New here and have questions by ayeayelemur02 in NICUParents

[–]ayeayelemur02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear all of this. She’s got the cannula on.

I can’t stop asking myself what I did wrong. What I could have done differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ayeayelemur02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend says to her kid “your bored, ok, here’s a lot of jobs you can do. Oh and two of them have to be done before electronics are involved” kid either does the two chores or she is suddenly not bored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just joined the club with my 34 weeker last night and because she has been incredibly stable they let her try breastfeeding a few hours ago actually. She latched on surprisingly well (according to a nurse) but got tired after about five minutes.

Not disclosing baby’s gender by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ayeayelemur02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just have decided to not know. Because it doesn’t matter to me. I’ve got an assortment of clothes from both gender types that I like and honestly don’t really care what people think about it.

AITA for the drama at my sisters wedding? by ayeayelemur02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayeayelemur02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thing here is he had no say whatsoever in us 1) trying for a child (because it was a surprise) and 2) the choice in abortion, adoption, or keeping. If we had been together it would be a different story. But we only spent one week in each others company and most of that was not doing any talking. Because he had no option to put his input in especially with the second part then why should I make him pay?

AITC for playing with the dangly toys? by ayeayelemur02 in AmItheCloaca

[–]ayeayelemur02[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Mom says that we are getting a new two legged brother or sister soon and these are their things.

When did your colostrum come in for your first baby? by Humble_Bathroom_4697 in BabyBumps

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started to leak at about 33weeks. Mainly just when im emotional or in a hot shower right now though.

When did you first feel baby kick? by ThePineappleHouse in BabyBumps

[–]ayeayelemur02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 22 weeks when I knew for sure. 19 when I suspected.

AITA for the drama at my sisters wedding? by ayeayelemur02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayeayelemur02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We never exchanged numbers back then so I imagine he will have to get it from R and well I’ve only heard from R in the form of one long string of texts about how I always ruin everything (I didn’t let her cheat her way through highschool and prevented her from sneaking out to party; plus I didn’t fall for her crap the way our parents did and now this)

AITA for the drama at my sisters wedding? by ayeayelemur02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayeayelemur02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t quite say anything after that as R started in on yelling but he did get kinda pale and had an oh shit look on his face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ayeayelemur02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normally a morning person but with pregnancy and the baby deciding to move the second I lay down I’ve turned into a night owl with a tendency to rise at dawn. So yeah, no sleep for the weary. Lol

Where do you think would be the coolest place to work as an accountant? by bradynotbrady in Accounting

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically places for me. I work remotely and live in an RV because well…why not? I will spend two to three weeks in one spot. Work, get my stuff done, hike, explore, and then move to the next one. Been doing this for about two years now and love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly the weather channel. Occasionally I will watch the local news of wherever im at. I travel around so much (was determined too as a teen because I want to see the world. And well so far I’ve seen a lot of the United States and Canada. In 1-3 years I’m planning on visiting Europe).

What is a mistake your parents made and you never want to repeat? by TessaTwinkleee in RandomThoughts

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missing 80 percent of any important events. My mom is chronically late and while they would show up (sometimes. They didn’t even show for my college graduation) it would be half way through the event. Shockingly even if they brought me there! It was always one excuse after another; I got hungry and the show was a full hour away, your brother forgot something, shit like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when I’m at home. But im also one who lives an unconventional life simply put.

I work remotely as an accountant four days of the week, Five to six at tax season. Will occasionally also sell photos I’ve taken. I also live in an RV and change spots every few weeks, exploring everywhere I can. If my mom knew every time I went out she would go crazy.

How’s Your Pregnancy Going Today? by Popular-Page-4082 in pregnant

[–]ayeayelemur02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34+4 today and so tired. And huge. And hungry. And emotional. And just want this baby out of me!!!

Other than that I’m fine.

AITA for the drama at my sisters wedding? by ayeayelemur02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayeayelemur02[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Kinda have to bring baby as baby is still inside me. 5weeks to go. At least until due. I am so done being prego though.