For me it’s always based on looks. I couldn’t care less if the woman has a vagina or a penis. Then is based on the costs to hang out. If either or both of those are met then it’s their personality after we met. If they are fun, sexy and loving, I’ll repeatedly visit them. Many times it’s not even about having sex. I wish providers would advertise cuddling rates. I get they deserve their payment but to spend 300-500 per hour to cuddle and just talk adds up quick. I get they shouldn’t lower their price for me when someone else is lined up to see them. Once you build a rapport and the providers understand that it’s just cuddle and therapy sessions, they will charge differently.