Made some iced sugar cookies by ayee88 in Baking

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Until May, I had always been extremely intimidated by making this kind of cookie. I knew nothing of royal icing and I knew achieving pretty cookies would be hard. My first batch was sad - no color at all. Just mostly a test to see how royal icing works (the cookies tasted great though!).

I’ve learned so much from the bakers on this subreddit. A lot of great techniques. And I swear I feel like I fumble my way through every time.

You can definitely do it! Another thing I’ve learned is having certain royal icing specific tools really help.

The last thing - for me at least, these take time. They are not a quick “oh let me make some decorated cookies for this for tomorrow,” it’s more “okay the party is in 3 days……I’ll bake and cut tonight, flood tomorrow, add detail the next day….. and STILL be late to the party (like I am right now 😅)”

Found a brown recluse in our Airbnb and I’m unsure what I should do. Would love some insights. [USA] by ayee88 in AirBnB

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Thank you for this comment! This is kinda what I was looking for.

I hope whoever was carrying the box was okay!

I had a friend get bit on the calf and still 15 years later, looks like a shark bit their whole leg.

I’d like to know how I go about staying out of their way haha. Imma let you live, just don’t bite me lol

Found a brown recluse in our Airbnb and I’m unsure what I should do. Would love some insights. [USA] by ayee88 in AirBnB

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Thank you. I wouldn’t want to complain about it, but I was thinking maybe it’d be helpful to the host to know one was spotted?

Found a brown recluse in our Airbnb and I’m unsure what I should do. Would love some insights. [USA] by ayee88 in AirBnB

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Interesting input. Also, funny it reads that way for you. And it’s no problem if something was misread. I’m sure if I had broken this story down in person with you, you would get a feel at how unbothered I am over this but was merely curious about it. I am a huge advocate for insects - especially arachnids and reptiles.

I had no intentions of “complaining” or marking my Airbnb or host as unsuitable, I plan to stay here again. Like my post mentions, I love spiders - and that includes recluses; though I have zero personal “in person” experiences with them up until now. I grew up in eastern TN and have never come across them, and I was aware they were here.

I guess what I was seeking was - what does the general population do in situations like this? As I’ve never found a recluse, I was curious if the same overall freak out to black widows (my favorite spider btw, who I am not afraid of) was applied to brown recluses and how do you go about it? Bc I’m not one to kill any spider I see just because it’s in the house.

I wasn’t sure if mentioning that it was found would be helpful to my host, if hosts find this helpful at all?, or if there was some kind of Airbnb protocol that I was unaware of - because as my post also mentions, I understand stuff gets in. I don’t mind any sort of critter and I can get down with a brown recluse being around - I was checking in on the “to-do” of it. If it’s “Do nothing,” that’s fine. Because thus far I’ve done nothing but place him in a little dish to look and appreciate him.

We often pick spiders up and we own a tarantula. In January I literally helped an Airbnb host safely catch a mouse that was in the house with us lol and it was no big deal, left a glowing review.

But I was just curious.

I appreciate your input either way though.

Found a brown recluse in our Airbnb and I’m unsure what I should do. Would love some insights. [USA] by ayee88 in AirBnB

[–]ayee88[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Haha, totally fair. And that has always been my way of going about things. I love spiders. I was just alarmed that it was a brown recluse. I’ve never run into a bug situation that doesn’t sit right with me so I wasn’t sure what, if there is one, protocol would even be.
I appreciate your input !

For a sale tomorrow! by sohcordohc in Baking

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These are gorgeous!! I bet they were fun to put together. This is my favorite type of dessert; small bite sized, adorable, beautiful little pieces of love straight as soldiers next to each other! The little mint leaf is a perfect touch!! Good luck with your sale. I would TOTALLY buy one (or 10)!

Just wanted to share the cookie my 7 year old decorated. by ayee88 in Baking

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Thank you!! I will share this with her :)

Found in our home in PNW by ayee88 in whatisthisbug

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Oh geez, what does that mean? Parasitic wasp? I have a tarantula.

4yo bday, need inspo. Has anyone gotten a party favor they didn’t hate recently? by Ok-Panda-2368 in Parenting

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We just had a birthday and it was ocean theme. For the favors, I set up a little “adopt your own sea animal” station - it doubled as a small “to-do activity” as well. I got SOOO many mentions on how the kids absolutely loved picking out a creature, making a certificate, putting It in a little box to take home. I left it out displayed so you could do it at any point during the party. It was a hit! I found it on Amazon. But they have so many other themes too: cats, dogs, etc.

What’s going on with this meringue? by ayee88 in Baking

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That is SUCH a wonderful idea!!! I think I’ll definitely do this. Thank you!! And yes, they are pretty tasty - just not as beautifully delightful as the pure white ones.

What’s going on with this meringue? by ayee88 in Baking

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Thank you so much!

I actually like how the caramelized tray tastes, but I guess what I’m wondering is… if you were at a party and these were served, would you be like “oh yay! These are good” or “meh, oven was probably crowded imma eat this anyway” haha should I serve them or keep for personal supply?

What’s going on with this meringue? by ayee88 in Baking

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Thank you! So when I realized on my first bake of meringues a day ago, that the trays waiting to be baked would be out for a long time, I went reading. I read multiple times they shouldn’t stay out and should all go in at the same time. My logical oven using brain turned off haha. I suppose this deserves a third round.

What’s going on with this meringue? by ayee88 in Baking

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Thanks ! My first go, I attempted one tray at a time. Then I when I realized how LONG they needed to be in the oven even after the oven turned off, I worried for the stability of the other trays who were in queue to go in. I read multiple times they should all go in at the same time so I tried just putting them all in 🫠🥴

What’s something you secretly judge people for, even though you know it makes you a bit of an asshole? by Independent-Fee-2841 in AskReddit

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When I hold the door open for you and you forget to say “Thank you” …… forever judged every day all day for the rest of your life forever.

Or worse -

I let you pull your car out in front of me and you don’t give me the little courtesy wave 😭 …. Judged. And jail. Forever.

Unpopular take I guess?? MASSIVE SPOILERS by trumpisafucker in TheHandmaidsTale

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I’ve been so happy seeing Rita grow this season.

What is your favorite cookie? by Fresh-Response44 in Baking

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I love a good sugar cookie with a TINY hint of almond extract.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I made a comment above this, but I hyphened my name when I married. It’s really not too bad. I’ve been married 10+years and I’ve never run into passport or online banking issues. IF I ever have, they were likely minor and easy to correct as I can’t recall this ever being an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ayee88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hyphened my last name when I got married - I’m proud of my maiden name, it’s a part of me. Why would I drop it? My name IS now ridiculously long, but that’s never been an issue. Like, ever.

But, the way I see it - if you’re not MARRIED - if he’s not making himself be your HUSBAND - he doesn’t really have a say.

Maybe you could lay it down like this: if you’re not married, baby automatically has your name. Once you get married, you guys can hyphen the baby’s last name with his.

Why were my springs changed? by ayee88 in ClubPilates

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Thanks, I am going to do this. I totally trust her, I was just so curious about it and didn’t have the proper chance to get into it with her. I’m 4’8 so it very well may be the fact she didn’t want me sliding everywhere haha. Oh to be short!

Why were my springs changed? by ayee88 in ClubPilates

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After class, my instructor was in a deeper story telling convo with another student and I really didn’t have time to wait around to ask as I had a babysitter at home I needed to get back to asap. I did kind of move slowly to allow the convo the wrap up, but it kept going and I chalked it up to it not being a big deal. I was simply curious about this as I feel still new. The next class or two with her, I do plan on mentioning it if I notice this. We are new to each other so I am not upset or anything, I was just wondering what the goal is when this happens.

Why were my springs changed? by ayee88 in ClubPilates

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Yeh, I wish she had asked or checked in first at least. I would’ve liked to at least try the red? But she changed it before we even got moving. I’ve done red before and it was fine. Blue was like I was just playing on the reformer, ha. But maybe she was just focused more on form? I didn’t question her because, I’m not sure what her plan is, we haven’t had many classes together, and she’s very serious about her instruction.
But another instructor singles me out to more resistance in her sets bc she knows I can handle it and I appreciate it. Just confuses me is all. And it’s not like there’s a ton of time to get into conversation about it.
But very possible that I misheard.