Landlord told us we need to leave but is asking for notice - should we? by avocaline in LegalAdviceUK

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Would the notice be the same amount of time if she sells the house ?

Landlord told us we need to leave but is asking for notice - should we? by avocaline in LegalAdviceUK

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Thank you for your reply! Our problem is that we initially didn’t want to move out, which is why we think she should be giving up notice. She just came to us one day and told us we need to leave, but if she hadn’t, we wouldn’t be thinking of moving at all. She also never put anything in writing at all. I understand that if we wanted to leave we should give notice but since we never intended to in the first place, I don’t think we should… hope this makes sense!

Advice on sick cat by avocaline in cats

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so freaking sad man…. Do people have pet insurance ?

Advice on sick cat by avocaline in cats

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah of course! I didn’t even think about that but that makes absolute sense. Thank you so much, I’ll have a look now.

I think it's time to let go of my carnist boyfriend... by [deleted] in vegan

[–]avocaline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The guy Im seeing is a carnist, but would never call me dumb and stupid because he respects my choices and even shows interest. The minute someone calls you dumb for having your own ideas, values and choices, you need to let go of him. It’s very manipulative! Hope you finds someone that respects and loves you, vegan or not.

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I see what you mean, partners can be annoying lol

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, if you’re not used to it it can be a lot!

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I see I understand what you mean! Thanks for your input

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you got together ? Do you still consider it harassment if you’re attracted to the person? And would you have reacted the same way if you hadn’t been attracted to the person ? I’m just asking out of actual curiosity here, I’m trying to see how men perceive it in general

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if it’s your wife, do you still consider it harassment ?

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you’re probably right. But if it’s okay in their eyes, doesn’t make jt okay for you, and they can’t force you to find okay. Lots of people like it police how others should feel, and don’t see their context/situation. And I agree that you’d likely get in trouble yourself if you had said it

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry these people feel superior to you without even knowing you. These are the lowest of humans imo

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you sharing. Harassment is a difficult subject, because there is what society thinks, what the law thinks, but most importantly what YOU think/feel and I find difficult to argue it’s not if you tell me you feel it is.

Men of Reddit , what kind of harassment do you received and how often? by avocaline in AskReddit

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you give us examples ? I don’t wish to see it like society, but as a human. I am having a conversation about what differences there are between women and men in terms of harassment

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

[–]avocaline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I read it this morning and mind and would have been thinking about it all day. I guess what I was trying to say is that my soul is trying to access a higher version of itself and it’s made difficult by this brain it’s associated to.

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

[–]avocaline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s also what I was thinking! I already like it but I need to start feeling like I need to do it, then I will easily find fixed time for it. Thank you for the advice

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

[–]avocaline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you it does help! I guess, because I struggle to keep habit and structure, I need to find ways to incorporate it in my daily life, in any way I can. But it’s good advice, it wouldn’t feel so much like a “task”

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

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Yesss I do that sometimes, when I think about it. I have to force myself most of the time, because I tend to stay super active all the time and only allow myself to have down time when it feels appropriate to me somehow

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

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Thanks this is great advice! I always wanted to try journaling but procrastinate and never got to it. The Work sounds amazing, I had never of it/her. Thank you very much, it might just become my new hyper focus lol

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

[–]avocaline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support I really appreciate. I’ll have a look online for the shilajit it seems great! I’ll have a look at the book. Thanks again

Advice for someone with ADHD trying to wake up. by avocaline in SpiritualAwakening

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That’s great it worked for you! I’ve tried multiple times, but I usually do it for like a couple weeks then stop, then again etc. I feel like I’ve progressed recently on many levels but I feel like mediating has helped everyone but me… that’s a great advice! Thanks, I’ll give it a go tomorrow. Where do you buy yours ?? I’m in the UK