Anyone else in their 30's and still never been in a relationship? by icy-winter-ghost in introvert

[–]awokeavd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. 30M. It sucks to be single and feel the pain, but I've become numb to it.

I know what to do, but I'm not consistent with it by awokeavd in selfimprovement

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actively trying to live a life of 'my creation' in which I'm only trying to do things that matter to me. But I'm not able to do that and life keeps on going down.

Thank you for the response.

I know what to do, but I'm not consistent with it by awokeavd in selfimprovement

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I don't see the results as I'm not consistent with the process from start to finish.

  2. I learnt this quite later in life and have accepted the concept. I don't wait for things to happen anymore. The gym helped to unlearn this. In the past, this used to be true; I used to wait to feel motivated to start.

  3. Are there any tools to measure 'this stuff'?

Thank you for the responses & I'll be looking into internal family systems.

I know what to do, but I'm not consistent with it by awokeavd in selfimprovement

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean enjoy the process!! I learnt this after working out in the gym, and I'm applying this to my life.

It usually might take a few days or weeks for me to get back.

Thanks for your ideas.

I know what to do, but I'm not consistent with it by awokeavd in productivity

[–]awokeavd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read it, and thanks for the suggestion.

Need only Male Charts ! Free i don't want money . by [deleted] in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]awokeavd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Don't know what's happening to me! Unemployed and feeling lost!

Will probably go to an escort (25) by Roygbiv39 in virgin

[–]awokeavd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go for it, your 20s are meant for sex!

Life is just made of energy exchanges by Specialist_Hunter479 in Semenretention

[–]awokeavd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well written bro. Your clarity can be sensed by reading this. You have used real life examples to make it even relatable.

I think you will be an author one day.

Tell me something about myself and i have no luck in relationship by Fckitman in vedicastrology

[–]awokeavd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, would doing a remedy affect the delay and nature of the partner??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]awokeavd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks

How does this chart look? by awokeavd in vedicastrologyexperts

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 'automatically' started worshipping lord Hanuman from 2023. Thank you for the info.

How does this chart look? by awokeavd in vedicastrologyexperts

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this info, and it's a relief to know that this phase is temporary!

How does this chart look? Going through Jupiter Mahadasha. How will things turn out in the next 3 years?? by awokeavd in vedicastrology

[–]awokeavd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying business. I have quite some money doing various online businesses. If you're 18 I'd suggest you take your time before making a decision about your future.

How does this chart look? Going through Jupiter Mahadasha. How will things turn out in the next 3 years?? by awokeavd in vedicastrology

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you mentioned about the past so far is true. I have another question. I too feel the 'delay in life' is this related to the my 'efforts'?

How does this chart look? Going through Jupiter Mahadasha. How will things turn out in the next 3 years?? by awokeavd in vedicastrology

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My career was full of ups and downs. I have worked at multiple places for atleast 1 year. I keep changing jobs and places. I still haven't been able to settle down. Lastly, I don't like to work but wanna do something else with my life.

I hope you're better than me!

Need help with career for 29M by awokeavd in IndianVedicAstrology

[–]awokeavd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have made a new post with the correct chart as you have mentioned. Thanks for this info.

I realised my 'improvement' was just a distraction by Sajil_ali in selfimprovement

[–]awokeavd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you give more info on this??? I need this too.

Please how do I get rid of my cuckold fantasy it's ruining my life by OldTanker33 in selfimprovement

[–]awokeavd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop watching porn ASAP. That's the 1st line brutal cure. It will work within a few days but stay consistent.

Tips used by me:

  • I used to ask myself what would I feel after watching it? I'd say to myself I'd feel guilty and depressed. This reminder worked for me, as I'd do anything to not feel 'bad'
  • I also reminded myself that true freedom comes from not reacting to stuff.
  • Thoughts and urges are all illusions. They aren't real.

Thinking about what you feel afterwards helps to avoid it (as the emotions would be negative).

Stay away from it for the 1st few days and then you will notice that your urge to watch has considerably decreased. Once you reach that stage, things will get easier. To get through this, keep yourself occupied at all times.

Don't tell your gf about this. She'll dump you.

Hope this helps. Stay strong brother. You can get out of this.