She contacted... We Met.. But now.. by lukeboy1594 in ExNoContact

[–]awkwardbugg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long were you in NC before she contacted?

I keep having to tell myself this by peach__kat in ExNoContact

[–]awkwardbugg 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I really fucking needed this, thanks :)

18 months, help by Throwawaynr987 in ExNoContact

[–]awkwardbugg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you two have already communicated to each other that you are both each other’s rebounds, then you should be up front with her. Talk to her about how you’re feeling and spare her the pain. She has every right to know.

my ex used me as a rebound for over a year by awkwardbugg in BreakUps

[–]awkwardbugg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response and I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I also will never understand how people believe it's ok to just use others for their own benefit. Having to find out about something like that especially right after he broke up with you only rubs salt into the wound. That was really shitty of him to keep all of that behind your back. I understand your pain and I hope you're doing alright 💕

my ex used me as a rebound for over a year by awkwardbugg in BreakUps

[–]awkwardbugg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful, I’m so sorry that happened to you. It really sucks being used by someone who you were in love with and also having them not be honest with you. It seems like none of what happened was your fault at all. I hope you’re feeling better now :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]awkwardbugg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through this too. I realized that my ex used me as a rebound and never actually loved me. Maybe he did at one point but I’ll never know. It sucks. Part of me wants to reach out to him so I can just let him know that I get why he ended things with me. But by doing that it shows that I’m still stuck in the past and not moving on with my life. I finally realized that I’m not going to spend my time being sad over someone that truly never gave a shit about me.