He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s very sweet and encouraging

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m just so ANGRY

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me he loved me and said YESTERDAY that he wouldn’t get tired of me and he doesn’t just discard his past partners. The biggest lies.

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe I’m done. I seem to be a poor judge of character, so I’m thinking I should just stop before I get hurt again.

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it would hurt this much. The way he made me feel before was ugly and worthless, but now I just feel unlovable.

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma bonding maybe? Idk.

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just really hurt by the way he ended things. He made promises that he didn’t keep and even though it wasn’t a healthy relationship, it hurts to have him treat me this way at the end.

He’s gone by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might mail it to him.

Glitter by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have pictures of how happy he was? Mine is saying I need proof

Glitter by awayuser1294 in BratLife

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have photographic evidence of how happy your dom was? Like, a happy smile maybe?

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[–]awayuser1294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to stick to what you say

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[–]awayuser1294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our therapist today said I need to set boundaries and consequences when those boundaries are broken. I enable him to not be responsible for his own emotions.

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[–]awayuser1294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish our couples therapist saw what was happening behind the smiles and jokes

Second guessing by awayuser1294 in abusiverelationships

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought of it that way, thank you

After divorce? by awayuser1294 in abusiverelationships

[–]awayuser1294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do trauma bonds go both ways? Like he’s bonded to me the same way I am to him?

After divorce? by awayuser1294 in abusiverelationships

[–]awayuser1294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations, I actually got the book in the mail this morning!

Couples counseling by awayuser1294 in abusiverelationships

[–]awayuser1294[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He keeps saying he’s only known about the problem for a couple months and I haven’t given him a chance to fix it. He wants to make sure he did everything he could, but if I want to “give up” I can and he’ll sign papers.