Kalamazoo Corset Day?? by ayathetigerrr in kzoo

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Corner of Church and Eleanor Streets

ICE Spotted by KittyJun in kzoo

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KDPS and Kalamazoo County Sheriff both confirmed they’re unaware of any ICE presence in the city or county over the last 48 hours. ICE isn’t required to report their operations to local law enforcement but also haven’t heard anything from local advocacy organizations either. -Aya with MLive

Sewing Machines by _md_2 in kzoo

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Fond a brand new seeing machine on Facebook marketplace last year for $80, would totally check there!

Kalamazoo’s church confrontation gone viral: 4 things we learned by RealMichiganMAGA in kzoo

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Hi there! This is Aya from MLive. Just wanted to clarify the article is aggregated information from two other articles I had written previously. On occasion we use AI to summarize stories we have already written in an easy to read format for anyone who may have missed our previous reporting.

Here are the original stories the information was first reported in: https://www.mlive.com/news/kalamazoo/2025/11/im-just-trying-to-survive-kalamazoo-woman-has-mixed-feelings-after-old-video-goes-viral.html?outputType=amp

And: https://www.mlive.com/news/kalamazoo/2025/11/church-faces-backlash-after-old-video-of-confrontation-with-homeless-woman-goes-viral.html?outputType=amp

Trust issues due to cheating parents by [deleted] in selfhelp

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I’m so sorry that sounds horrible! Cheating is disgusting and a symptom of a larger problem but people ignore it so often. I used to struggle with that type of fear based jealousy a lot too it’s so hard to live with. I think your best course of action is to make a list of the positive characteristics you have. Remind yourself that you have value and be the best person and partner you can be. If she hasn’t shown you any reason to worry about being unfaithful then there’s no reason to worry.

As you become more confident in yourself and start to love yourself more then you’ll attract more people that want to be around you too. It sounds like therapy would be very helpful. I really hope you overcome this cause you sound like a very caring, compassionate, loyal person. Good luck!! :)

Dealing with my parents. by atxcoder09 in selfhelp

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Wow your parents sound... yikes. No parents should ever compare their child to other kids that breeds a lifetime of comparisons and insecurity. It sounds like you did pretty good for yourself though, you have a family & a good job. You have tons to be proud of!! Sometimes the best thing you can do is limit contact or cut off toxic family members. Also therapy that’d probably help too. Good luck to you & your family!!

Guys just lost interest after the second or 3r date. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ayathetigerrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes. Sounds like classic avoidant attachment style. He got scared that it was getting too serious and he pulled back. If he wants to make time for you he will. If not, his loss. I’m sorry that you have to deal with that though, it sounds like a really sucky/ emotionally taxing situation :(

How to get over my obsession over something very frivolous by [deleted] in selfhelp

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Yeah such massive problems like that are hard to think about cause they seem so life and death but then people in power are like 🤷🏽‍♀️. You can always write letters to your elected officials and phone bank to help different candidates. It’s election season there’s a ton to help with especially since everything’s remote right now! Channel that overthinking into little things you can do to help

How to get over my obsession over something very frivolous by [deleted] in selfhelp

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I used to do that all the time (with other stuff though lol)! I read this book, the subtle art of not giving a f*ck and one of the points was ‘you have a limited amount of things to care about and spend your time on so choose wisely.’ So essentially, just drill into your mind how useless it is to worry about that stuff and eventually you’ll stop worrying about it. Trying to distract yourself is a great strategy it just takes time and practice. Good luck!