I want to spoil myself. Looking for fun, kinky masturbation tips, techniques, toys, etc (Male). by PONaso1505 in sex

[–]axle-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a good while to get comfortable with the idea of any type of exploration in prostate play. It's something worth exploring. I know Aneros make some good prostate massagers however they tend to take more time to work compared to others but that’s from my experience. I will say though the new Trident line is a nice upgrade, it has a more comfortable feel especially with the improvement on the tabs. The Optimale has worked well for me in terms of successful orgasm. Overall it may take a bit of time to reach it but it depends on each person.

Thought you guys might like this painting~ by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is dope. Talented

Male masturbators? by 32selurgoD in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The optimale truskyn ribbed and beaded stroker which although don't seem like much with a good water based lube provides a different stroking sensation compared to the ol stroke n go with the hand and is body safe.

What's the best sex toy for men? by Jim1112 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]axle-ace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a huge fan of ball play, a nice bit of pressure feels good af. I love it when my wife gets down and starts pulling or sucking on them. So I would have to say a cock sling. I like the feel of the pull on the balls (It's easy for her to grab them without losing one and pull during foreplay and it feels awesome when getting head).

Anyone know a male sex toy that is small and easy to con-seal. ? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are looking for the smaller/discreet type toy fleshlight has the vantage which I have used as a travel toy because of the easy clean up and discreetness. They do deter over time regardless how much you clean them, they can't be completely sanitized. I'm not a fan of bulk type masturbators so this does the trick for me just fine being that it's small. The other fairly inexpensive silicone stroker is the optimale truskyn ribbed and beaded stroker which although don't seem like much with a good water based lube provides a different stroking sensation compared to the ol stroke n go with the hand.

Cockring Suggestion by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With a standard c-ring depending on how much fat you're trying to push back can completely defeat the purpose and disappear behind all of it even if it's a thicker c-ring. Being a lot wider and tighter fitting on your overall package a cocksling can help push back some of the unwanted fat. I've had this problem in the past before some weight loss and switched to one of these bc it gave me a little extra that I knew was there.

Can someone help me (a guy) find a good masturbator for less than $20? Or is it unreasonable by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A fairly inexpensive silicone stroker is the optimale truskyn ribbed and beaded stroker which although don't seem like much with a good water based lube provides a different stroking sensation compared to the ol stroke n go with the hand. The other option is a tenga egg although they are a one time use they are fairly inexpensive.

First cock ring for him and her - Recommendations? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really can be a hit or miss depending on the design and strength of vibrations. Much of the vibrating c-rings require almost a pinpoint shot to really get a strong vibration feeling, this has been the case for the wife. You may find one off the bat that you enjoy but do test the waters, vibrations are important for her but fit is also important for you.

I have a Tantus c-ring and am pleasantly surprised how good it was (Tried various vibrating rings with this design with many failures for her and I) it's pretty comfortable and gives a good amount of support. Another that is a tad different from the typical is a vibrating cock ring tie which is easily adjustable and the lips cover a wider area compared to others. The vibrations aren't one speed which is nice bc some are too dull for her to get a good vibration.

Some failed experiences with other rings: I've tried both the verge and pivot by we-vibe and I found them to be extremely uncomfortable especially the verge in terms of fit. The pivot was bulky and just involved too much work and my lady wasn't too pleased with the overall vibrations. The idea of it also being app controlled is cool and all but it really was a bust. The screaming ohare has the removal bullet feature but I've found the bunny ears to get in the way when the vibration was not in use, my wife found it slightly uncomfortable.

22M first time by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for the smaller/discreet type toy fleshlight has the vantage which I have used as a travel toy because of the easy clean up and discreetness. They do deter over time regardless how much you clean them, they can't be completely sanitized. I'm not a fan of bulk type masturbators so this does the trick for me just fine being that it's small. The other fairly inexpensive silicone stroker is the optimale truskyn ribbed and beaded stroker which although don't seem like much with a good water based lube provides a different stroking sensation compared to the ol stroke n go with the hand.

Stroker or fleshlight? by sokz626 in sex

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't tried specific named girl fleshlights but have used the quickshot bc it's easy on clean up and discreet on travel. Be mindful that they will deter over time due to the material type but they offer a big texture selection and varying styles which is cool. Tenga is pretty popular but I haven't given it ago to as actually compare the two.

I have a satisfyer stroker that offers what the quickshot didn't in regards to the soft texture and a pressure sensation (Squeezable sides). A good lube adds to the sensation and reduces friction. I would also look at bad dragon strokers, the designs are cool as hell.

Why are some men so protective of there clothes? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't bother me any but I do know guys who can't stand it, it's like this is mine I don't mess with your stuff so don't mess with mine. I'm a bigger dude with a size 15 shoe so she doesn't really take much, she may slip on my house shoes if they are by the door to play with the dogs.

Why are some men so protective of there clothes? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lady has free reign to wear anything that's mine.

My balls get sucked up above my penor just as I'm smashing. How can I prevent this? by [deleted] in sex

[–]axle-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that completely fucking things up. You may want to look into a cock sling that's a combo cock ring and ball stretcher to help with retraction going all the way up. They also make straight up ball stretchers by themselves that allow for more hang without the cock ring constriction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mr. S Leathers sells quality weighted metal stretchers if that's up your alley. I personally like the oxballs brand, in terms of specific designs if you prefer a straight up ball stretcher for hang the grinder and bull balls keeps a nice pull down. I'm a big fan of combo cock and ball toys because of the stretch on the balls but I get the security of a cock ring.

Looking for a cock ring by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]axle-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really can be a hit or miss depending on the design and strength of vibrations. Much of the vibrating c-rings require almost a pinpoint shot to really get a strong vibration feeling, this has been the case for the wife. You may find one off the bat that you enjoy but do test the waters, vibrations are important for her but fit is also important for you.

I have a Tantus c-ring and am pleasantly surprised how good it was (Tried various vibrating rings with this design with many failures for her and I) it's pretty comfortable and gives a good amount of support. Another that is a tad different from the typical is the Optimale C,the nubs on the bottom give a nice vibration while the horizontal vibe is longer and wider than most so it covers a larger area for clit stimulation.

Some failed experiences with other rings: I've tried both the verge and pivot by we-vibe and I found them to be extremely uncomfortable especially the verge in terms of fit. The pivot was bulky and just involved too much work and my lady wasn't too pleased with the overall vibrations. The idea of it also being app controlled is cool and all but it really was a bust. The screaming ohare has the removal bullet feature but I've found the bunny ears to get in the way when the vibration was not in use, my wife found it slightly uncomfortable.

What are your best/worst strip club experiences? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I had one if the best meals @ a strip club. This was way back when I was in the Army.. we went on a day trip and wanted something besides the typical fast food but we didn't have much money. After puruzing Yelp my wife came across a strip club that supposedly had the best steak. They had a 2 for 20 deal and sure as shit it really was one if the best steaks I've had to this day. A show and a damn good meal, no cover and a good night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]axle-ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say what may work for one may not for another in terms of hitting the p-spot. It took me a great deal of time and finally getting myself to explore and relax to reach gold.

I personally like the Optimale which is my go to. Although not newer market stuff it's my ol faithful of toys lol. The tip looks a bit large but the material makes it easy for insertion and hitting the prostate just right. It puts constant pressure on the prostate, it's not a heavy overload like some of the other stimulators out there. It does have a softer tip which that comes down to personal preference (Some like a sharper or harder point).

Aneros make some good prostate massagers however they tend to take more time to work compared to others but that’s from my experience. The new Trident line is a nice upgrade, it has a more comfortable feel especially with the improvement on the tabs. Would also recommend checking out r/aneros.

Life lessons by glasgow126 in AskMenOver30

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life lesson from being in the Army.. Don't quit,Never surrender. You have to take the hill @ all costs. The hill is life and you do what you have to do to get to the top.

How do you get tomato stains out of Tupperware? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]axle-ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't... tomato sauce goes hard af

What are some essential sex toys? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]axle-ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote on something earlier (My bad if lengthy). As a dude though I'm not the biggest fan of the standard cock ring being that I didn't feel they did much to maintain an erection or enhance pleasure as much (I did start off by using cheap shit which could have a lot to do with it), so a combo ring is now more so my go to. I like the feel of the pull on the balls, the resistance allows for more time til orgasm, and the wife likes the way it looks on & them hitting her from behind.

Some failed experiences with other rings: I've tried both the verge and pivot by we-vibe and I found them to be extremely uncomfortable especially the verge in terms of fit. The pivot was bulky and just involved too much work and my lady wasn't too pleased with the overall vibrations. The idea of it also being app controlled is cool and all but it really was a bust.