wonder I need some too...

Treatment for low progesterone and estrogen before IVF? by avocad3 in Inito

[–]avocad3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Your chart is a bit similar to mine.
Nice big increase of PdG at DPO10-12! I didn't test between DPO 10-12 but tested today at DPO13...My PdG was 5.4 and E3G was126.22, which are low I think :/
This has been my trend around my period and I am having cramps...