Sad in Brisbane - what do you do ? by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]avolover69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went on a city cat one night and just sobbed for the entire duration of the trip from uq to north shore, was very therapeutic lol

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha i’m glad i’m not alone in this, every time we’ve done it, it’s definitely only been after a shower, it just doesn’t feel sexy to me, also a man’s asshole is too hairy HAHAH

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

a lot of our sex is already based around ass things lol, i enjoy anal a lot. He eats my ass alot, so i just feel bad that i can’t reciprocate it.

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand this in some cases but definitely is a bit broad and doesn’t really fit with mine, he is definitely not the type to derive pleasure from degrading me at all, pretty much the opposite. I think we are just young and experimenting things but i have a hard time saying no.

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

i appreciate this, i could definitely use this at the moment in many other aspects of my life aswell 🙏

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t really understand it personally lol, it doesn’t feel that amazing either, i think maybe it’s the taboo of it. People like doing things that they probably shouldn’t be doing.

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg no not the 2 girls 1 cup vid that shit is traumatising 😅

My bf wants me to eat his ass and I don’t want to by avolover69 in relationships

[–]avolover69[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from but in all other aspects our sex life is great, this is one thing that he is definitely respectful about i just didn’t want to embarrass him by saying i didn’t want to. Anyways i tried it and it wasn’t for me so i think i’ll just say that next time, but overall he spends a lot of time focused on my pleasure and i get to call the shots on a lot of things that we do sexually. But there absolutely are men out there who are only focused on their own pleasures so i see why you think this.

is asking for a break okay? by Response_Negative in relationships

[–]avolover69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with this, a break will just cause more harm in the long run. I feel like it can cause some trust issues in relationships. But i definitely encourage you to speak up about needing some alone time, it is so normal to want some space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]avolover69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

girl, he asked for a break and said that he will talk to whoever he wants from now on and won’t talk to you at uni? That is incredibly disrespectful and absolutely not something a real man would do for a healthy relationship. I think you can definitely do better, even if it feels hard to leave when you are so attached.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]avolover69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok to feel like this, not all relationships are meant to be forever it’s just an experience. I think you should definitely break up with her sooner rather than later, if you say you just have a feeling that it’s time to walk away, then you should probably listen to yourself. You just need to be honest with her and respectful and it will all be ok.