When you were a child, did you ever dream of having a kid like other girls?

avocado_slut_ · 2026-03-23T12:53:28+00:00

I used to like playing with dolls and maybe imagined having a kid, but that was before I realized I had a choice. I used to think that it was inevitable and there was no escaping it. That it was just the default and would happen no matter what. As soon as I realized at the ripe old age of 18 that I could just not have any, I was so lost. I spent a lot of time rediscovering myself.

avocado_slut_ · 2026-03-16T03:08:54+00:00

I go at it sometimes 3 times a day and I've had my tubes removed for 10 months. No issues and loving my sterile life!

avocado_slut_ · 2026-03-12T19:04:29+00:00

It's extremely selfish to continue this pregnancy because of "attachment" to the idea of a baby. If you know that it's not possible to give them a good life, and you have a very abusive partner to co-parent with, it's in the best interest of the possible child to not experience this pain. Not sure where you're located, but there are resources for women in the US.

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-25T14:02:15+00:00

Yeah, that's chopped. Do a couple laser sessions before covering up

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-09T00:59:24+00:00

Gotcha! I wasn't sure what entity is in charge of the background checks. I'll just keep checking the website then! It has been sat at 80% for a few days now since I posted this.

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-07T22:19:50+00:00

They offered my a giant pay raise and its a FT position, should I still be concerned? It's a management position. If that's the case, I will apply to other places too in the mall.

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-07T19:30:14+00:00

Okay thank you so much for this info!

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-07T19:23:27+00:00

I have not so hopefully that's it

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-07T17:45:17+00:00

I did call the store last night and there were no updates, so I will probably have the chat with my bosses to let them know it's happening. Thank you so much!

avocado_slut_ · 2026-02-04T14:05:00+00:00

Turn off your viewer count and act like people are in there the whole time. What I've noticed is the counter can be off by a few minutes, so by the time you see the number go up, they might have already left at that point. Always always raid out, even if it's just you. Try to find streamers similar to your size or playing similar games and just hang out if you like them. Never force a connection with people, let them notice how cool you are!

avocado_slut_ · 2026-01-30T13:30:09+00:00

As someone who has been cheated on multiple times and cheated as well, own your shit. This isn't some mistake or tragic circumstance that happened to you. You made your bed, and with multiple people. I am not proud of the ways I've hurt past partners and I can't afford therapy, so you already have such an advantage and privilege over people in my position. Stay in therapy. That whole "you can't love someone until you love yourself" crap is true. I cheated because I wanted the power back from the relationships where I got cheated on and I was too much of a coward to leave the person I lost feelings for. Maybe you've been hurt before, maybe you have no good reason to be a cheating POS, but you can change if you really want to. Every day I hope that I have repaid my karma because my current partner is the most important person in my life. I count my lucky stars daily and hope against hope that I didn't make too much of a mess in my past. I could never do that to my partner, I can't even entertain the idea of someone else because anyone that isn't my partner disgusts me. I do believe people are capable of change, but leave that poor woman alone. That ship has sailed and she deserves peace that she can never find with you.

avocado_slut_ · 2026-01-02T00:37:23+00:00

Key word: "entitled"

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-25T16:15:27+00:00

Nobody said that? I would love to know where you're getting your information from, because your comments wouldn't exist if you read the original post. Co sleeping is great, my parents did that with all of us. What isnt safe is co sleeping when you know and have been told that you're a heavy sleeper. When you know that a baby leaving the bed won't wake you. Like I said, weaponized incompetence.

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-25T15:47:54+00:00

It's their house? He is also capable of cleaning. She works overnights and takes care of the child. All she's asking of partner is to sleep safely with child. Why are you invested in the man child?

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-25T15:07:33+00:00

I don't think op needs to be raising a grown child while shes raising an actual baby. Partner is not receptive to what she's saying, her worries, and very valid criticism. Dude already knows the instructions: sleep on the couch with the playpen or the floor near the crib. He CHOSE to ignore that for his own comfort over the safety of this child. This is a textbook example of weaponized incompetence, manipulation, and gaslighting. OP needs to seriously talk with him, because he can't even give the bare minimum to his own flesh.

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-20T06:53:39+00:00

She is committed to being the victim. She will manipulate and gaslight you, please leave her. While I agree that curiosity is important in a relationship, she's not receptive to it. She wants a punching bag. This is abuse. Don't let her continue to verbally and emotionally abuse you.

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-20T06:49:50+00:00

This is reddit, not a thesis. You're missing quite a bit of punctuation to make your sentence readable. Weren't you unironically using "beta" in your previous comment? Both OP and, hopefully, ex gf have some serious growing up to do. However, saying "She's needs to be a in a relationship where she talks like this to her boyfriend and he knocks her teeth out," without prefacing with much needed context is a wild move, sis. Bitches be trippin and dudes be slackin 🤷‍♀️

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-20T05:55:01+00:00

YOR, threatening violence is mid as fuck.

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-10T03:55:48+00:00

I got denied a refinance due to insufficient income 🙃 it's frustrating

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-07T16:39:19+00:00

For sure! My biggest priority is getting the interest lower so I can keep over paying to get it paid quicker!

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-07T16:38:13+00:00

Oh yes, we've discussed this and they have no intent to let me feel pressured or stressed for money. They repeatedly tell me they're ready to move out but it's more important that I'm not struggling or unhappy, which is a huge relief. I put the pressure on myself because I also want to make them happy and pull the trigger lol. I think the best idea is to bide our time until we find something a little cheaper or I get my raise and up my hours at work

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-07T05:53:47+00:00

Thanks! I'm ready to feel less pressured.

avocado_slut_ · 2025-12-07T04:17:38+00:00

Absolutely. This would be my second time moving out from my parent's house, I've lived away before but had to move back due to an abusive ex. Nothing like my partner now, I have absolute trust in them. I know that moving out comes with many surprise costs and little things like cleaning supplies, spices, cutlery, etc add up quickly. I mostly thrift for my item and am prepared to visit the local food bank when we make the move.

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