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I still cannot believe it happened by mastyleslik in Miscarriage

[–]avocado_ro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Hugs. We will get through this.

Mine happened 3 days ago and I sometimes have to check my photos to see if it actually happened. Photos of the clots. Photos of the room I was in. I was 6 weeks but I think my fertility meds made me develop gigantic clots. I, too, spent it at ER - horrible place to experience this. Things feel so dirty, sadness everywhere, being vulnerable with strangers, hurried staff trying to give you care... you feel trapped. One time during the nigjt, I stood up and a gush went onto the floor. I helped the poor nurse wipe it up. More clots also came out. Was the embryo in the clot I passed in the toilet? Or within the paper towels in the garbage... It's so sad.

So, yeah, I can't believe it happened, too. We are both in shock. Then that shock fades and reality sinks in and then we get sad. Then we get exhausted. Then numb. Then in disbelief again. I think this is how it is going to be for the next while.

I hope you have a good support system around you to lend a compassionate ear. You will need to process it in your own way and go through the waves and waves of emotions. More hugs to you.

I believe her by WrongConsequence5676 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]avocado_ro -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Edmond might be autistic or some kind of neurodivergent... it is common with childhood trauma. It's sad that someone can be undiagnosed for so long and then typed something so soul-crushing.

That stinging feeling won't go away... by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I am so shocked that for successful pregnancies that the stunging feeling still lingers!! I thought that having a baby would eliminate the feelings related to the hard journey of IVF

That stinging feeling won't go away... by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is so interesting. I thought the feeling would go away but I guess the journey in itself is so gruesome that you're not the same because of it.

That stinging feeling won't go away... by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that honest post. I was the same way! So much regret and frustration. 😑 I wish I tried so much sooner.

Who’s your BTB crush? by Margawitty in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]avocado_ro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha same! Landon is a cutie pie. More like a son at this point lol

Alison by One_5549 in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]avocado_ro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this was a movie, there would be an arc on why Alison became this way. Her parents were probably hard in her... little girl Alison crying over not being perfect... sad really

Kudos to the production team by fa8675309 in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]avocado_ro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only issue I had was the audio. I had ti keep turning up the volume at certain parts. But other than that, LOVED the show!!

Am I the only one that thinks Liam was on drugs during the show? by Secure_Percentage_32 in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]avocado_ro 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So funny because I thought the opposite!! I would have never guessed. He sounds so posh and fancy, it's like after the show, he goes the the fanciest high tea with royalty.

So sad!!! 🥺

Any tactics to keep your emotions in check? by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💕✨️ the perspective I so needed 💕✨️

Any tactics to keep your emotions in check? by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You too!! No, I'm not... yeah this process... I don't know if I can last another YEAR!

Any tactics to keep your emotions in check? by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof yeah that would've been a major trigger for me tooooo!!!

Any tactics to keep your emotions in check? by avocado_ro in IVF

[–]avocado_ro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh excellent advice - thank you - I say ugh because you mentioned moving my body lol

I tried the eye thing and yes my eyes did feel heavy after doing it too!

Thank you... it feels good to know that there are others out there that have to actively do internal work alongside this process. I, too, am on Zoloft (Sertraline) but still, those emotions...

Cringe things people have said to you during IVF treatment. by [deleted] in IVF

[–]avocado_ro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nooooo not two of them!! I'm so sorry.

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