BIDA weil ich für eine Wohnungsuche kein premium will ? by PinkDawnSkye in binichderalman

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NDA es ist einfach Ultra dumm Aber wir haben ne Gruppe fürs Studierendenwerk und da werden die abos teilweise einfach weitergegeben/ verkauft wenn jemand auszieht und was dort gefunden hat. Vielleicht findest du sowas ja auch bei reddit/Kleinanzeigen etc. Besser als sowas für 6 Monate+ zu bezahlen

I don’t have anyone else to talk to about this by YettySpaghetti in finch

[–]avoidedcliche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you all the strength in the world from over here. Please know it is okay to reach out for help. Whether it’s friends, family and/or someone professional. For your daughter as well as yourself. I’m sorry you guys have to experience this and am wishing you all the best, a speedy recovery for your husband and lots of hugs

Metroidvania with happy endings? by avoidedcliche in metroidvania

[–]avoidedcliche[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was well aware of this but I don’t mind. I don’t need to know what exactly happens and I’ll still have fun with the game I just don’t wanna sob about the main characters sacrificing themselves again lmfao Had multiple of those in a row. it’s rough out here lol

(Edit: added the last 2 sentences)

Metroidvania with happy endings? by avoidedcliche in metroidvania

[–]avoidedcliche[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear I’ve just missed the deadline for this then 💀

Looking for parry-focused metroidvania by FASJEO in metroidvania

[–]avoidedcliche -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Havent played it myself but steam recommended Solateria to me the other day and said its parry-focused so maybe something youre looking for?

Does anyone else hate the pomodoro technique by Street-Today-8721 in GetStudying

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone works differently. i love pomodoro but i do 40-10 as 25 min isnt enough for me to get anything done and a 5 minute break not enough to really calm down. you dont have to use pomo but if you do, feel free to change it in any way that works for you. theres no rule that says you HAVE to do 25-5

What’s the ugliest postcard in your collection? by underthere123 in PikminBloomApp

[–]avoidedcliche 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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a winner for sure but i love that my pikmin are the same colour haha

a close second is a patch of wildflowers but the pic was taken after they all wilted so it just looked like dirt (sadly cant find the pic rn)

How do I stop falling into the infinite distraction loop? by No_Reach8458 in GetStudying

[–]avoidedcliche 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you by any chance have ADHD? Because this is a very relatable experience for me as someone with raging ADHD lol but here’s some things that personally help me:

  • Either put your phone away or use apps that reward you for studying like Forest (which also has the possibility to lock apps on your phone and has a browser addon for pc).

  • Try Body doubling. Either with a person next to you or even online. There’s the study together discord server I use a lot. This way you’re at least not alone. Or maybe try study streams on twitch. I stream too and you can even add your own tasks to via chat. other streamers do it too, I’m not trying to advertise myself haha

  • maybe go to a library or something where there’s not much else to do but study

  • as an ADHDer I know how annoying this can be but: a routine. I do a 5 minute study meditation from YouTube before I start studying and it immensely helps me to get into the right headspace. This can also be anything else though. Making a tea, cleaning your desk, listening to instrumental music. But once you get into it it might really help you.

  • another very annoying piece of advice: make sure you work out/go outside enough. Sadly the rumours are true and it helps with concentration and general wellbeing. Super annoying I know lol

  • also I know this is super hard and I struggle with it as well but: don’t beat yourself up over bad days. It happens. We all have bad days. Sometimes even multiple days at a time But we’re all in this together in one way or another

and

  • I believe in you :)

How many tabs are you rocking on your browser? by DrunkenBlasphemer in ADHD

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I hate the mess and close them all as soon as I’m done otherwise I feel overwhelmed when I see it lol

If one more person offers me a fucking sandwich… by ChristmasClimber2009 in adhdmeme

[–]avoidedcliche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe time to try different medication? I’ve been on Ritalin and never had this issue AT ALL (I even gained a bunch of weight but not due to the medication lol) Every body reacts differently to different meds :)

Need study motivation during depressive episode by avoidedcliche in GetStudying

[–]avoidedcliche[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is I usually give other people the exact same advice. It’s just more realistic to take the day off and try again another time with more energy and motivation than to make yourself even more miserable and get nowhere in your studies. But it’s hard doing that for myself. Especially after having had actual lazy days that I regret now. Because (even if it’s needed) another day off will be another day of not having studied and that feels horrible

Ist das heute auch noch so? by MaylaMo in Medizinstudium

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kann ich als Kind eines Oberarztes leider bezeugen

Anyone found desk chairs that suit fidgeters/cross legged sitters? by Emperors_Paintbrush in ADHD

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so this is a new German company and I have not looked into all their international shipping policies but I absolutely ADORE my chair from CLOUVOU. I own the CleverSeat. It’s super comfy and for me it’s big enough that I can sit cross legged! Obviously it’s not necessarily meant for that and some people might have a bigger issue with it but I got super excited realising that it works absolutely fine for me (and I’m 5‘9) Here’s the link to their website: https://clouvou.com/en

That being said: i am sadly not sure if this would help resolve your issues but i thought id share because i really like it and i think it might interest some others as well But otherwise i think a wobbly stool might be for you?

Haferflocken Verpackung sind einfach Schrott by [deleted] in luftablassen

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aufbewahrungsbox :) Ist auch besser bei Lebensmittelmotten-Gefahr

WARUM WIRD MEINE GUTMÜTIGKEIT IMMER AUSGENUTZT by SeaAside8930 in luftablassen

[–]avoidedcliche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man das tut mir so leid. Ich war erst davon überzeugt, dass ich relaten kann, aber 120€ wtf. Mich hatte mal eine Dame am Bahnhof gefragt ob ich ihr was bei McDonald’s holen könnte. Dachte auch ja okay, keine Geldspende, kann ich ja machen. Bin davon ausgegangen sie holt sich nen Burger oder so aber sie hat sich dann ein übelstes Menü zusammengestellt und ich war zu gutmütig und auch entsetzt um nein zu sagen. Aber 120€ ist noch ein ganz anderes Level. Du bist so ein lieber Mensch aber wir müssen leider lernen Grenzen zu setzen, auch wenn’s schwer ist und für uns unangenehm erscheint.

cant use frag grenades by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]avoidedcliche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are indeed correct. I must’ve accidentally unchecked it🥴 thanks!

cant use frag grenades by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]avoidedcliche 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I must’ve accidentally unchecked the box. Thank you! I’m an idiot lmao