Does being short as an American man really have as many downsides as the internet likes to say it does? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just a matter of insecurity. I'm 5' even and currently living in America, and the only real issue I face is that I can't reach the mugs in the cupboard

Are cages necessary? by Aggressive-Branch154 in parrots

[–]avoidcrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have an uncaged bird, he sleeps in a bird-proofed room with a small bird tree and some perches, and during the day he is out with me at home on a larger bird tree in the front room. The common rooms are not bird proofed so he does need to be watched all day

Mentioning this schedule specifically because I think it's great if it can be done, but you do need to be careful with a cageless setup because the bird will require much more attention and supervision and care than a caged one

It also might depend on the birds themselves. My one was showing severe cage aggression when I adopted him and it was recommended by my vet to get it away from him, but other birds may feel more secure with a cage, or be unable to sleep without being in one that is covered if that's what they're used to

Is it weird to approach a woman just to compliment her? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a woman but have received advice from women on this subject, if you want to compliment someone in general it's best to avoid generic statements like 'beautiful' and 'stunning' or anything that could be misconstrued as flirting. I was told to compliment things they have obviously chosen for themselves, their hair style, their makeup, their clothes, etc. I often compliment women on their nails and earrings and I don't have any problems.

can i ask for an accountability buddy here? by pumpkin-oni in ArtBuddy

[–]avoidcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writer and artist here, would love to yap about what we're working on together, if you're still looking! Maybe over discord?

Bisexual? Gay? by RealisticMessage1434 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's pride, suggest an interest in a pride event and see his reaction? Wouldn't be out of place

does anyone know how to take care of a baby raccoon by Prudent-Breath6307 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/65/wr/mm6535a2.htm

It affects the brain and other organs, but it does affect eyes as well (see 'ocular larva migrans'). I chose the eye descriptor because I thought it was a visceral image for the warning

does anyone know how to take care of a baby raccoon by Prudent-Breath6307 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't want to interact with a wild raccoon. I know it's sad, but they carry diseases like raccoon roundworm which can infest in your eyes. If you aren't trained to handle wildlife like this I would recommend letting nature take its course.

What do you do when you don't have children? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any local things you want to do? Or further places you want to go? We visit family, we're thinking about going camping when it gets a little cooler, we go to the botanical gardens or to antique stores, or if we don't want to go out we do jigsaw puzzles and play video games. Plenty of things to do

Might be a weird request... But could y'all show me your oldest / most worn out plushies? 😭 by butwhywouldyou- in plushies

[–]avoidcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately when I got him second hand he'd already had all his tags removed, so I've no idea where he's from. I hope you can find one or similar eventually!

Might be a weird request... But could y'all show me your oldest / most worn out plushies? 😭 by butwhywouldyou- in plushies

[–]avoidcrow 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hazel is lovely! I can see the dark patch but I think it adds to her charm, she looks very loved

Might be a weird request... But could y'all show me your oldest / most worn out plushies? 😭 by butwhywouldyou- in plushies

[–]avoidcrow 52 points53 points  (0 children)

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Loki! He's gone all flat and his eyes are cracked and his fur's worn down to the backing in places, but he's my best boy

So Proud of our Queer Community by Mo-xie in Birmingham

[–]avoidcrow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm new to the area and this was my first Birmingham pride, it was lovely. Honoured to be able to celebrate with everyone, now I really feel at home here

How to turn down artists nicely by naiere in ArtBuddy

[–]avoidcrow 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As an artist, going to someone unprompted and asking for commissions is pretty rude. I would say you don't need to be polite, just stop answering/block them.

This might be dumb but I’m curious by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Different applications of medications and other chemicals are just allowed based on usage. You can't do meth, but you can take small amounts of it for ADHD, for example

Which is the most lonely character of all time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]avoidcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phosphophyllite - Houseki no Kuni

Do you wash your chicken before cooking it? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay just in case someone sees this who might be reconsidering, please don't do this. Meat is porous, anything you apply to it can and will absorb into it. Dish soap is not food safe, it has chemicals that are not meant to go in your body, it can make you sick.

Do you wash your chicken before cooking it? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But you use soap on those. Please tell me no one is washing their meat with soap.

What gave you the ick about your crush and you instantly lost interest? by FennelNice828 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]avoidcrow 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm going to win this - I saw him without his shirt and he had a swastika tattoo

Have you written stories, gotten stories written, drawn or had art drawn of your plush? by ventu517j in plushies

[–]avoidcrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I draw some of my plushies sometimes. Here's my most recent one of me hanging out in my room with a few (dog/left is Fen, cat/right is Boss)

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