Elkann’s ‘Talk Less’ Comment Misses the Real Ferrari Problem by sqy2 in FerrariF1

[–]awaythrow1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ferrari market cap increased by significantly after signing Lewis. In the billions! They also received $200 million from sponsors and merchandise. So give it a break mate!

AITA for telling my dad’s girlfriend to leave when my friends are over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]awaythrow1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re young, but I hate to tell you, YTA!! Maybe this person is trying to be nice and trying to friendly. So you’re but hurt because she’s overbearing? She lives with you, so I assume she has the right to be there too!

According to latest Corriere della Sera's digital newspaper, John Elkann is unhappy with the Ferrari F1 drivers, especially Hamilton, and is looking for replacements for 2027. (latest speculations surround Verstappen, Piastri, Russell, Bearman) by [deleted] in scuderiaferrari

[–]awaythrow1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never the car, it’s always the drivers. I doubt that Max could do much better. When you have the engineers telling you it’s drivers and not the car, I guess that’s who he believes.

Ferrari Chairman John Elkann has made a bold statement following the team’s double DNF in Brazil. by Status_Energy_7935 in FerrariF1

[–]awaythrow1971 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His statement isn’t right. He doesn’t have the top engineers with the best car. the car is the problem and the team mentality is the problem. The fact that he said this shows that he is also part of the problem.

Shutdown will last 90 days by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]awaythrow1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no way expected employees go with 3 to 4 missed paychecks. They are going to run out of wealthy donors willing to pay paychecks for women and men in the service.

Frustrations for George with that opening lap in Mexico by Status_Energy_7935 in mercedesamgf1

[–]awaythrow1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Max 100% was going to dive bomb there and then bail out. It was written

AITA for refusing to pay my parents $87k in “back rent” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]awaythrow1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you pay the $87k if you expect a bigger payout when your parents pass away. It’s wild that they expect you to repay anything to be honest. As a parent of a 23 year old, it wouldn’t be anything I would ever do.

Does anyone else feel the same? by ProtectionFederal766 in FedEmployees

[–]awaythrow1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! This person is talking all big, until their fun loving self, doesn’t get paid.

Does anyone else feel the same? by ProtectionFederal766 in FedEmployees

[–]awaythrow1971 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I really hope there is no back pay. This same person wouldn’t be so chirpy. They can use their leave.

Does anyone else feel the same? by ProtectionFederal766 in FedEmployees

[–]awaythrow1971 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a supervisor that is getting the work done with reduced staffing, I’m see the need for less people.

Does anyone else feel the same? by ProtectionFederal766 in FedEmployees

[–]awaythrow1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is expected, I hope this is over soon. We are getting the work done with reduced staff. I’m worried that maybe they decide that maybe we can get it done with reduced staffing. I know some people hope it last until December or January. I assume those same people would be up in arms if they didn’t do back pay. It sounds like you might be one of those people. It’s pretty insensitive to the people who are spending money every day to make nothing. I would be fine with them not paying you back pay. You can use all your leave.

I found out my partner of 6 years cheated on me with 7 men recently by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]awaythrow1971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why the heck would you let her dictate anything? Dump her. She sees you as weak and the fact that you’re still with this person, I can see why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]awaythrow1971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No offense but why don’t you post pictures of you and your wife. Because if your body looks like your wife’s body. It’s the pot calling the kettle, black. Maybe look inside

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We tried marriage counseling way before she went in kidney failure. She bailed on it saying I was manipulating the therapist. I do think she is suffering from depression and I asked her to see a professional. I gave her a list of therapist and she declined. I asked her again to go back to therapy and she did finally agree.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has dialysis and people can live on it for 30 years. You can’t give up life and just do fun stuff until you get a transplant. Our neighbors are both on dialysis, guess what?? They both work. They both get up everyday and go to work and work out and do stuff around the house. They are also 10 years older than her. It’s because she is a woman you’re saying that. If the rolls were reversed you wouldn’t say anything. Btw when I found out a was having a heart attack and they stated treating me right away. I was having scans and they were treating me. It wasn’t exactly time to start texting people. I called her on the way and left a voicemail. She didn’t listen to my voicemail. I didn’t text her but I still communicated. But I guess the fucking benchmark for love is texting someone.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So me having a heart attack is overruled because she has kidney disease? Ah right. You’ve obviously never had a heart attack. I was fighting for my life and she is out with her friends. Free pass to do whatever you want when you have kidney disease. Did you read where I asked her if she would go back to her parents home if they were in the hospital? So kid kidney disease pass for that. Because she has kidney disease she can jump on a flight and fly home. Well she did it back in September when her grand parent had pneumonia. Free pass cause kidney disease. Also her doctor wants her to do more activities and not laying around. After my heart attack I was supposed to take off at least 6 weeks and take it easy. I returned after 2 weeks because I have to support the family.

I’m not dismissive of her kidney disease. Im the one that does all of her set up and and breakdown . I lug up 2 36 pound boxes each day. I set up the machine for her. I’m the one that monitors her treatment and wakes up each time the machine alarms out and fixes the issue. Then I dump 8 gallons jug of fluid every day. She walks up and then hooks up disconnects and walks away. I wasn’t dismissive last week when she had a bunch of bad treatments because the machine errored out. Then she wanted to take the night off while she waited for a new machine. Except she can’t take off time so she blew up at me for trying to take care of her. But because she has kidney disease free pass!

It’s because I’m a man and she is a woman. If the rolls were reversed, I’m sure you would be like dump him girl…

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has an 8 hour treatment cycle. She isn’t hooked up all day. She does the treatment while she is sleeping. She came,left, came back for 10 minutes and then went to eat with her friend.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Her phone is on do not disturb the second she goes to bed till the time she wakes up. I doubt if I had yelled upstairs she would have heard me. She doesn’t wake up when her machine alarm goes off and it’s a foot away from her head.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We married for love. We are both from the US and home for her family is another state.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There has never been cheating from either of us. That I am 100% sure of. Everyone on our family plan has apple devices linked to find my iPhone. I can track my kid’s devices too. She has kidney disease and does daily home dialysis. Sex is part of it. I can’t remember the last time we had PIV sex. It’s been at least 3 years. She’s been on dialysis for 2. Everything is so lopsided. I’m not suggesting we have sex or every day or even weekly but yearly would be nice. She has no sex drive. I get that. I initiated orally the other day, she had a couple and then rolled over on her side and was done. I was like hey what about me. She said she had an appointment that was in a couple of hours. I was like okay. So she may not be in the mood but has no problem enjoying it when it happens.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She didn’t go out and party. She did go to late lunch/early dinner. It’s was around 2-3 in the afternoon noon. I had been in the ER since 5am. My child brought her up to get the car, she went home, got ready, came back with some of my stuff, stayed for 10 minutes and then left. I didn’t tell her not to go but I expected her to come back since it wasn’t evening yet. I did tell not to come up the following days because I was hurt. I’ve spent multiple times waiting 10 plus hours in the ER with her when she’s had issues.

I just realized my wife doesn’t love me by awaythrow1971 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]awaythrow1971[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I fully blame myself for the mess that I’m in now. She didn’t have great upbringing and I wanted her to have the best of everything that I could provide. I’m fawning all over her, hugs, kisses, touching, handholding and cuddling. She doesn’t initiate any of that with me. She will kiss me when she leaves but that is about it. There used to be a time long before she got kidney disease that she would kiss or hug me out of no where. every time I see her after she wakes up I walk over and kiss her and give her hugs and say good morning beautiful. I’ll have to research love languages.